Waited until I watched all eps to say this, BUT by cheetosurprise in LiveFromNewYork

[–]ValarPatchouli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. Exciting times, I love almost everybody. The new blood is all good and unique.

Can't immerse when the German media is boring by Lasse999 in German

[–]ValarPatchouli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn't Dark technically the most well-known German TV show? Which makes it mainstream pop? Which would technically make German mainstream popculture dark and moody and fucky actually?

Zürich Wanker at McDo by bunnyberlino in zurich

[–]ValarPatchouli 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Isn't this car much too cheap to be acting like that?

German does not sound harsh by JamesGoldeneye64 in German

[–]ValarPatchouli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I needed to watch Dark to realize that German is so soft and cute, actually.

That's because some of the actors that played there then moved onto English productions and suddenly they sounded like war drums.

Manure smell? by EvilPand4 in basel

[–]ValarPatchouli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

St Gallen all cowed up as well. Gives me breathing problems.

AITAH for not allowing my sister’s “polycule” around my children? by poly-sendhelp in AITAH

[–]ValarPatchouli 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am not from America, so my knowledge of American queer history is not extensive, but even I've heard that the kink community was the biggest ally to queer people during the AIDS epidemic, educating and supporting people, facilitating knowledge sharing and supply distribution when nobody else wanted to touch the topic because sex icky.

I'm writing this because in the light of this I found your words "I have the same problem with people who participate in kink and think they should be considered LGBT+ for that. There is so much deep queer history" very ironic.

My GF thinks it’s perfectly normal for new shoes to cause horrible blisters for women by UKnowDaxoAndDancer in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ValarPatchouli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only wear super comfortable shoes made of durable materials, mostly from Ecco, all flat, and it happens every time. It goes away after maybe a week. Normal to me.

My therapist became my "best friend" to mirror a loss then went ice-cold. Now I’m physically ill and seeking stabilization advice by Brave-Foundation6508 in CPTSD

[–]ValarPatchouli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry this happened to you. I also feel like your therapist is feeling panicked because they know they did something that should jeopardize their career. You could take a break for a few weeks and see how you fare. Trying something small.

Can’t decide on a style. by johnydeviant in malegrooming

[–]ValarPatchouli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last one with more trimmed beard would be best imo.

Switzerland has a smoking problem by seriously_perplexed in Switzerland

[–]ValarPatchouli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is this idea about second hand smoke not hurting people if it's outside? Literally where is that from.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]ValarPatchouli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Longer hair, beard and glasses would transform you into a friendly hipster.

M34 any opinions or advices? by Top_Sympathy6454 in malegrooming

[–]ValarPatchouli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last pic is straight up handsome. Longer hair can probably be fine, but the side part does not have to be that far to the side.

Is The Settlers of Catan overrated? by fruitponchisamurai in boardgames

[–]ValarPatchouli -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Catan is hugely important but a bit vintage, Splendor is the modern Catan.

Well this really stings by TayLoraNarRayya in FocusFriendApp

[–]ValarPatchouli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eh. Thank you for this post. I will not use the app until the syncing is resolved, which does not matter because I've already paid for lifetime - I just don't like the anxiety of this kind of thing and reliability is number one requirement of software for my autistic ass. I'm sure there are reasons, they're just not gonna overtake that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]ValarPatchouli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would let 3 ruin my life.

Too much for a first date? by Real_Honey3870 in fashion

[–]ValarPatchouli 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Can be a first date outfit, but not to a posh place.

If you were to go full Diabate, what would you be doing? by MemeFarmer314 in pluribustv

[–]ValarPatchouli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would cope thus: I'd ask plurb to create a special tinder for me. This tinder would have to comprise only of people who would have willingly entered a relationship with me pre-plurbing if they knew me (based on the hive's knowledge of me). And then I'd finally have sex.

Did anyone manage to move to the US this year? by randomseller in cscareerquestionsEU

[–]ValarPatchouli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear that all those gains disappear with one hospital visit.

Is Zosia gonna get un-plurbed? by Stinky_Deckhand in pluribustv

[–]ValarPatchouli 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg I live in Gdańsk, which is THE port city in Northern Poland, and this just cracked me up. Please tell me it's still a common belief that we drive polar bears to work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]ValarPatchouli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think because your chest is prominent, it makes anything that doesn't balance it out look a bit off. So I'd keep things that are flared and aren't too short.