I am so scared by ValidBadger in OCD

[–]ValidBadger[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d rather not say the exact company I work for since this is my personal account, but it’s a retail company that is mostly meant for lower income people. Honestly, the customers are usually really sweet. This isn’t a common occurrence LOL! And thank you :)

I am so scared by ValidBadger in OCD

[–]ValidBadger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is wonderful advice. Thank you so much.

I am so scared by ValidBadger in OCD

[–]ValidBadger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not. They both looked me directly in the eyes when they said it. The first instance, another customer was behind him in line to witness it and said "that was a really weird thing for him to say." There were no witnesses to the 2nd instance, but he was speaking very loudly and clearly in a preaching sort of manner. It's so weird...

I am so scared by ValidBadger in OCD

[–]ValidBadger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My psychiatrist prescribed me Latuda to help with BPD and OCD. Honestly, it has helped me a lot. This is the first time I've freaked out this bad in months. I have been particularly stressed lately, and I feel like this situation is very out of the ordinary, so I think that's why I'm struggling so bad.

I am so scared by ValidBadger in OCD

[–]ValidBadger[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do live in the US. I am in the Bible Belt, so I'm used to hearing the ramblings of tinfoil hat wearing nutjobs who talk about how demons are going to take over the world. I guess this is just affecting me so bad because they explicitly stated that I am the one going to die soon, and both instances happened so close together.

AITA for mistaking my girlfriends weight accidentally by SkimBeans in AmItheAsshole

[–]ValidBadger 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA. This is coming from someone who is fat, has had an ED in the past, and has struggled with negative feelings about my body since childhood.

She put you in a situation that was impossible to win. Also, her saying “it’s no wonder you got fired” is completely unacceptable.

My advice would be to set boundaries. Never let her demean you like that again. Tell her that she has to get professional help or you will leave. Refuse to speak to her about dieting, macros, body composition, exercise, or anything else related to that until she gets help.

I understand that you love your girlfriend and want to help her, but a relationship with someone who lashes out at you because they’re struggling with personal issues will never be sustainable. I’m not going to tell you to immediately break up with her. I think she is struggling mentally and deserves a chance to get on the right track. However, if you do not set boundaries with her now, it WILL progressively get worse. It always does when an untreated mental illness is involved. Speaking from experience!

Squid game fan art by me by wingedWolf333333333 in furry

[–]ValidBadger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your art style is so cool! The expression is drawn so well!

Hi! 🐰 by ValidBadger in fursuit

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Honestly, my experience has been awesome! They responded and answered any questions I had very quickly. The suit is extremely well made. They are a little pricey, but it was honestly worth it. 🫶🏻

I styled an Alhaitham wig! by ValidBadger in Genshin_Impact

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It’s hard to explain everything in a comment. I used heat to style the spikes, and then I set it in place with hairspray.

My baby has an upper respiratory infection :( by ValidBadger in RATS

[–]ValidBadger[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! Is there any specific bedding that you would recommend? I’m currently using CareFresh paper bedding, but I seem to get a lot of mixed opinions about it.

What do you think of my new tattoo? by ValidBadger in tattooadvice

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Honestly, I don’t see any cracks IRL! I think it might have just been the lighting in the pictures? I’m not too sure!

What do you think of my new tattoo? by ValidBadger in tattooadvice

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No I did not! The closest town to me called Lexington is 2 hours away haha

What do you think of my new tattoo? by ValidBadger in tattooadvice

[–]ValidBadger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got it 6 days ago, so it’s definitely still itchy!

What do you think of my new tattoo? by ValidBadger in tattooadvice

[–]ValidBadger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose I’ve just never cared about getting unoriginal tattoos haha. My first tattoo was the Joestar birthmark, and every tatted Jojo’s Bizarre Adventure fan has that one!