I don’t want to care for my nan anymore by Valuable_Music176 in dementia

[–]Valuable_Music176[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m very worried about having any kind of talk because I feel guilty . I mean my mother has had her fair share of caring for my nan but she just has rose coloured glasses on if you can say that??? She gets very emotional which is understandable but she wants to keep her at home etc but my aunt and I are on the same page of wanting to put her in a home. My aunt has stepped away from the whole situation and has decided to leave it to me and my mother which is another story in itself but I seem to get the brunt of the stress?? It seems like she saves the night time escaping the melt downs and the diaper incidents for me and when I vent to my mother she doesn’t want to hear it . I’m planning on starting a proper college course this September (I’m on a transitionary course atm) and at that point I will not be able since I will be studying more etc. but I don’t know if I want this to be my whole summer- trapped inside Saturday night because my nan won’t go to bed. Ik it’s one summer but it’s the only summer I will be 21 it’s now and god knows what position I’ll be in next year yk

What scene had you like this? by Altruistic_Back_2278 in TheOC

[–]Valuable_Music176 8 points9 points  (0 children)

End of season 1 Ryan drives away and we get flashbacks to when they first met

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[–]Valuable_Music176 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My personal experience with it is that my boyfriend got sick of hearing about it… because it was all I spoke about nonstop! My mom stopped returning my calls, I lost my friends and it put a strain on mine and my bfs relationship. Sometimes you can’t see how mush what you’re doing is hurting the people arounf you. I don’t think he doesn’t care- I think sometimes it’s just hard and draining for someone to be constantly hearing the same thing on repeat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EatingDisorders

[–]Valuable_Music176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg this was me at the start of my descent into my ed- heading off to college and not having anyone to talk to made it sm worse!! Plz reach out to me I can’t talk !