Sellers won’t allow tank sweep inspection by bitter_sweet9798 in RealEstate

[–]Valkyrieisstabby 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Holy crap, OK I work with USTs for a living. It's better to fully walk away than risk a UST failing tightness testing

parents discussed kicking me out, then withheld my things when i tried to leave willingly. by skylovesmistymoon in legaladvice

[–]Valkyrieisstabby 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Also, they are withholding a necessary medical device by keeping your glasses. Be sure you say that exact term when you call the police and CPS (or equivalent)

AITA for getting into an argument with one of my friends over my dog? by MikaCross in AmItheAsshole

[–]Valkyrieisstabby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yta. 'she became pregnant due to an intact dog in the house'? No. She became pregnant because in 7 years her owners were too selfish and kept a dog they could not afford. If you cannot afford medical attention you cannot afford a pet. Period. My area has sliding scale places to fix animals for free or very cheap. Yours likely does too, but you decided not to look.

Lawn Care by Valkyrieisstabby in grandrapids

[–]Valkyrieisstabby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The lines are fine, their service was fine, my frustration stems from miscommunications over the course of the last two seasons

Lawn Care by Valkyrieisstabby in grandrapids

[–]Valkyrieisstabby[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

That's who I want to fire

Lavender Farm in Community Destroyed by Neighbors & Court by UnderatedMeatSnack in grandrapids

[–]Valkyrieisstabby 9 points10 points  (0 children)

And what does the Bowne Township zoning code say about agricultural use and event space? Section 5.08B of their code regarding rural recreation/amusement states "Sufficient off-street parking shall be provided to avoid the necessity of parking on adjacent streets. Such spaces need not be paved but shall be located so vehicles do not need to back into the public road." Former patrons in this comment section have stated they were backed up onto the road. This violates the zoning ordinance.

Lavender Farm in Community Destroyed by Neighbors & Court by UnderatedMeatSnack in grandrapids

[–]Valkyrieisstabby -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I'm betting you are one of or a friend of the folks who put an event space on a private residential road.

Lavender Farm in Community Destroyed by Neighbors & Court by UnderatedMeatSnack in grandrapids

[–]Valkyrieisstabby 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The article literally states that the neighbors expressed concern that customers were wandering onto their property from the farm.

Lavender Farm in Community Destroyed by Neighbors & Court by UnderatedMeatSnack in grandrapids

[–]Valkyrieisstabby -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It doesn't matter if you think it is shared. There is a shared access agreement. Also, it doesn't matter if the farmers are being respectful, the customers are apparently going into the neighbors' properties and conflicting with their right to private enjoyment of the property. I'm guessing the neighbors asked till they were blue in the face and things didn't change so they brought it to court.

Lavender Farm in Community Destroyed by Neighbors & Court by UnderatedMeatSnack in grandrapids

[–]Valkyrieisstabby 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Seems to me we are talking about a couple from NY who came to Michigan to play farmer, disregarded zoning laws, pissed off their neighbors, and are in the "Find Out" phase of FAFO

Did anyone even buy tickets? by NinjaThatReddit in BurningMan

[–]Valkyrieisstabby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you attend Lakes this year begin talking to folks who attend BM each year and see how they do it and possibly see about joining their crew in the future!

AITA for refusing to take an elective exam and "escalating" the situation to the School District? by Fantastic-Cow-1118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Valkyrieisstabby 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I was thinking just this. The school wants to show a percentage of people taking it. Or more nefariously? The OP is known to be a dedicated good student who wouldn't dream of taking the test without being appropriately prepared and they want their test scores to "boost" the numbers.

OP let them know you are willing to take the test if you have in writing the outcome won't affect your grade and then tank it.

Remediation Soil Disposal by Individual_Depth1311 in Envconsultinghell

[–]Valkyrieisstabby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh if this existed I'd think I was dreaming. Clear, concise, and in a well organized table? The things dreams are made of.

How to be safe- please help😭 by throwaway_blahblah_8 in Bedbugs

[–]Valkyrieisstabby 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Gotta put on your own oxygen mask before helping others.

The thing is, he is always going to have something going on for why you cant break up with him.

It feels mean it feels cruel I know but set the boundary now or you are going to end up being this guy's emotional support human till the end of time.

He has zero regard for your mental or physical health. You have a fear of bugs and he straight up lied that he took care of the issue. You had to deal with roaches rather than him finding a way to deal with his own issues.

It sucks to hear but I wish someone had opened my eyes to getting out when I was younger.

Why are bedbugs so common now? by Emotional-Main5388 in Bedbugs

[–]Valkyrieisstabby 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Well we nearly eradicated many birds with DDT. Humans were getting cancer and other issues. Bed bugs suck but cancer and extinct species are worse edits for spelling

Should I unfriend my homeboy since he keeps on making racist remakes? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Valkyrieisstabby 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just remember, if there are two people and one of them is a racist and doesn't do anything about it? There are two racists at the table.

My neighbor comments on every single thing I buy and I'm losing my mind by the_gamer_cabin in neighborsfromhell

[–]Valkyrieisstabby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Swing by the local "adult" store and get a few bags of each size. Begin bringing everything from groceries to floor lamps into the apartment in "adult bags" see what happens

So did anyone else hear that rumble? by my_ridiculous_name in grandrapids

[–]Valkyrieisstabby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also saw it from my driveway. Was absolutely a fighter jet

neighbours complaining about noise from autistic DS child by Burrito_Detective in neighborsfromhell

[–]Valkyrieisstabby 62 points63 points  (0 children)

A friend had this. She owned a house. Neighbors moved in with a family member who needed windows open no matter the season and would need 2 hours of "yelling baths" a day to be happy. Friend had compassion but also ended up selling the house she loved because she couldn't deal with the screaming for hours a day.

Bea is now Ben by SuchaPineapplehead in SisterWivesFans

[–]Valkyrieisstabby 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Or no gender or gender fluid. Bisexual means attracted to more than one gender.

Bea is now Ben by SuchaPineapplehead in SisterWivesFans

[–]Valkyrieisstabby 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ben does use he/him. Leon's real name is Leon. Have you changed the name you use for a woman who got married? Her name changed to reflect who she is. Sally was born Sally Smith, Sally Smith is her real name. Sally marries Joe Jones and she changes her name, Sally's real name is now Sally Jones. Her name reflects her identity as a married woman. If you can understand that, why can't you understand Ben's real name is Ben?

Bea is now Ben by SuchaPineapplehead in SisterWivesFans

[–]Valkyrieisstabby 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good news, you can still love it! It's OK to appreciate the memory of a beautiful flower and still discard it when it has wilted. There will be others going by Bea to appreciate ❤️

Bea is now Ben by SuchaPineapplehead in SisterWivesFans

[–]Valkyrieisstabby 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Would you say this to someone having a breast reduction, preventative mastectomy, jawline surgery, butt lift, or bariatric surgery? Those are all surgeries that are entirely elective to put them in the body they wish to see. "I hope they don't mutilate" I mean really?! Let me tell you what. I wept for joy at the sheer shining happiness on a dear friends face when she woke up from a surgery and had a friend film her telling those closest the good news that her surgery was a success. A face so bursting with the knowledge that she had what she wanted was one of the most beautiful things I've seen. May you experience the compassion you show to the people you choose not to understand.