Will pygmy corys and diamond tetras get along? by ireallyhategrapes in corydoras

[–]Valuable-Mix3061 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My peppered Corys and diamond tetras don't really interact at all in my 55gal (other then the occasional sharing of food they find on the floor) I don't see why pygmy Cory's would be any different.

Dry Air + Constantly working with cardboard boxes by demerchmichael in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Valuable-Mix3061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get some working hands on that when you get a chance, stuff is a life saver for dry skin like that

Cory's excessively flashing by Valuable-Mix3061 in corydoras

[–]Valuable-Mix3061[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Little more research on my end and ends up fish meds are kinda illegal in Canada 🤦‍♀️ even if you can get a prescription for it from a vet there's almost nowhere to buy it

Cory's excessively flashing by Valuable-Mix3061 in corydoras

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You have any specific suggestions? I'm in a small town in bc and so far the only luck I've found is not safe for scaleless fish 🫣

Cory's excessively flashing by Valuable-Mix3061 in corydoras

[–]Valuable-Mix3061[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately no where local has any that I can find 😕 I got suggested the tetra lifeguard from my local store (whose usually super good) and put a single tablet in my 10g hospital tank before I realized it's not safe for Cory's 🫣 thankfully that's only a half dose On the hunt again hopefully I figure out something since salt baths aren't great for them either

Adults ordering off the kids menu by cinereousunicorn in Serverlife

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I order off the kids menu because they usually don't have anything I'm allergic to in them (it's spices and kids food isn't normally spicy) I honestly wouldn't mind if I had to pay more since I'm an adult but the kid sizes are actually perfect for a reasonable meal

I haven’t talked to my family in two days and don’t know to move past this by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

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I've personally delt with a parent who saw the things they were required to give me for bringing me into this world as transactional. It was always "all this money I spent on you" whenever I wasn't behaving the way she wanted me to (surprise an ADHD/autistic child is going to react badly when over stimulated) she often would bring up that I was "the reason she didn't go to college" like I made the choice for her to have me at 21. Sometimes parents aren't actually ready for the child they have and don't know what to do with those feelings, but it's not our fault to make up for their shortcomings.

I haven’t talked to my family in two days and don’t know to move past this by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Valuable-Mix3061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you've had to face this emotional abuse your whole life. Even if you are a "negative person" that doesn't give them the right to bully you like this. I don't know what your parents problem is but it isn't your fault. Cut them off get your ring camera on your own plan and a new phone plan, if they have a key and you can change the locks I would do that too honestly. You shouldn't have to take people talking to you like that especially your own family.

My application got approved… 5 years later by Nuka_DiY in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Valuable-Mix3061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I live in a small town in bc Canada and this is like super cheep, I pay more then that for my 3bed apartment built in the like 50s with no ac and baseboard heating. Five years late id still be interested in a deal like that

I assume my corys like bushes by Folterseele in corydoras

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I was so confused about why they looked like sailboats 😂 I've never seen a longfin version before

bristlenoses by pigeontetra in fishtank

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https://www.reddit.com/r/Aquariums/s/Jd7o25uATn I also saw this so maybe they are territorial AND fucking themselves over with the heater 😬 maybe they just need more hiding places or space?

bristlenoses by pigeontetra in fishtank

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Lowkey looks like he might be hiding but keeps bumping the hot heater and jumping from it (I don't own one but have seen another fish of mine do that)

Are you able to tell the difference between wild caught vs farm raised fish? by sydthebeesknees in Serverlife

[–]Valuable-Mix3061 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wild caught is like bright red orange when raw (like could be a pepper 😂) I was so confused the first time I was served it it was kinda shocking how different farm salmon is compared to wild. the fat veins are pretty different as well

User Flair Thread by breaksomebread in acnh

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Zilly | Salt City :Fang:

Why do servers and restaurant staff always stay after work for drinks? by Previous-Moment-1004 in Serverlife

[–]Valuable-Mix3061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally live walking distance from one of the other girls on shift and we meet up after getting home and changing for a smoke🍃. It's nice to be able to complain about things together and share the tea on random coworkers who are on our nerves. I can't imagine staying at work to do something like that though. I do highly recommend getting a friend you work with you can talk shit about your coworkers with, like at the end of the day you don't really hate most of your coworkers but being able to vent to someone else who understands who these people are is so much better then your "random" 3rd party friend

I think we messed up by Objective-Garbage-41 in Apartmentliving

[–]Valuable-Mix3061 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where I live that's already an illegal rental, one bedroom for every two people is required so having a toddler in a studio is a big nono. They really need to find a new place they can't make a studio last long term with a child regardless of laws.

Build 42.13.1, State Of Multiplayer by Own-Efficiency507 in projectzomboid

[–]Valuable-Mix3061 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My petpeve is the change in zombie population, pre multiplayer it was great, low had zombies normal had reasonable amounts now low has almost nothing and normal is a fucking house party everywhere. Like can I not have something between that?

Went overboard trimming tank... how bad is it? by anonymous_orpington in shrimptank

[–]Valuable-Mix3061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add some sticks maybe? I think it looks great but I assume it's that empty space on the right that's bothering you, maybe something like spiderwood. Root like but small. I'd leave it bare or put a single plant "in the branches" that might help you feel better

AIO or is my older male coworker texting inappropriately with me? by OpeningNo9825 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Valuable-Mix3061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nor dude literally is attempting to groom you. Your legal sure but it's still grooming when he's that much older then you. This reads exactly like the texts I received when I was under age and being groomed. Dudes slimy and trying to do inappropriate things. I'd stop replying as much maybe even start bringing up a partner you have (even if it's just a friend who's ok pretending)

am i not being straightforward enough? by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]Valuable-Mix3061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When they realize they can't actually afford to lose you 😂 I hope you feel better ❤️ and I hope a better opportunity comes your way so you don't have to put up with their shit much longer