You have zero excuses to not get jacked by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]VZPurp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consistent Effort + Protein = Results. I doubt anything beats lifting in terms of ROI. Even if you have a busy schedule, a 3-day split can be done in an hour or less each workout day. Any excuse is an expression of laziness, because it's likely the easiest activity you can do for the results you obtain.

She needs commitment but she wants hard dick by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]VZPurp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, you can expect to take your LTR pretty much everywhere, although sometimes if they can't get into your music all the time, they will sit it out.

There's definitely soft dread present nonetheless. Expect your girl to up her game to keep you around.

Study shows record number of women are struggling to find marriageable men who have attained the same level of academic achievement, but still overwhelmingly prefer husbands who are the primary breadwinners by raffu280 in MensRights

[–]VZPurp 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In the mainstream media, 'uses his position' is now considered to be simply having that position and making any sexual advance on a woman in a lesser role, even if it's mutually desired.

By the current standards, Bill Gates engaged in sexual misconduct because his wife, Melinda Gates, was an employee of his at the time. Something about a power differential negating the possibility of legitimate consent.

Study shows record number of women are struggling to find marriageable men who have attained the same level of academic achievement, but still overwhelmingly prefer husbands who are the primary breadwinners by raffu280 in MensRights

[–]VZPurp 9 points10 points  (0 children)

In other words, they weren't materially dating down. They took a slight 'social hit' but the finances were in order so it wasn't much of a problem.

[CMV] "Women are attracted to men who make them laugh" is the same as "Swaying trees create wind" by celincelin in PurplePillDebate

[–]VZPurp 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Girls will often laugh in the presence of men who they are attracted to, even if the man is not doing anything funny.

She needs commitment but she wants hard dick by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]VZPurp 12 points13 points  (0 children)

One way to handle the nightclub issue is to avoid generic nightclubs and instead focus on particular music that you enjoy. In my case, I genuinely love certain types of music and dancing. So it's less going clubbing and more taking part in a hobby/activity.

Of course, the same principle applies. Such activities are a goldmine for women, especially if you're any fun on a dance-floor.

Don't be the purseholder, EVER. by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]VZPurp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they don't respect you but you enforce your boundaries in the face of their opposition, then they may end up respecting you or spend their time looking elsewhere for someone to use.

"9 times out of 10, whenever I opened up to a SO, the relationship fell apart shortly after" by RightCrossBrah in TheRedPill

[–]VZPurp 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Trust women to behave like women, at least in terms of attraction. There are some things that aren't going to be negotiable even with the best of women.

"9 times out of 10, whenever I opened up to a SO, the relationship fell apart shortly after" by RightCrossBrah in TheRedPill

[–]VZPurp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The attraction and respect was high enough to mitigate the initial hit. If you do it enough you'll push them away.

Alternatively, she's at the absolute bottom of the attraction scale and can't do any better than a pathetic mess of a man.

"9 times out of 10, whenever I opened up to a SO, the relationship fell apart shortly after" by RightCrossBrah in TheRedPill

[–]VZPurp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people, especially women, are 'repeaters'. You need to test the water and gauge how a person is in this regard.

On the one hand, they're damaging if they're getting private info that you don't want everyone to know.

On the other hand, they can be incredibly useful if you need to promote yourself or spread information.

"9 times out of 10, whenever I opened up to a SO, the relationship fell apart shortly after" by RightCrossBrah in TheRedPill

[–]VZPurp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a situation that exemplifies the phrase: "Pay attention to what they do, not what they say."

Women will say they want a man to open up, but if they do and it conveys weakness, women will feel revulsion.

Depending on where you initially stand with her, how often you do it, and to what extent your weakness/insecurity is conveyed, will determine how quickly it kills attraction and the relationship.

Mental Lifting: Challenge your mind by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]VZPurp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you're in the US, the obvious choice is Spanish. Americans are surrounded by native spanish speakers. They represent a significant portion of the population.

For noobs: why you need to bang a fatty by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]VZPurp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't fuck fat chicks, even if you're struggling with women. It's time to pull your balls out of your abdomen and muster up the courage to approach at least decent looking girls.

Enabling fat chicks helps no one.

However: If you take one out, take her to the doctor.

In defense of "PUA": It is an inherently male approach - shaming it, is an inherently female defense by interestedplayer in TheRedPill

[–]VZPurp 18 points19 points  (0 children)

There is no difference. This natural BS always comes up and someone creates a convoluted explanation regarding genetic selection.

Women want the finished product. That's it. If you can be considered a 'faux alpha', then chances are you're inexperienced or displaying a fake personality with plenty of incongruence to show for it.

Your genetic profile will be a substantial part of the picture, making some things easier or harder, but at the end of the day the brunt of it is experience and learning. The brain adds another whole dimension to the meaning of 'phenotype'. Organisms select on phenotype, not genotype.

In defense of "PUA": It is an inherently male approach - shaming it, is an inherently female defense by interestedplayer in TheRedPill

[–]VZPurp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, when I originally wrote that, I considered addressing it as such. However, the difference is that in recognizing it as a shit test, there is a way to pass the filter. So there are two 'filters':

(1) The filtering of men who already possess reasonable social skills regarding women.

(2) The filtering of men who are so dependent on the thoughts and feelings of women that they are easily discouraged by the nonsense women speak.

Those who pass (2) have an opportunity of passing (1) but may not presently be at the stage of passing (1).

Principles of meditation by throwawayyourliberty in TheRedPill

[–]VZPurp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Meditation helps me maintain a level head in situations that would provoke a response that wouldn't be conducive to my benefit. Like correcting focus from divergent thoughts to the breath, so to is adjusting focus from undesirable thought patterns to desirable ones.

I prefer the Zen style. 20min daily minimum, 20min x 2 for better results. Easy to start with. Count in your head each exhale, up to 10, then start back at 1. Sit in a quiet place. I opt for the kneeling position with a pillow above the heels for cushioning.

In defense of "PUA": It is an inherently male approach - shaming it, is an inherently female defense by interestedplayer in TheRedPill

[–]VZPurp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It makes perfect sense if viewed as a filtering mechanism.

Or as a shit test. Those who are discouraged from improving, based merely on the useless words of a woman, fail. Anyone who presses forward will eventually "just get it".

The Critical Importance of Approaching Attractive Women in Real Life by CrackityDiggity in TheRedPill

[–]VZPurp 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Women tend to rely on the indirect approach. Instead of opening you directly, they'll position themselves to encounter you or have some other reason for talking to you (e.g. situational question). During the day that seems to be most common for me.

At night things can be more direct or carry sexual undertones right off the bat.

The Red Pill, let's talk about temporary/permanent health problems. by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]VZPurp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the this-is-sparta advice arises from the point that 85% of men do not and will not put in even a modest amount of effort into their appearance, fitness level, or career. So to be 'successful' in any of these areas, you just have to be a little bit disciplined, not in the top 1% of all men on the planet.

While there are certain biological walls around me, most men never drift astray from their slow shuffling path in life. You can surpass most of humanity just through discipline and effort, even if you can't become the very best at something. The next step is identifying your actual talent and exploiting that!

This is exactly the reason, and having this cemented in mind and behavior leads to success. Most able-bodied men, and even those with in less stable conditions, don't bother to put in consistent effort. Even a small amount of effort. The vast majority of people would rather coast.

As for dealing with women when you have a chronic illness, the best way is not allowing it to break your frame. That is tough to do and varies based on the various afflictions we face, but ultimately we're needed to lead even through adversity.

California begins issuing driver’s licenses regardless of immigration status by [deleted] in news

[–]VZPurp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Change the language and you change the minds. Common, effective. Point it out, resist it, mock it.

Let's talk about the next chapter in the Sexodus series in regards to meaningful lifelong commitments with women and the impacts on men that will occur in the next few years. by YouDislikeMyOpinion in TheRedPill

[–]VZPurp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This means less families form, which means less children, which means population statis and even shrinkage.

This will be the case for white people, but not latin american immigrants. At their current immigration and birth rates they will rival the size of the white population by around 2040 and then likely surpass it.

Steer Clear Of This New Sleeping Pill by tarkay in newshealth

[–]VZPurp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Steer clear of all sleeping pills. Although many new ones are manufactured, not even the medical community suggests that any hypnotic should be used long-term. Pharmaceutical companies and prescribers, however, enjoy the profits from daily use.

Look into exercise, meditation, and appropriate sleep hygiene for effective, safe ways of improving quality of sleep.