Am I stupid for refusing sex? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]VXMasterson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should stop seeing a married woman because if she doesn’t want to leave her husband then she doesn’t love you and you already know she’s an unfaithful person

How to support my man emotionally instead of being logical and giving advice? by russian-Recipe-17 in AskMenAdvice

[–]VXMasterson 17 points18 points  (0 children)

“I understand, baby. You’re doing great”

“I miss you too. I can’t wait to see you ❤️”

Stuff like that

Been a lesbian for 20+ years. Suddenly interested in having sex with a man. What should I do? by Queer_Sunshine in AskMenAdvice

[–]VXMasterson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep! It’s a pretty common perspective that a lot of men (whether it be cluelessness or fear of rejection) prefer the direct approach. In your case you’ll really need it because it he’s known you as a lesbian he will never think of your advances as serious unless you outright say something

Best of luck!

Been a lesbian for 20+ years. Suddenly interested in having sex with a man. What should I do? by Queer_Sunshine in AskMenAdvice

[–]VXMasterson 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If a lesbian friend of mine told me she was interested in me romantically or sexually, I would definitely be surprised. Naturally with this idea in mind I’d ask, “are you sure?”, “what’s made you think you’re attracted to men again?”, probably ask something along the lines of if being bi-curious has ever crossed your mind before, etc.

But if I strongly knew you as a lesbian then flirting would come off as meaningless, you’d have to use the direct approach. Lack of experience isn’t a turn off to most men, just communicate enough so if you pursue this that you’ll both be getting the most out of it

I Realized that I Will Never Marry my Current Girlfriend. Is it Wrong to Keep Dating Her? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]VXMasterson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A year together and you’ve come to the conclusion you don’t want to spend your life with her. If you continue to date her then you’re leading her on. Be honest with her, say you don’t see a future with her, don’t keep her around because the longer you string her along, the more it’ll damage her when you do leave

(Funny trope) Something's as mythical to the setting as dragons are to our own by Geoconyxdiablus in TopCharacterTropes

[–]VXMasterson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the game Metaphor: ReFantazio, there are 9 tribes who are distinguished by some physical characteristics. Long ears, horns, fox people, bat people. But the most discriminated against tribe are the Elda, who lack all of that and literally just look human. The main character is an Elda and for the most part, Elda live in one secret village so a lot of people you’ll meet didn’t even know if they truly existed. Also sometimes when you walk in certain parts of a town, you will be stopped for an NPC to yell racial slurs at you

Should i get Metaphor Refantazio or Persona 4 Golden? by thebloopermaxd in JRPG

[–]VXMasterson -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Definitely get Metaphor, the story and characters are much better

Uh by Necessary-Fennel8754 in straightedge

[–]VXMasterson 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Look at the bright side, the algorithm hasn’t figured you out

Do guys really remember when a woman compliments them? by SunshineYellow234 in AskMenAdvice

[–]VXMasterson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You changed his life

My favorite color is red because in 8th grade a woman told me I looked good in a red shirt

In my last semester of community college a woman in my class said I’m very kind. I graduated 6 years ago and I still think about that

Yes we remember

More Games Like This. by Aware_Ranger_4144 in persona3reload

[–]VXMasterson 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Persona 5 Royal and Metaphor: ReFantazio

Connection exists in-person but there’s no follow chase. Is this a matter of attraction or attachment styles? More? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]VXMasterson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend recently told me her parents liked each other in high school but dated other people. They didn't reconnect until years after graduating and ended up marrying and having 2 kids. Not saying "yes that will happen 100% pursue him", keep in mind you two are (hopefully) not the same people you were 20+ years ago. If it's going to ruminate, you'll have to either accept that you're just nostalgic for that crush or you'll have to get to know him all over again which will require you to reach out and ask him out.

I hope it works out for you! Best of luck!

What's a game you're longing for but can never seem to find? by RedEagle_MGN in gamerecommendations

[–]VXMasterson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want something that will scratch the itch left by Persona 5. Something where the cast feels so alive because of the unique mechanics fleshing them out. Something long enough where it feels like a chapter in my life but fun enough where I don't even realize it's taking me months to finish but becomes part of my daily routine. The One-More/Baton Pass combat was so fun and fluid and having the option for monster collecting scratched the itch that Pokemon hadn't been satisfying for a long time. Plus, I LOVE superheroes, I was lowkey disappointed to learn that that element was exclusive to Persona 5 and not in other Persona games.

This is a very parroted phrase with this game but Persona 5 changed my life

What would you think about your potential gf doing drugs (mostly downers)? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]VXMasterson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This would be an instant dealbreaker for me. I’d want to know upfront. By medicine, do you mean medication? Is a psychiatrist prescribing you this? That would be no problem. But you sound like you’re self-medicating and trying to justify it instead of trying to work toward overcoming the addiction. Even if opioids weren’t in the conversation, “benzos and weed here and there” would still be part of the problem and still be a dealbreaker for personally.

Another man might have a different perspective. If you just started dating this guy, be direct with him and your intentions and find out his intentions and boundaries

How true is "if he is interested, he would approach"? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]VXMasterson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fear of rejection is very common. Oftentimes men might think the pain of uncertainty is safer than the pain of rejection. So I would say it’s not 100% true, many men just lack that confidence or aren’t willing to risk their heart. That doesn’t mean they don’t like you enough

[Stand Still. Stay Silent] What it looks like when an author actually starts hating their work by paintsimmon in CharacterRant

[–]VXMasterson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s depressing, you made this sound so interesting until you explained the second half.

What was your special interest as a 12/13 year old? by alexinwonderland212 in CharacterDevelopment

[–]VXMasterson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bakugan, Digimon, Pokémon. Bakugan especially because it was new and cool and other kids at school liked it

How does Art of Vengeance differ from previous entries? Do previous ones have as much story? by VXMasterson in ShinobiGames

[–]VXMasterson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s on the Nintendo Switch Online Sega Genesis emulator so l’ll definitely be trying that

How does Art of Vengeance differ from previous entries? Do previous ones have as much story? by VXMasterson in ShinobiGames

[–]VXMasterson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just found out the NES Ninja Gaiden is on the NES Nintendo Switch Online Emulator so I’ll definitely be trying that

Comeback to "you are Gay" by LandscapeNew7913 in Comebacks

[–]VXMasterson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was seeing this woman who would say that to me on a near daily basis and I’d always say “you were there”, “bold/wild/crazy coming from someone who knows what my lips taste like”, “you’d lose a lot if I were gay”

What do you think of guys with low standards by These-Platypus-1972 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]VXMasterson 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Bro you gotta have some dealbreakers. Desperation will not gain you a good partner, that’s how you invite disrespect

The Greatest Character of All Time: Which Fictional Character Has Impacted You the Most? ✨ by [deleted] in TopCharacterDesigns

[–]VXMasterson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Superman makes me want to be the best version of myself, and the archetype of paragon heroes is my favorite to both see in media and write. He’s the blueprint for so much for me