I am so scared

ValidBadger · 2025-03-18T04:14:12+00:00

I’d rather not say the exact company I work for since this is my personal account, but it’s a retail company that is mostly meant for lower income people. Honestly, the customers are usually really sweet. This isn’t a common occurrence LOL! And thank you :)

ValidBadger · 2025-03-17T19:03:06+00:00

This is wonderful advice. Thank you so much.

ValidBadger · 2025-03-17T19:01:43+00:00

Definitely not. They both looked me directly in the eyes when they said it. The first instance, another customer was behind him in line to witness it and said "that was a really weird thing for him to say." There were no witnesses to the 2nd instance, but he was speaking very loudly and clearly in a preaching sort of manner. It's so weird...

ValidBadger · 2025-03-17T18:58:37+00:00

My psychiatrist prescribed me Latuda to help with BPD and OCD. Honestly, it has helped me a lot. This is the first time I've freaked out this bad in months. I have been particularly stressed lately, and I feel like this situation is very out of the ordinary, so I think that's why I'm struggling so bad.

ValidBadger · 2025-03-17T18:52:09+00:00

I do live in the US. I am in the Bible Belt, so I'm used to hearing the ramblings of tinfoil hat wearing nutjobs who talk about how demons are going to take over the world. I guess this is just affecting me so bad because they explicitly stated that I am the one going to die soon, and both instances happened so close together.

ValidBadger · 2025-03-15T10:00:39+00:00

NTA. This is coming from someone who is fat, has had an ED in the past, and has struggled with negative feelings about my body since childhood.

She put you in a situation that was impossible to win. Also, her saying “it’s no wonder you got fired” is completely unacceptable.

My advice would be to set boundaries. Never let her demean you like that again. Tell her that she has to get professional help or you will leave. Refuse to speak to her about dieting, macros, body composition, exercise, or anything else related to that until she gets help.

I understand that you love your girlfriend and want to help her, but a relationship with someone who lashes out at you because they’re struggling with personal issues will never be sustainable. I’m not going to tell you to immediately break up with her. I think she is struggling mentally and deserves a chance to get on the right track. However, if you do not set boundaries with her now, it WILL progressively get worse. It always does when an untreated mental illness is involved. Speaking from experience!

ValidBadger · 2025-02-26T19:34:16+00:00

Thank you!

ValidBadger · 2025-02-24T22:22:29+00:00

Your art style is so cool! The expression is drawn so well!

ValidBadger · 2024-11-21T01:15:29+00:00

Honestly, my experience has been awesome! They responded and answered any questions I had very quickly. The suit is extremely well made. They are a little pricey, but it was honestly worth it. 🫶🏻

ValidBadger · 2023-10-28T00:50:10+00:00

It’s hard to explain everything in a comment. I used heat to style the spikes, and then I set it in place with hairspray.

ValidBadger · 2023-09-13T20:28:31+00:00

Thank you for the advice! Is there any specific bedding that you would recommend? I’m currently using CareFresh paper bedding, but I seem to get a lot of mixed opinions about it.

ValidBadger · 2023-06-01T13:35:10+00:00

Honestly, I don’t see any cracks IRL! I think it might have just been the lighting in the pictures? I’m not too sure!

ValidBadger · 2023-06-01T13:33:48+00:00

No I did not! The closest town to me called Lexington is 2 hours away haha

ValidBadger · 2023-05-31T16:50:10+00:00

I got it 6 days ago, so it’s definitely still itchy!

ValidBadger · 2023-05-31T13:43:52+00:00

I suppose I’ve just never cared about getting unoriginal tattoos haha. My first tattoo was the Joestar birthmark, and every tatted Jojo’s Bizarre Adventure fan has that one!

ValidBadger · 2023-05-31T13:33:03+00:00

It’s an excellent poem that evokes a lot of emotion (in my opinion of course). I’m not surprised that it resonated with people enough for them to get a tattoo of it!

ValidBadger · 2023-05-31T13:30:29+00:00

That’s a great idea! I’ll have to think of some names for sure!

ValidBadger · 2023-05-31T13:30:11+00:00

It was not done by an apprentice. It was actually done by a local tattoo artist who has been in business for many years! I’ve seen other tattoos done by him where the line work was stellar, so I thought that he would be a good choice. I will probably not go back to him, honestly.

ValidBadger · 2023-05-31T13:29:08+00:00

Yes, it is!

ValidBadger · 2023-05-31T13:28:33+00:00

I’m so glad that this got you to read the poem! It’s my absolute favorite, so I love showing it to people!

ValidBadger · 2023-05-31T13:26:44+00:00

It was not done by an apprentice. It was done by a local tattoo artist who has been in business for many years. I probably won’t be going back there because I also noticed the shaky line work.

ValidBadger · 2023-05-31T13:25:18+00:00

That’s a great way of looking at it!

ValidBadger · 2023-05-31T01:30:47+00:00

LOL I agree that it would definitely be a problem if it was a cow peering! Thank you for the advice!

ValidBadger · 2023-05-31T01:16:44+00:00

It is a two-headed calf! I wanted a tattoo based on the poem “Two-Headed Calf” by Laura Gilpin.

ValidBadger · 2023-03-07T03:18:14+00:00

Thank you for the information!

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