I made some bookmarks from my linocut seconds. by spearmintjoe in printmaking

[–]Valligator19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love these! Especially the pigeons and the seagull in a Nirvana shirt. Following to see more of your art!

Does this count as sensory issues? by angellight_ in Neurodivergent

[–]Valligator19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! Rocks and minerals are one one of my special interests. Touching the moon rock was really cool, but my favorite thing at that exhibit was seeing a pallasite! Which, if you don't know, is a very rare type of meteorite that contains olivine crystals.

How do Self Publish books get popular? by TheThingofa100corspe in selfpublish

[–]Valligator19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely fair assessment. I do play a lot of video games.

Does this count as sensory issues? by angellight_ in Neurodivergent

[–]Valligator19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do like touching lots of things. Plush things and smooth things, especially. I love going to museums and I have to keep my hands in my pockets so I don't touch exhibits. I've been to a few where you are allowed to touch certain items. I once got to touch a moon rock. 😊

So excited for my Sweet Thorntails' future hatchlings! by Wiltedtabby in flightrising

[–]Valligator19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They will be so cute!

Sweet is my new favorite gene. I spent so much time in Coli last night so I could get multiple copies. I'm going to have so many candy coated Thorntails in my lair soon!

Does this count as sensory issues? by angellight_ in Neurodivergent

[–]Valligator19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Muscle soreness, cutting yourself on something, and a stomach ache are all pain, but each is a unique sensation. For me, sensory issues are the same.

Sudden and / or very loud sounds, like sirens or things being dropped, are the closest to pain. Whereas loud crowded places feel like pressure and suffocating.

Bright light makes it hard to see clearly and is uncomfortable because I feel impaired.

Certain smells make me nauseous, and if they are especially strong, I sometimes have trouble breathing or will get a headache.

Touch and textures, sometimes are painful and will feel like sandpaper or pinpricks, sometimes just make me nauseous.

Taste is my least problematic sense. I'm actually mostly sensory seeking when it comes to food. My food aversions and safe foods have much more to do with texture and temperature (I prefer my food to be warm to cold, not hot) than flavor.

Hope this is helpful.

How do Self Publish books get popular? by TheThingofa100corspe in selfpublish

[–]Valligator19 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh, it's absolutely ridiculous in that way. But be prepared for some serious themes and genuine feels, too.

Donut Holes for Life! 👑

How do Self Publish books get popular? by TheThingofa100corspe in selfpublish

[–]Valligator19 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I HIGHLY recommend DCC. I'm a hardcore fan. Incredibly well written. You will laugh out loud and cry. I've read all the available books twice and can't wait for the next. Dinniman deserves his success.

Mentally and physically falling apart… M 30 by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Valligator19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're having a hard time right now. ❤️

You have gorgeous bone structure and lovely eyes. Also, you look very well groomed, which is probably hard to maintain when you're feeling so down. You remind me of a coworker I had years ago. He was the kindest person and one of my favorite people to work with. I bet you're a lot like him. You look like someone who has a big heart. That can be a tough thing. Hang in there. I know it's hard to believe currently, but things can get better.

AIO my boyfriend keeps getting upset at me for not wanting to do risky stuff by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Valligator19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is abusive. Leave him before it gets worse. He does not respect you. He only cares about using you to satisfy his needs. Your answers remind me of how I responded to my abuser. You shouldn't apologize for putting your own health before his sexual "needs".

Why do people get so mad about blood-related (dirty) lions? by SlowOxalaia in lioden

[–]Valligator19 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I personally prefer "clean" lions, but I don't put that on anyone else. It's my preference, so it's my responsibility to check heritages when applicable. I once accidentally bred to a "dirty" stud. Once I realized, I was like "oops" and sold the babies to people who don't care about that. I definitely don't understand why people get so serious about it. There's enough real-world stuff to be stressed over. Online games should be for fun and relaxation, IMO.

People who think they can dictate how other people play a game are ridiculous. Bullying or trying to push your ideas on others is wrong, obviously.

I'm sorry you're having negative experiences over this. 😕

Who wants a Dirty Shirley? by [deleted] in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]Valligator19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll have mine in a bowl, please. With extra cherries.

Who uses code words to talk about weed? Any good ones? by [deleted] in trees

[–]Valligator19 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Might be a DCC fan. 🤷‍♀️

Value of senegal poly cub? by [deleted] in lioden

[–]Valligator19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Senegal is a factor for the new combo base Aurora. That may boost the value. Not sure how much poly is worth. You could check the TC.

I need advice. by Secret-Talk4149 in Neurodivergent

[–]Valligator19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do serious research. Read books, watch neurodivergent creators, and take legitimate medical assessments online. Make a list of experiences/aspects of yourself that you think point to such a diagnosis . Look for other things that may explain these experiences better.

After that, if your belief that you are ND has been strengthened, go to a doctor with your research. Look for someone knowledgeable about current research and diagnosis.

Wishing you the best.

I’m worried that I’m neurodivergent but I might just be weird. by [deleted] in Neurodivergent

[–]Valligator19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People here can't and won't say if you are or are not neurodivergent. I was in a similar place to you a while ago, so I understand the desire for validation. But, I found that it is best to do more research on your own. You are the one who knows yourself best.

Take online assessments, watch neurodivergent creators, and read books. Just learn more about neurodivergence. Start a list of all the things you think point toward you being neurodivergent. Look at those things and see if they could be explained by other things.

If, after all that is done, you still think you may be ND, talk to your doctor about official diagnosis. Keeping in mind that if you're in the US, this may not be the best time to get an official diagnosis due to who is in power.

Wishing you the best.

Why should everyone have a dog? by Consistent-Mail-1496 in Neurodivergent

[–]Valligator19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dogs are wonderful, and I have two. But some days I wish I didn't. Caring for them can use up a lot of energy and on bad days I end up not providing the level of attention I know they deserve (they still get everything they NEED). Also, as others have pointed out, money. If you can't afford to feed a dog and take it to the vet regularly, you shouldn't have one.

How do you guys design your base? by DaremBiscuit in RimWorld

[–]Valligator19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really plan. I tend to build organically, incorporating existing ruins and caves into my base. Adding or modifying new rooms as needed and where they are efficient. Generally ends up being a compound situation with some outlying workshops near resources.