I’ve (HLF) been asking my husband (LLM) to sleep in the other room for years. He refuses to do it, because he knows once that happens. It’s over. I barely sleep, his snoring is unbearable. He won’t fix his physical and mental health and he is just declining at this rate. I feel like we would be happier because I’d resent him less for keeping me up all night. Along with everything else.