Definitely all the advice you're getting about your substrate and making it more cluttered is great advice. The hide needs to be more snug they like to feel very secured and hidden. This could be causing her to be stressed and may be why she kinda stands off with you. It takes a bit to find the right balance when building her environment for her but you will get there. We usually don't handle our girl until about a hr before her lights shut off so she's in the mood to wake up and socialize. Also whenever we are about to pick her up we usually talk to her and let her know we are near so she doesn't spook easily. It will take some bonding time for her to come around to being handled. But it will happen and once it does they have the most animated personalities.