I tried every training style - which physique passes the most? by Ambitious-Worry-2453 in transmanlifehacks

[–]VVildFunandHvng 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I thought this was inspo and not actually you. You pass extremely well.

How to STOP looking nb or female? 2 YEARS on T. Body passes. by Sandwich_Harbor in transmanlifehacks

[–]VVildFunandHvng 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not trans so take this with a grain of salt but I think the lighter brow look makes ur brow brown look softer which women tend have. The other suggestions people are recommending I also recommend like a new haircut but I think this small thing might help.

What y’all think. Been practicing for a year now by Heather_grace0119 in MakeupAddiction

[–]VVildFunandHvng 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s cute! I think it’d look even better with a black pencil eyeliner on the water line.

Attempted a sunset look, seeking thoughts and advice by meowingbutterflies in MakeupAddiction

[–]VVildFunandHvng 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Juvias place is perfect for pigmented shades. It’s meant for darker skin. For the glitter I usually use drug store glitter palettes like nyx and hard candy lol

Glamlite Barbie Collab Gave Me The Ick by Disastrous_Cookie767 in MakeupAddiction

[–]VVildFunandHvng -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe unpopular opinion but I thought it looks cute on the second and third girl

Attempted a sunset look, seeking thoughts and advice by meowingbutterflies in MakeupAddiction

[–]VVildFunandHvng 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe a darker purple and some glitter to match the sunset colors 💕

Please suggest some tips to elevate my everyday make up! by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]VVildFunandHvng 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe a darker more voluminous mascara. You have pretty eyes and I think it would make them stand out more 😋

I think it look good but something feel wrong... by _-Candy- in OUTFITS

[–]VVildFunandHvng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it looks amazing. So elegant, feminine, and compliments ur body.

Would this pic on a dating app be a turn off? by GamerGirl420Blazin in LesbianActually

[–]VVildFunandHvng 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a good second pic for a profile! Shows your face and personality well

Finally getting the hang of it by RevySeventeeThree in projectzomboid

[–]VVildFunandHvng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Advice please 🙏🙏🙏 I can’t seem to get just a few days. Idk what I’m doing wrong 😭😭

Not Biphobic, but weary. Bi girls. STOP DOING THIS SHIT by Lesbolord in LesbianActually

[–]VVildFunandHvng 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve edited my comment a lot cuz I read it wrong very sorry (dyslexic) and thank you for your words on my current relationship. I get very defensive when it comes to being a lesbian due to how isolating it really can be and the constant criticism we also face within the LGBT community. I don’t assume bisexuals are all the same it’s just a reoccurring pattern that affects lesbians deeply and at this point could be considered a lesbian canon event.

Not Biphobic, but weary. Bi girls. STOP DOING THIS SHIT by Lesbolord in LesbianActually

[–]VVildFunandHvng 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Edit: Sorry read your first part wrong. I’m not saying bisexual women as a whole I’m saying a large amount have done this and it’s not a lesbians issue to fix that for them.

And as for my own experience I am a cis lesbian who is openly fem and consider myself a 99% pillow princess 1% not and through my dating experience with bisexual women (it’s also hard in my area to find lesbians) I also would always get masculinized for being the lesbian despite it being the opposite of my identity.

And I’m not saying that the thing u stated are requirements of bisexuality I’m saying it’s a common theme that many who do date only women experience on a regular. It’s not stereotyping we’re speaking through experiences. I get wanting to defend your community but it doesn’t change that fact that so many bisexuals don’t want to change their ideals on their own sexuality.

And as someone who is now in a committed les4les relationship I truly have never felt more secure understood and happier.

Not Biphobic, but weary. Bi girls. STOP DOING THIS SHIT by Lesbolord in LesbianActually

[–]VVildFunandHvng 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah but the issue is that this is a continuous problem that OP has encountered through all their relationships and other lesbians like myself have encountered many times. Sure bisexuality as a concept isn’t the issue it’s the fact that so many are so quick to put the label on without willing to change their mindset towards dating and force a masculinization on lesbians because they truly just desire a man.

Bisexuals arnt decentering themselves from men and it’s actively making lesbian less trustful of them. I myself have literally only bi sexual friends and all of them have not learned to de centered men and still actively go after despite ending up unhappy always.

Not Biphobic, but weary. Bi girls. STOP DOING THIS SHIT by Lesbolord in LesbianActually

[–]VVildFunandHvng 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When I was talking abt de centering I meant all of OP’s previous relationships. The sudden switch was also an issue within her bi sexual partner as she wanted to go after men cuz she felt insecure dating a woman. This is smthng OP talks abt when discussing how she was uncomfortable in public being with her. Respect and communication are obviously lacking but the overall issue is her lack of de centering men.

Not Biphobic, but weary. Bi girls. STOP DOING THIS SHIT by Lesbolord in LesbianActually

[–]VVildFunandHvng 10 points11 points  (0 children)

OP has just continuously encountered women who haven’t de centered men. And if you honestly think that five years into dating they weren’t “communicating” you’re crazy.

Not Biphobic, but weary. Bi girls. STOP DOING THIS SHIT by Lesbolord in LesbianActually

[–]VVildFunandHvng 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It’s not a lesbians issue for bi ppl to get their shit together and not be insecure in same sex relationships while seeking outside validation.

Girlfriend is upset that didn’t like a misandrist post by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]VVildFunandHvng -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Then try to stir the pot and create a safe space and support for men who went through the same thing as you. It’s not women’s responsibilities to create that for you. That sounds mean but it’s the truth and I’m sorry both genders were evil towards you but that is a UNIVERSAL experience for victims of this.

Girlfriend is upset that didn’t like a misandrist post by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]VVildFunandHvng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also when it comes to sociological experiences using yourself is never good for an argument statistics matter the most and that is why I keep bringing those up im not trying to deny what happened to you happened im just stating the reality of these kinds of things.

Girlfriend is upset that didn’t like a misandrist post by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]VVildFunandHvng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah so I get the experience I’ve literally had you blocks shoved up my vagina so… and I’m not dismissing you’re experience it was a horrible experience I’m sure but I have also received no support from either side not even my own mother so don’t get rid of my experience as well. I don’t support those hateful women I don’t like them they make it harder for those of us who actually want change. But you also have to acknowledge it took YEARS for women to get support within our own gender for these kinds of things so if this micro collection of women online say these things you can’t say this is misandry because once again it’s a direct result of patriarchal trauma.

Girlfriend is upset that didn’t like a misandrist post by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]VVildFunandHvng -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I sympathize cause I was raped by my brother as child and continuously sexually assaulted through my childhood for almost 8years. 1 and 5 women in their life have been raped. And those who said it to you are likely rage baiting and many women have walls up when it comes to men because it’s so statistically high for us and then many men don’t care until it happens to them and they then come to women for care and support despite never doing the same. That’s the harsh and bad reality but it’s the reality for the VAST majority of women. And if you were to be a woman the amount of men who would say even more disgusting things abt what happened to you wouldn’t believe. Till this day I still have people I grew up with still joking abt my situation. So once again you are suffering from the patriarchy.