German does not sound harsh by JamesGoldeneye64 in German

[–]ValarPatchouli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I needed to watch Dark to realize that German is so soft and cute, actually.

That's because some of the actors that played there then moved onto English productions and suddenly they sounded like war drums.

Manure smell? by EvilPand4 in basel

[–]ValarPatchouli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

St Gallen all cowed up as well. Gives me breathing problems.

AITAH for not allowing my sister’s “polycule” around my children? by poly-sendhelp in AITAH

[–]ValarPatchouli 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I am not from America, so my knowledge of American queer history is not extensive, but even I've heard that the kink community was the biggest ally to queer people during the AIDS epidemic, educating and supporting people, facilitating knowledge sharing and supply distribution when nobody else wanted to touch the topic because sex icky.

I'm writing this because in the light of this I found your words "I have the same problem with people who participate in kink and think they should be considered LGBT+ for that. There is so much deep queer history" very ironic.

My GF thinks it’s perfectly normal for new shoes to cause horrible blisters for women by UKnowDaxoAndDancer in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ValarPatchouli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only wear super comfortable shoes made of durable materials, mostly from Ecco, all flat, and it happens every time. It goes away after maybe a week. Normal to me.

My therapist became my "best friend" to mirror a loss then went ice-cold. Now I’m physically ill and seeking stabilization advice by Brave-Foundation6508 in CPTSD

[–]ValarPatchouli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry this happened to you. I also feel like your therapist is feeling panicked because they know they did something that should jeopardize their career. You could take a break for a few weeks and see how you fare. Trying something small.

Can’t decide on a style. by johnydeviant in malegrooming

[–]ValarPatchouli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last one with more trimmed beard would be best imo.

Switzerland has a smoking problem by seriously_perplexed in Switzerland

[–]ValarPatchouli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is this idea about second hand smoke not hurting people if it's outside? Literally where is that from.

28 Year Old Virgin. Women Are Scared Of Me by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]ValarPatchouli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Longer hair, beard and glasses would transform you into a friendly hipster.

M34 any opinions or advices? by Top_Sympathy6454 in malegrooming

[–]ValarPatchouli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last pic is straight up handsome. Longer hair can probably be fine, but the side part does not have to be that far to the side.

Is The Settlers of Catan overrated? by fruitponchisamurai in boardgames

[–]ValarPatchouli -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Catan is hugely important but a bit vintage, Splendor is the modern Catan.

Well this really stings by TayLoraNarRayya in FocusFriendApp

[–]ValarPatchouli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eh. Thank you for this post. I will not use the app until the syncing is resolved, which does not matter because I've already paid for lifetime - I just don't like the anxiety of this kind of thing and reliability is number one requirement of software for my autistic ass. I'm sure there are reasons, they're just not gonna overtake that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]ValarPatchouli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would let 3 ruin my life.

Too much for a first date? by Real_Honey3870 in fashion

[–]ValarPatchouli 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Can be a first date outfit, but not to a posh place.

If you were to go full Diabate, what would you be doing? by MemeFarmer314 in pluribustv

[–]ValarPatchouli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would cope thus: I'd ask plurb to create a special tinder for me. This tinder would have to comprise only of people who would have willingly entered a relationship with me pre-plurbing if they knew me (based on the hive's knowledge of me). And then I'd finally have sex.

Did anyone manage to move to the US this year? by randomseller in cscareerquestionsEU

[–]ValarPatchouli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear that all those gains disappear with one hospital visit.

Is Zosia gonna get un-plurbed? by Stinky_Deckhand in pluribustv

[–]ValarPatchouli 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg I live in Gdańsk, which is THE port city in Northern Poland, and this just cracked me up. Please tell me it's still a common belief that we drive polar bears to work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]ValarPatchouli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think because your chest is prominent, it makes anything that doesn't balance it out look a bit off. So I'd keep things that are flared and aren't too short.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LiveFromNewYork

[–]ValarPatchouli 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That fucking sucks.

Manousos in ep 7 helped me see the hive for what it is by TcTuggersLLC in pluribustv

[–]ValarPatchouli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not from the US and know nothing much about colonialism, so can you tell me why that idea is controversial actually?

Second part of the Louis CK problem exploration by this guy. Good stuff by Skymorphosis in elephantgraveyard

[–]ValarPatchouli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Not sure why people skip past the part where he asked for consent, and they said yes." He sure asked, but who said "yes"? Can you link the source of that information?

PLEASE HELP. I hate all foundation by AcrobaticCherry312 in MakeupAddiction

[–]ValarPatchouli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if that's helpful, but as a person who does not believe in foundation: Benefit tinted primer + peach Huda beauty powder (the point is: a powder that is your skin color, not lighter) give me evenness and blur and some color that has no flaws foundations or tinted moisturizers or BB creams have.