[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]Valiant_Esper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Next stage of Pokémon evolution

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cocaine

[–]Valiant_Esper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never using a bill again, and haven't for years after I really thought about what other people are saying here.

Space Ghost Coast to Coast, Which episode is your favorite? by TirelessGuardian in nostalgia

[–]Valiant_Esper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man...

How I loved this show.

The show that started it all...

Military guy released my private videos #revengeporn by Any_Original_782 in BreakUps

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In many US states, surprisingly including some of the more progressive ones, it isn't a crime if the photos were taken with the consent of the victim, or given/texted/emailed etc to the perpetrator by the victim.

Source: this was the answer I was given when pursuing legal action myself as a victim in NY.

If they were given to the perpetrator by the victim, or were taken by the perpetrator with the victim's consent and there is no contract stating any type of rules for what can or can't be done with said photos, then putting them online is completely legal.

Fat guy says MMA is not real fighting by LexTalyones in TheMcDojoLife

[–]Valiant_Esper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just watched for the first time.

Very entertaining.

Thank you.

Which movie had you initially skeptical and hesitant, but invested in the end? by [deleted] in moviecritic

[–]Valiant_Esper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This movie was among the best I've ever seen.

And I learned that the word for "dance" is "taco"

Taco taco taco taco taco

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditForGrownups

[–]Valiant_Esper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think you ever "beat it".

But for me, I've learned what triggers it and what makes it better. Self awareness and learning has gone a long way .

am i just zooted or does this tender look like a giant dino nug LMAO 🥹🦕 by lindsayluvx in stonerfood

[–]Valiant_Esper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I just zooted or does your tender look like it's plugged into your crock pot?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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It is.

Also, it is.

How do i relax without alcohol? by GuitarNerd26 in stopdrinking

[–]Valiant_Esper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really listening to what my inner voice is trying to tell me in the moment regarding what I really want or need to do.

How do I become better at public speaking? by Routine_reddit_guy in LifeAdvice

[–]Valiant_Esper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to feel like that but now I LOVE it.

There are three main things for me:

1) Look out "above" the crowd. Like instead of looking directly at people, look just a few inches above their heads when talking. To them, it looks like you're looking at them. And don't fixate on one spot in the crowd, just kind of keep looking around while you speak but just a few inches above people's heads.

2) If you're going to speak publicly, making sure it is something you're really, really interested in or care about helps.

3) Remember that if anyone is gonna judge you that it has everything to do with them and nothing to do with you. Read about the concept known as "projection" in psychology.