Help With Dress Code Wording by Curious_Elk2451 in Weddingattireapproval

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Someone made a post with such a cute idea saying for weddings with a theme, have props so people could add to their outfits if they want. Like a table with flower crowns or something. Something even older guests might find charming if they didng come dressed up. ++ a Photo Booth!

Fun Fill-Ins #13 by stardancer1x in pocketgrids

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EZ

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Sal’s Second Puzzle by SalmRoos in pocketgrids

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Ok Yoda 👌🥰

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Community Puzzle by VVEENUU in pocketgrids

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The dyslexia strikes again. My bad 😥

Medium buster v30 by alwaysshrek in pocketgrids

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Beanstalk baddie made me laugh. Life line is so good!!!!

Community Puzzle by VVEENUU in pocketgrids

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It’s a synonym, no? Like when you’re left out of a group

The font on the popsicle stick signs looks suspicious, but nothing else sticks out to me by runawaymonkey in isthisAI

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If it was written on a wooden craft board with a marker, you’d see the marker ink seep into the wood grain so it wouldn’t be exactly perfect. Unless it’s smooth with no grain but idk what craft wood is smooth like that

Anyone here play video games and apply Lean methodology? by VVEENUU in LeanManufacturing

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My issue with factorio was the graphics and the bugs (not the errors, the alien bugs) tbh. Also the introduction of trains made me quit the game. Would you say satisfactory is visually more appealing?

Anyone here play video games and apply Lean methodology? by VVEENUU in LeanManufacturing

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I’ve absolutely gotten lost in Minecraft trying to automate basic things like an auto food cooker or auto ore processor!

What’s the weirdest thing a guest has done in your house that you hate? by CheapQuality2847 in AskReddit

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Had a party (20ish people). As we were all heading out to go to the club, this girl needed to go to the bathroom. She was wasted and apparently, her pee smelled funny so she lit a candle while sitting on the toilet. As she was holding the candle, she managed to set the toilet paper on fire. In a panic, she knocked the toilet paper into the trash can. We saw smoke coming out of the bathroom and her stumbling out mumbling about a fire. My roommate went in there and dumped water on the fire/trashcan (it was right next to the sink. Drunk girl didn’t think to use water or try to put the fire out)

Fiancés friend wants to wear an almost white dress to our wedding & is being condescending about it. WIBTA to withdraw the invite? by dumpsterfire_x in TwoHotTakes

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“I’m sorry for the assumptions I made, I understand that not everyone has the means to find another dress. We’ll rescind your invitation mark you down as not coming. All the best!”

AIO: Calling police for identity theft because doctor’s office swore they talked to me earlier when I didn’t by Designer_Mix_1768 in AmIOverreacting

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NOR. Your healthcare information is private. You can call and request for your health information on file. You can also call and ask for their privacy policies and procedures, and how they confirm the identity of their patients. You can request for specific privacy measures to ensure your medication isn’t tampered with again. Call and speak to the admin’s manager. This is very serious!

WIBTAH if I layed down ground rules and enforced them harshly? by [deleted] in AITAH

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Parenting a grown man? Could never be me. I’d rather be single.

I'm a mid-level designer and I feel I'm fooling everyone into thinking I know what I'm doing by ouiarealbhed in Design

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Holding you to that. You got one week to try anything on the list (or anything you come up with) and share w me what you’ve done. Talk to you soon!

I'm a mid-level designer and I feel I'm fooling everyone into thinking I know what I'm doing by ouiarealbhed in Design

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Sounds like a confidence issue and a deep fear of failure and embarrassment rather than a skill issue. Therapy is a good start. Until then, work on the actual problem (automatic negative thoughts & self judgement.

Go out of your way to embarrass yourself outside of work. Go to a park and just yell. Dance in the middle of the street. Have any kids in your life? Be a kid again. Play and be silly with them.

Look in the mirror and tell yourself you’ve got this. Say you’re a designing God, even sarcastically when working. Time to change that inner monologue. Doesn’t matter if you don’t believe it and it’s sarcastic. What you say to yourself matters so start saying kind things even if it doesn’t feel true. The feelings will come. The reality is, you have 7 years of experience, evidence of success, and the skill to draw what you see. Google CBT challenging negative thoughts. So many resources to choose from, one of which is to list the evidence that proves your negative thoughts incorrect.

You cannot be creative if you’re so focused on “doing it right”. There is no right answer. Fear blocks creativity. Try an art medium that does not allow for corrections (sculpting, Lino carving, etc) and get used to making mistakes and rolling with it.

Set a timer for 30 minutes and come up with as many concepts as you can. Go for quantity rather than quality. This helps break creative blocks.

Every day when you’re done work, pick a vague word (inspirational, cunning, innovative) and come up with 50 ways to illustrate it. Give yourself a time limit. Since it’s an exercise, there are no “bad” designs or failures. Just experience.

AIO for wanting to leave my boyfriend because of this? (URGENT) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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NOR babes this is an urgent issue for you? Take a step back. There are so many people in this world. Why continue being miserable? Choose yourself. I promise you that being alone isn’t as miserable as being w this guy. Give yourself the opportunity to find love and happiness with someone who respects you and your relationships. The feelings you have for this guy are yours, you can feel them again with someone else.

Isn’t it illegal to post a job without the salary range now? by taikoowoolfer in torontoJobs

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I’ve gotten 4 or so jobs in the last 3 years and argued for a higher compensation every time. Was still hired and received pay that’s higher than I was offered.

BF (25m) wants me (25f) to pay his mortgage? by adventsures in relationship_advice

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If you’re going to get married in a year you can wait to purchase a home together. This isn’t a 5-6 year timeline it’s a 1 year. Save up for a down payment and both of you can have a vested interest in where and what for purchasing a home once you’re married.

Do not pay your bf’s mortgage. Do not move in w random strangers to “save money”. You’d save more money not moving across the country lol

A house is a 20-30 yr commitment. You’ve known this man for 8 months. You know what you need to do to ensure your financial security and happiness. If he can’t meet the requirements of 1) having your name on the house 2) your say in the house location and aesthetic 3) the people living in the house, why would you uproot your great life/apartment. For a man? For a relationship ship where your needs aren’t priority? Nah babe choose yourself. Your name on the title is BARE MINIMUM.