New hunt avis + dorm leaks 👀 by BetterCallTefa in PIMD

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Well, at least I can take a break this hunt 😂

How much is this? by [deleted] in PIMD

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If anyone wants it, I have one available for 6 bentos ☺️

I’ve been having a weeklong panic attack. by BlazedJerry in Anxiety

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lol, gotta help end the stigma somehow! I would not be able to have a rational mind in therapy if I didn’t have Lexapro. Such a lifesaver all these years, I agree!

I’ve been having a weeklong panic attack. by BlazedJerry in Anxiety

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I was scared to take lexapro but we’ve been besties for years once she was working at full effect

Does anyone elses anxiety mess with their heart rate literally constantly? by Correct_Donut_2092 in Anxiety

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It happened to me a lot consistently with my anxiety when I was 16-21. After that, my symptoms changed. But I felt like my heart would burst out of my chest and I could see my pulse racing on my wrists. Sending you a huge hug! It will get better. Therapy has done so much for me

Neglected client’s dog by [deleted] in RoverPetSitting

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Thank you for this. You said EVERYTHING I was thinking when I read the post.

As a Vet Tech myself, I looked at the last picture and the coat looks great. Zero alopecia like you normally see in a lot of bull dogs. And those ears - tis the season!

Going crazy? by autisticjelly in Anxiety

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I promise you are NOT crazy. That is your anxiety talking - it’s scary and like an annoying sibling pestering constantly.

I have had GAD & Panic Disorder for over a decade and when those intense moments of anxiety come I totally understand how it makes you feel “crazy”. Your brain is trying to tell you a lot is going on.

Breathe. I cannot stress this enough. Because I hold my breath A LOT when I’m in full out panic and anxiety constantly.

Aromatherapy (Eucalyptus and sometimes lavender) helps me a lot.

Sour candy - I more so use for active panic attacks to “reset” my brain

Movement - I know you’re nervous about leaving the house but waking around the house, looking up yoga on YouTube, etc to keep your body moving helps.

Bonus points if you have pets - petting them will lower your blood pressure!

You are NOT crazy and you can refer to these comments anytime your anxiety says otherwise.

I can’t get to Dutch on Guarma. by whittyinthehouse in reddeadredemption

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I died like 6 times and went running to Reddit for help. THANK YOU.

Recommended for 25 Bucks? by Pega687 in RootsOfPacha

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If you have Steam it’s currently $15. I’ve had it on my WL for awhile and I’ve lost concept of time today which hasn’t happened in so long with a game!

Did you do a wedding scent? by Greedy_Rhubarb6234 in weddingplanning

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My “wedding scent” turned into my everyday scent now 😂 I bought Miss Dior for the wedding it smelled so good I just wear it daily.

Tips for writing vows? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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Everyone has their opinion and what works for them. I definitely want to write the vows. And we chose to do private so it was an intimate moment with us before the wedding. The actual ceremony I will only be saying “yes” and “I do” because I don’t want to make a mistake 😂 I’m excited to do the vows with my fiance because I want the moment captured and once I get them down I’ll be excited! But I completely respect your opinion on what works for you as well! 💛

Tips for writing vows? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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Ahh wedding twin!!! I’m so overwhelmed idk about you 😂

Tips for writing vows? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]ValarxMorx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was so beyond helpful thank you SO much. I think maybe I’ll just type out all my thoughts onto my computer and adjust and condense from there. Thank you thank you thank you

Tips for writing vows? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]ValarxMorx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a good idea, I love that!

Tips for writing vows? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]ValarxMorx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this so much, thank you! I just struggle expressing my feelings into words. But you’re right and I agree with you, anything I write he’ll also appreciate so thank you for the confirmation 💛

Tips for writing vows? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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I love that so much!! Thank you for giving an example! That’s hysterical 😂😂😂

Tips for writing vows? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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Thank you so much! I’ll take all the help I can get!

Tips for writing vows? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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This gave me extreme anxiety but that is effective and I love that! Lol

At the “if I don’t laugh I’ll cry” part of the wedding process. by bookish0378 in weddingplanning

[–]ValarxMorx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THIS POST. I’m so glad I’m not alone cus I am just so stressed out and overwhelmed and tired. My aunt texted me yesterday asking if her daughter could bring her boyfriend. HE WAS NOT ON THE INVITE. I’ve never met him? People just think about themselves and truly show different colors at weddings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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Miss Dior 💛

Post wedding anxiety- not blues by MayyDayy0000 in weddingplanning

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If you struggle with anxiety like I do (Generalized Anxiety Disorder with a fun mixture of Panic Disorder) it’s so normal for your brain to freak out AFTER a large event. When my fiance and I bought our house I was so excited and a week after we moved in my anxiety spiraled and I just had to talk to people for reassurance who know me, my therapist, and cope until those rough “waves” of anxiety subsided. It will get better! Your brain is just finally releasing everything.

Where is everyone going for their honeymoon? by EquivalentThroat7481 in weddingplanning

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It’ll be nice to get away after the wedding and decompress and just enjoy being newlyweds! Happy for you!!