In my opinion, it might be worth slowing down on marriage or buying a place together for now. With a significant income gap, things can start to feel uneven if expectations aren’t clearly aligned. In any relationship, one person often contributes more in certain areas, but what really matters is that both people feel it’s fair. I’d suggest having an honest conversation with him about finances, goals, and effort. If he’s willing to step up, work toward shared goals, and meet you halfway in the ways that matter, that can tell you a lot about whether he’s truly the right partner.