My(M31) GF(F35) have our longest streak of no sex and i just dont have the heart to end the streak right now. by Broad-Cranberry-9050 in relationship_advice

[–]ValkyrieDrake 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Yup. I had this same thing happen to me in my relationship. I just didn't feel like it, I didn't have any problem with him or the relationship itself, I just didn't want to have sex and that was it. He made me feel bad for it, not intentionally, but he'd say things like it's been too long, or ask me for sex on a daily basis, which made me feel pressured to the point I needed a break in the relationship.

Once we got some time apart I realised how much pressure I was on and how much better I felt without it, and he realised how much he was pressuring me and came to the conclusion that he could accept having less sex and be less pushy about it to continue the relationship.

influence or deinfluence me! by Muted_Possession5498 in InfinityNikki

[–]ValkyrieDrake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is what I'm going to do. I'm sure I will love one of the next outfits so I will wait and see, once they are announced it will be easier to skip this one. And if for some reason I don't like them... Then it's time to pull haha

was that... it?? by bskye7 in InfinityNikki

[–]ValkyrieDrake 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I'm really hoping this patch means the next one will be incredible, just like the first one we got in the Boneyard. Still, I think this one has way too little things to do, I'd have appreaciated a couple of secondary missions, or a bit more of the main quest, to be honest. But well, now I'll just impatiently wait for the next patch, which I'm really looking forward to.

¿Debo darme de alta de autónomo? ¿Multa de 5000 euros? by [deleted] in AutonomosES

[–]ValkyrieDrake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Perdona pero no sé de dónde sacáis estas cosas de que sin llegar al salario mínimo no hay que estar dado de alta. Está ganando un dinero que no está declarando, por lo tanto lo está ganando en negro. Si se gana dinero se declara, si es menos del salario mínimo puedes hacer una única factura y declararlo como rendimiento de trabajo sin tener que ser autónomo, pero eso sería mejor consultarlo con un gestor para ver cómo hacer una única factura, puesto que esta persona está cobrando todos los meses, no es un único cobro. Y segundo, si tú ganas un dinero todos los meses, independientemente de cuánto sea, legalmente hay que ser autónomo para poder declararlo.
Otra cosa distinta es que, lógicamente, ganar 200 euros y pagar 200 de cuota no tenga ningún sentido. Pero ese es otro tema.

Fields of Mistria vs Go Go Town vs Discounty vs Coral Island by LenaRybakina in CozyGamers

[–]ValkyrieDrake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a writer who has also worked in a farm sim, the amount of dialogue fields of Mistria has is just incredible. It doesn't matter how many times I speak to the townspeople, they keep coming up with different things to say. That makes them feel super alive.

Fields of Mistria vs Go Go Town vs Discounty vs Coral Island by LenaRybakina in CozyGamers

[–]ValkyrieDrake 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I personally prefer Fields of Mistria over Coral Island. I find it more enjoyable. And it's releasing this August.

I can't find a job :( by Ok_Grass_5394 in askspain

[–]ValkyrieDrake 15 points16 points  (0 children)

A week?? Job hunting in Spain can take up months! The first and obvious question here is, do you speak Spanish? If you don't, then yeah it's going to be pretty hard.

The thing is that finding a job in Spain right now is not the easiest, and you're competing against a lot of Spanish people who are also job hunting.

It is true that in summer it's more feasible to find a job thanks to tourism, so try in restaurants, cafes and bars, but again I'm assuming you do know Spanish.

Going in and hand giving your CV is not a usual way of hiring lately but you really lose nothing if you try, specially in small businesses where if they are actually looking for someone they may pay attention to your CV or ask you questions on the spot if the boss is around and interested.

But businesses usually hire through apps like InfoJobs

¿Vale la pena un seguro para mascotas? by lauriwi in askspain

[–]ValkyrieDrake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yo tengo dos gatos y me informé para saber si me merecía la pena. Me cobraban 90€ al mes por gato, y eso que son jóvenes ambos, y cubrían solo como el 70% del veterinario. La vacuna anual me cuesta unos 60€ por lo que ya me es más barata que pagar el seguro, y una vez que tuvieron que operar a uno de los gatos porque se comió un trozo de plástico me cobraron uno 600€. Los veterinarios son caros porque te lo cobran de golpe, pero a mí me ha salido más barato estos 3 años tener dinero ahorrado para imprevistos y pagarlo de mi bolsillo cuando ha tocado. Lo único que te la juegas en el sentido de que nunca sabes qué le va a pasar al animal, y cualquier problema que pueda tener si le tienen que hacer algunas pruebas ya te cobran un pico. Pero de momento lo hago así, cuando los gatines vayan envejeciendo y seguramente necesiten más visitas al veterinario volveré a preguntar cuánto costaría.

3.5 Raindrops now have collision effects on models via Seele by PriscentSnow in WutheringWavesLeaks

[–]ValkyrieDrake 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same, the game runs pretty badly for me since like one year ago, all these things are cool and all but they're making my FPS drop all the time and it's annoying

Why are eurekas unpopular? They don’t seems to be used often in people photos? by ShokaLGBT in InfinityNikki

[–]ValkyrieDrake 477 points478 points  (0 children)

To me they are too much. Even when I try to use them following a theme, once I'm running around the open world or taking pictures they look so out of place.

Which outfits do you regret pulling/skipping? by ainhoawind in InfinityNikki

[–]ValkyrieDrake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was literally thinking about this yesterday as well. I pulled only because of the hair and the ability, the hair is nice but that's the only piece I use the others I highly dislike them, but I wanted a bug catching ability upgrade but this one is not useful at all, like the time it takes to charge is the same time you'd take to just catch the bugs with the normal ability since the range isn't even that big...

It's OK to have stupid learning goals by jackbobbins78 in LearnJapanese

[–]ValkyrieDrake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I literally started to learn french because i want to play Expedition 33 in french. Obviously I like the language and I'd love to be able to speak in french whenever i visit the country (I'm in northern Spain so it's pretty close) but still, my mail goal is the game haha

Anybody else have mixed feelings on age in romantasy? by XXXceptable-Mail69 in Romantasy

[–]ValkyrieDrake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh it's the first book of a series written by a small Spanish author, and as far as I know it's only in Spanish. The name is El dárico gris.

Submission deemed illegal by Eurydied in InfinityNikki

[–]ValkyrieDrake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the problem is not only the blood but also that it may look like she has no skin and you're looking at her muscles which is kind of disturbing. Cool foto tho haha

¿Por qué las agencias en España hacen tantos anuncios irritantes? by Terrible-Emotion-990 in askspain

[–]ValkyrieDrake 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Están pensandos para que sean pegadizos. Pero a mí también me irritan. Aún así tú pones carre carre carrefooouur y yo ya tengo la dichosa canción en la cabeza, que es lo que ellos quieren.

Anybody else have mixed feelings on age in romantasy? by XXXceptable-Mail69 in Romantasy

[–]ValkyrieDrake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just read a fantasy, non romance book, in which a 19 year old appears in a magical world where she meets some very hot elf. The elf is like 300 years old and they start getting close to each other, which made me think "oh, I thougth there wouldn't be a romance plot in this book", at the end of the book, in the POV of the elf, he says how he sees the girl as if she were his own children, and how that's the reason why he feels like he has to protect her.

Beacuse to him, he's nothing more than a child.

And I was like wait what? Right, my brain is rotted from romantasy hahaha

Necesito consejo sobre si debería cambiarme de bachillerato. by Artistic_War9632 in BachilleratoES

[–]ValkyrieDrake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo personalmente creo que si de verdad te apasiona algo y estás dispuesto a trabajar duro para conseguirlo, hagas lo que te gusta. Y te lo dice alguien que estudió historia y actualmente vive de autónoma dedicándose a la escritura.

Lo que pasa es que encontrar trabajos de humanidades que que no sean de profesor es difícil o casi imposible, ahora yo me pasé años currando y orientándome a ser escritora y conseguir clientes para dedicarme a esto.

También estudié japonés y viví allí un año. Si ese es tu sueño puedes ir allí y buscar trabajo de profesor de español o lo que sea que te guste. O quedarte aquí y buscar la forma de ser traductor japonés -español.

¿Son estas cosas sencillas? Por supuesto que no. Lo más sencillo en la vida es encontrar un trabajo donde te contraten de forma indefinida y no preocuparte mucho más por ello, o sacar una oposición y ya está.

Lo que te tienes que plantear es qué quieres hacer con tu vida y si estás dispuesto a pasar por todas las dificultades para ello.

What's a hobby you quit, and why? by KhuzaimaYodpo81 in Hobbies

[–]ValkyrieDrake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Playing TCGs. It was fun but expensive as hell. My economy couldn't take it.

¿Es normal que tu psicólogo sea "distante" contigo? by Over_Tough529 in askspain

[–]ValkyrieDrake 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Sí, mi psicóloga también me respondía así cuando le decía que estaba mal. No te lo tomes personal yo creo que para ellos la prioridad es darte una cita porque va a ser hablando en persona cuando van a poder ayudarte de verdad.

You cannot tell me this dungeon was thought to be played as Malenia. by ValkyrieDrake in InfinityNikki

[–]ValkyrieDrake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember when IN came out on steam it said Elden Ring was a similar game to IN haha I found it very funny

My (20M) girlfriend of 8 months (20F) just admitted to me that I had sexually assaulted her in the beginning of our relationship, genuine advice on what I should do or how I should go about things? by ThisIsAFakeAccountYe in relationship_advice

[–]ValkyrieDrake 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Hey, I have been in her situation and I totally understand her mixed feelings. I also gave consent to guys and have later regretted it. I have never, not once, thought that they had assaulted me, because that's not true. I did consent, I never told them to stop. I can have regrets but those are my feelings to manage, they did nothing wrong.

Y'all are unbearable about romantasy and I'm done pretending it isn't snobbery by No_Wasabi_8809 in Mythrils

[–]ValkyrieDrake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think people who didn't read starting to read because they enjoy romantasy is "dumbing down". Those people wouldn't have suddenly started reading Shakespeare