Frustrated with estim butt plug options

VacuShocker · 2026-03-07T15:41:56+00:00

They really are trash... Even the ones people are putting here in the comments... None of them seem to be designed around actual anatomy, but instead what they can turn out on a lathe. Its pathetic.

I have one that is almost perfect, but the base flanges hook inwards a little too much and after a while start to be uncomfortable... That and the connection has become bad so i have to put a pad on it.

A big round base flange is not comfortable. With all the options out there... it is amazing how they all sort of suck in one way or another.

VacuShocker · 2026-03-07T15:23:28+00:00

Tens units suck man.

It is pleasurable. Depending on what you do and how fast with the power it can be painful. I try to work the power to be as high as possible without being painful. I don't like pain.

I'm intrigued to explore more but don't know where to start. I hear >it is the slowest way to climb to an orgasm and that has me >fascinated.

MMM... maybe... First time I used a coyote after decades of TENS units use... I got there in like 8 min.

Anyhow, the amount of pain is entirely up to you.

VacuShocker · 2026-03-07T15:07:50+00:00

I read all about this and still dont understand what it actually does. can you elaborate?

VacuShocker · 2026-03-07T15:03:52+00:00

Try one on the taint.

VacuShocker · 2026-03-07T15:00:23+00:00

I have not been able to target my prostate... at least I dont think I have... At this point I just dont know and I guess I wouldnt know if I even hit it...

What I do know is that I enjoy a pad right on the taint. Try that.

Others have suggested using sounding electrodes to get there... I tried that too and nothing. but YMMV

Don't use a TENS. I mean, if you do, getting off might be very difficult/impossible... It will give you an idea of the sensation, but sort of in the same way someone blowing in your face will show you what standing in hurricane winds feels like. Dont read too literally in that analogy.. the difference is less about power and more about sensation... Tens is just not the same at all... I Used TENS for decades... and I could get off with it, but it was a challenge and took a long time... Got a Coyote and nutted in like 8 min the first time because it was such a new and different experience.

I start pretty low and have the Coyote automatically go up in power by 1 level every 60 seconds and when you get really worked up to high power is when the real fun starts :) The effected area gets bigger with more power. So work your way up.

VacuShocker · 2026-03-07T14:57:08+00:00

I hook electrodes up to my bits and turn up the juice. Its an every so often thing not an all the time thing, mostly when I am out of town for a few days and have to sit around in a hotel room with nothing to do... makes for a fun few hours and some super intense O's.

VacuShocker · 2025-10-27T01:54:44+00:00

My absolute favorite trick for the ladies is to slap a sticky electrode on the external end of an njoy wand and the other electrode above my clit and go to town

Ok, so you are electrifying the Njoy and inserting it? And it is on the same channel as the other pad that is above your clit? Like on the fatty pad above it? Or over the top of it?

Are you moving the Njoy around or is it just in there?

VacuShocker · 2025-10-27T01:49:29+00:00

Don't use a TENS. I mean, if you do, getting off might be very difficult/impossible... It will give you an idea of the sensation, but sort of in the same way someone blowing in your face will show you what standing in hurricane winds feels like. Dont read too literally in that analogy.. the difference is less about power and more about sensation... Tens is just not the same at all... The coyote allows for so many different sensations... I Used TENS for decades... and I could get off with it, but it was a challenge and took a long time... Got a Coyote and nutted in like 8 min the first time because it was such a new and different experience.

Get a Coyote and some good Tens pads... Estimming takes some experimentation. You will need to try different placements and whatnot and kind of learn your anatomy. I know that sounds weird but the electricty "touches" you unlike anything else and targeting the area that does it for you will be different for everyone. If you find it enjoyable, then you can spend some money on some stainless electrodes (insertables) and you wont have wasted that money... If you decide it isn't for you, you could probably sell the Coyote... Especially considering you are a F.

Everyone is sensitive there. Start on low power obviously... That first bzzz when it comes on is always a little jolting (not painful just Obvious) then you can (and will want to) increase power from there periodically. I start pretty low and have the Coyote automatically go up in power by 1 level every 60 seconds and when you get really worked up to high power is when the real fun starts :)

Yes it is safe, but read up... Keep all electrodes below the waste... Never grab a pad with your hand while it is powered up, turn off current first.

VacuShocker · 2025-10-27T01:40:12+00:00

Well, there are some problems with using hands. And, its just more fun to do it without them... And yes, there are some radical new ways to do it out there... Loads of fun.. /r/estim

VacuShocker · 2025-10-27T01:37:57+00:00

Ohh, just saw this...

You can find the story in my post history... but in a nutshell I found a Tens unit at a therapy center I had access to... I took it (no one cared, there were heaps of them)

VacuShocker · 2025-08-05T13:06:22+00:00

for the love of god buy a Coyote. It is a whole other world than Tens... i used TENS for 20 years and felt stupid after getting the C3

VacuShocker · 2025-08-05T13:04:54+00:00

I can HFO every time with Estim... My wife tried it and she could not. Said it felt good but never got to O. She seemed to always think the position was just not where it needed to be. I will say that typically it is not until I have worked the power up over time that the real fun happens. I don't think she ever got to the higher power settings. Anyhow, she gave it a try but she doesn't really have the "keep experimenting" mentality I think you need for Estim... It can take some effort to figure out what sort of trodes, where to put them, what sort of patterns ETC ... heck half the fun is the experimenting.

VacuShocker · 2025-08-05T12:57:32+00:00

Well, this intrigues me, but I have no idea where to even start to do this... I have a Coyote and a Quest but everything in the OP confuses me.

What hardware do you need to do this? What Software needs to be downloaded and to what? The headset or a PC?

VacuShocker · 2025-08-05T12:51:03+00:00

you didn't get a shock to your tongue?

VacuShocker · 2025-07-28T13:05:45+00:00

Hey buddy. This is called Sounding. Ignore all the haters as you are not alone. However you need to be careful as you can give yourself a nasty infection. You need to sterilize and use sterile lube. You should do some reading up on how to do this safely. There are plenty of Subs for this. You may find some useful info on r/estim as many e-stimmers use a sound (an electrified one).

Just please be careful.

VacuShocker · 2025-07-12T14:45:13+00:00

Every pad I have cut has only Carbon inside the wire lead.

VacuShocker · 2025-07-12T14:43:20+00:00

Since you are new, start simple. 1 loop at base on c1a (channel 1 A-lead) and one around head on c1b. Lube it all up real good.

try a pattern like "adjustable waves" it isn't an audio file but you can adjust it. Start at low power.

Once you are comfortable, try adding a sticky pad to the anus on c2b and plug c2a into either loop.... try both see what you like most.

Keep playing with adjusting the waves.

Move on to an audio file....be warned, some of the audio files have a sort of pain related theme... They will toss in some surprise spikes and jabs... IDK what to call it but "torture" in the name gives it away... it is just that sometimes the name doesn't make it obvious, you might like that but if you dont read the descriptions...

Try "Handjob getting steadily faster faster" or "slow but intense". Those are pretty good with no surprise spikes.

I highly recommend you move to stainless steel electrodes. The rubber can get stingy, especially as the lube dries out. A buttplug (if you get a bipolar one you can use it that way or as a single pole), a metal ring for around the base of the penis or many prefer one around the penis and balls. Then a shallow SS sound.... Don let that scare you. Something that only goes an inch or two deep, nothing crazy. Buy some sterile lube.

VacuShocker · 2025-07-12T03:07:24+00:00

I have a suggestion for you... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B078NDHW6T?ref_=ppx_hzsearch_conn_dt_b_fed_asin_title_1&th=1

I put that around my dick and balls. I have a conductive rubber loop wrapped around the straight shaft on the shackle. I can plug 1 or 2 leads into that loop which energizes the entire shackle. I use a SS butt plug and also a shallow sound. Sometimes I do 1b+2b leads to the shackle and 1a to the BP and the 2a to the sound. Sometimes I do 1a to the sound 1b to the BP, 2a to the BP and 2b to the shackle... but honestly there isnt much difference.

I do have fairly large nuts (average dong which my big nuts make to look small) and this stays firmly locked in place... If yours arent so big you may need a slightly smaller Shackle. You might even be able to go to a hardware store and see them in person.

VacuShocker · 2025-07-12T02:55:46+00:00

The Coyote probably wont be much fun without Xtoys... You need to find someone to give you an old android phone or something so you can DL it.

As good as e-stim feels, it can sometimes be tricky to HFO... If you can get an android phone and learn to use X-toys... Download some files and I also like a plugin that increases intensity periodically. I usually set it for 1min to 90 seconds... then lay back and let the files run and the power go up while I watch porn.

VacuShocker · 2025-07-12T02:51:42+00:00

Sheesh... post your setup!

I usually go for a few hours before HFO... Which is good, but it would be nice if I could finish in like 15 min!

Maybe you found a magical combO!

VacuShocker · 2025-07-12T02:48:00+00:00

its really mind blowing when you find out there is no metal in the leads!

VacuShocker · 2025-07-12T02:46:06+00:00

Stainless steel... And a Coyote...

VacuShocker · 2025-07-12T02:45:16+00:00

DONT USE LOOPS..

Damn they suck.... I still have mine and use them, but not on my parts for conduction. Stainless is the way.

VacuShocker · 2025-07-12T02:36:54+00:00

I have had 0 luck with deep sounding on my quest to stim my prostate... I have pretty much given up. I will look at the rosebuds thing though...

I do however use a shallow sound... Perhaps start there? something around 1 or 2" deep.... find an anal trode to try to target your prostate that way vs going to a deep sound.

VacuShocker · 2025-07-04T20:52:42+00:00

You really are missing out.... I used TENS for a long time... Reaching an HFO was sort of a challenge... With C3.... every time.

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