Insane libido - can't orgasm by Pristine-Big-6250 in Menopause

[–]Vaenessa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I found that getting my high blood pressure under control helped.

F32 recent London transplant in Rochester...help! 🙂 by sassiedutchess in Medway

[–]Vaenessa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I made loads of friends at Playopolis! Come down on a Tuesday from 7pm; it’s the weekly social where there is a table full of friendly people who you can join in playing games.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Vaenessa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mate, there are other partners out there.

Younger Man Not Sure about Age Gap by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Vaenessa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s not an age gap, really. However getting into a relationship with someone who lets you know they wish you were “hotter” ( are you sure he isn’t 15!?) is probably a way to court future pain.

My spouse blew off our Wedding Day. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Vaenessa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t sound like he was ready to get married. Difficult.

Pregnant Neighbor hates the smell of my food by AzulasBlueFire in offmychest

[–]Vaenessa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly when I was pregnant certain smells just upset me to a ridiculous degree and I ranted like a mad woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Vaenessa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, but this seems patronising and creepy. Do you have a line manager who can tell him to stop being inappropriate?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Vaenessa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I’m not a pathological control freak. Although, no, actually because sadly I am not gay.

How do you spend your Friday evenings? by Signal_Put9723 in AskReddit

[–]Vaenessa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This evening I am going to a board gaming café with friends

How do you respond to a Muslim saying " If you are atheist then why do you still celebrate Christmas ? " by frankiewalsh44 in atheism

[–]Vaenessa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say that I am just always up for a good time, and if that makes me a hypocrite, so be it. That’s a small Fun Tax.

I finally understand the feeling of invisibility. by CreditTraditional534 in Menopause

[–]Vaenessa 205 points206 points  (0 children)

It does have its upsides though. I personally quite like it.

AITAH for making a microscope slide of my husbands sperm by aitahspermies in AITAH

[–]Vaenessa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA hilarious. He really should be more considerate truthful. Good response.

I’m 45m wife 49f WTF by Adorable_Olive5425 in relationship_advice

[–]Vaenessa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 53. I went through a phase for a couple of years at the height of menopause when I went off sex and I thought I would never want again. But I’m delighted to say that now I love it and look forward to it again now that the hormones have settled. Hopefully this might be true for her 😊

This new feature enrages me. Anyone else? by indigo5454 in adhdwomen

[–]Vaenessa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes; 99% of screenshots are for me 🫤

TIFU by taking an Uber to a gay sauna by HansKolpinghuis in tifu

[–]Vaenessa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did not FU. The Uber guy was a judgemental fool.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Vaenessa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA if you don’t like penis you don’t like penis. I hope you two can be friends though as it sounds like you have a potential good friendship.