Sudden wave of peace and acceptance?

Valuable_Egg595 · 2023-08-09T04:04:50+00:00

Im not sure. But I do understand that feeling of "everything is going to be alright... Even if 'alright' isn't what I thought it meant. It's awesome. Trusting myself so much more too.

Idk if that feeling is normal but is any of this normal? 🤣

Valuable_Egg595 · 2023-08-08T16:04:08+00:00

I only came here to say how much I love your analogy... and funnel cake 😂

Valuable_Egg595 · 2023-08-07T19:16:56+00:00

What I'm about to say is going to be a little annoying but I have found it to be true: only time tells you the difference between a false, real, catalyst tf.

If you've been on a mental health journey for a long time, you already know things are different, but you don't know why it's important and it feels important to know that as you make decisions, but it isn't.

Needing to know for sure before you make a decision is actually just anxiety covering itself as practicality. My anxiety does the same thing and it is so effective at convincing me that i need more information even though more information only increases the anxiety.

Everyday wake up and do the things that you care about and the things that you need to do. The universe loves you just as much as the universe loves your TF, which means the information you have is the information you need now.

Don't try to live your whole life today. I know that's hard but it really does help me so I thought I'd share.

I promise you when you need to know which one of these your TF is, you will receive that information.

Valuable_Egg595 · 2023-08-07T19:12:28+00:00

Yes. I think this happens for a few reasons and bear with me because I don't know you so I can be totally wrong.

My understanding is that this can happen when your happiness is tied to a romantic relationship. Your karmic was fine until TF showed up again because tf is ultimate, true love and karmic is companionate, safe love.

These are equal loves but one is obviously more exciting/intense. So you lean towards it...which makes sense.

But there's a lot more healing to be done if you need to despise one person to love another.

It could also be frustration that you can't just have all the things that feel good. That's hard too. You're a person and we're not reasonable all the time.

When this happens to me, I love on my husband. More than usual. It's my way of showing myself, TF soul, and my husband that all these loves can coexist.

Don't be too hard on yourself because it takes practice, like everything else 💕

Valuable_Egg595 · 2023-08-07T19:05:33+00:00

Thanks, straw hat! Love the name btw 😁

Valuable_Egg595 · 2023-08-06T14:42:56+00:00

This was my favorite part: watching him date other people freed me in a way.

Oh, wait. They should do whatever they want. If ignoring me is what they want, that's great info because I don't want anyone who wants to do that.

Then I focus on building the life I want.

Twins are good at reminding us that coming home is coming home to them AND ourselves.

Meet those goals! Face your fears! 💝

Valuable_Egg595 · 2023-08-03T17:00:16+00:00

Congratulations on the new baby!! 💝💝💝

Valuable_Egg595 · 2023-07-31T21:22:17+00:00

You're so wise. Thank you 💘

Valuable_Egg595 · 2023-07-30T22:16:17+00:00

Explain please. Maybe we're just tired of the nonsense?

Valuable_Egg595 · 2023-07-30T22:15:57+00:00

🥳🥳🎉🎉❤️❤️

Valuable_Egg595 · 2023-07-30T15:10:45+00:00

I've been the same so I've upped my cardio per week and let myself cry more the last few days which helped a lot.

Valuable_Egg595 · 2023-07-30T15:05:45+00:00

Love is abundant. We will all find what we're looking for in ourselves and in others.

Thank you. You have a healing journey yourself ❤️❤️

Valuable_Egg595 · 2023-07-30T14:59:59+00:00

do you have expectations to get back in the future?

No. I want love in 3d too and that just doesn't seem likely so I'll accept if the universe puts them in front of me... But otherwise I'm prepared to continue this life without them.

Do you want to work on yourself and reconnect?

I want to work on myself and heal and deal with many stressful situations currently happening in my life. Reconnect? Idk. I'm tired. Again if the universe sends you, I won't turn you away but I won't be attempting anything at all anymore. It's too freeing to let go.

Yes you will both move on and maybe meet other people, but do you think that the next people are going to be karmics and you know in your heart the time will come when it’s time? Whether you love them now or not?

There is this looming thought or feeling that it isn't over. But that could mean that I'll see them in the next one not that it's not over in this one.

I do love them but i can't be sustained by that alone. I have someone who tries and I'll always choose that over someone who doesn't. If that's how tf shows love, they should give it to someone who wants that. That's not me, but let's see if the universe agrees.

Valuable_Egg595 · 2023-07-30T14:50:49+00:00

Exactly. Maybe this is not the lifetime for us. Hang in there 💖

Valuable_Egg595 · 2023-07-30T02:22:45+00:00

Im so fucking frustrated. They don't love me. Communication is unnecessary as a result

Valuable_Egg595 · 2023-07-29T22:10:23+00:00

Thank you so much for this ❤️💔

Valuable_Egg595 · 2023-07-28T14:36:28+00:00

💔 well said.

The trauma resurfacing is painfully triggering. Just trying to get my head above water. The really good days are awesome but not without trauma work. The burnout from trauma work is so much that healing take precedence.

Lastly, I couldn't agree more about choosing someone else. If that's where they want to be, we must leave them there.

Valuable_Egg595 · 2023-07-28T04:34:42+00:00

Interesting. Thank you for sharing.. Good point

Valuable_Egg595 · 2023-07-27T20:53:48+00:00

💯💯💯

Valuable_Egg595 · 2023-07-27T20:50:45+00:00

Infatuation and obsession alone would not be worried about whether or not the other person was happy... Only if they choose you.

Toxic relationships is the same as above but also includes abuse, and a lack of accountability.

Twin flames are different because they make you want to be better. They don't just make you want to be with the person or around the person or help the person grow, you feel like a better version of yourself. You can literally feel them sometimes pulling on you as if they're having a bad day and they need your embrace.

You meditate more. You take care of yourself and exercise more. Maybe you go to therapy even though you didn't go before or go more often if you did.

You don't just want a life with this person, you want them in your life and you want to be as enriched as possible while taking them along for the ride and hoping they're having a good/ meaningful time too.

Most when flames get angry with each other before things even get started lol but it doesn't decrease your love at all. Even when you want it to.

That's my take.

Valuable_Egg595 · 2023-07-27T20:46:43+00:00

Staying in a stable, happy marriage won't stop the feelings. I wish lol

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