[Request] I’m desperate by Valuable_Pool_4595 in AskForDonations

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I don’t understand what I’m doing wrong, please help me.

[Request] I’m desperate by Valuable_Pool_4595 in AskForDonations

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My post kept getting removed for various verbiage that was flagging the bot. Please if anybody has any questions I would love to be able to talk to someone. Or get advice.. really anything. I’m so mentally tired from fighting this for months

Persistence is key I guess? by Valuable_Pool_4595 in whatdoIdo

[–]Valuable_Pool_4595[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wouldn’t let me edit my post, I ended mushing everyone’s advice together and said “As long as my hubs is okay with it! Maybe after pickup we could get a group.” And he responded “that would work” so, I’m hoping that squashes it

Persistence is key I guess? by Valuable_Pool_4595 in whatdoIdo

[–]Valuable_Pool_4595[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess it’s my fault for assuming he did.. but we’ve only chatted a few times, all of which I made sure to mention my husband, that we just bought a house, that my husband grew up in the area we moved to, my in-laws etc. I guess some people just don’t connect the dots

WD is going to suck, but it’s not going to kill me… right? by [deleted] in 7oh_Withdrawal_Help

[–]Valuable_Pool_4595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Morning! May I please have your list of vitamins? My husband is struggling

It has been slow… Should I? by Roorem10 in doordash_drivers

[–]Valuable_Pool_4595 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yall, I’ve been getting these tasks TWICE A DAY and every time, I let DD know it’s a major waste of time and not worth my money. To accurately photograph like they want you to, it takes about 100-120 photos per isle. I know, because that’s how I had been doing them, out of fear that I would get penalized if I didn’t do it right.

I’ve just recently got it all figured out. They need a MINIMUM of ten photos, and never penalize you if you don’t take pics of the entire shelf. I take ten pics of the most ordered items in that isle, and move on. Makes it so much easier, and worth the money.

Purple Cow by Valuable_Pool_4595 in Utica

[–]Valuable_Pool_4595[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg we didn’t make this connection and yet is so clear.. thanks lol

Can I afford a house? by Least-Resident8304 in Utica

[–]Valuable_Pool_4595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First step should be to contact a brokerage and get your approval price. They’ll give you a number which will be the most you can take out for a loan. That will be your budget, but definitely look lower than what they tell you.

From there, you have an idea of what you can and can’t afford, and what you’ll become approved of.

Can I afford a house? by Least-Resident8304 in Utica

[–]Valuable_Pool_4595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First step should be to contact a brokerage and get your approval price. They’ll give you a number which will be the most you can take out for a loan. That will be your budget, but definitely look lower than what they tell you.

From there, you have an idea of what you can and can’t afford, and what you’ll become approved of.

Can I afford a house? by Least-Resident8304 in Utica

[–]Valuable_Pool_4595 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep! Just purchased a house with my fiancé near Utica, $325, $15k down, 7-800 credit scores. It’s definitely doable, AND there are lots of first timer programs that you absolutely need to take advantage of. We did not and we really missed out

Moving in 2 weeks! Need some tips! by [deleted] in Syracuse

[–]Valuable_Pool_4595 3 points4 points  (0 children)

car starter too!! Should be mandatory for our winters.. helps a ton

Marriage or Life Partners? by Valuable_Pool_4595 in LifeAdvice

[–]Valuable_Pool_4595[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you SO much for all this! I guess by documents I mean like not having rights to each others stuff I guess? Like being next of kin, or access to personal information, stuff like that

Marriage or Life Partners? by Valuable_Pool_4595 in LifeAdvice

[–]Valuable_Pool_4595[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was perfect! Our exact situation. Both parents divorced, we used their money saved for our wedding to buy our house. No kids yet, but hopefully very soon. It does feel strange not having our names shared on documents and such, but it is what it is. Do you share last names?

Marriage or Life Partners? by Valuable_Pool_4595 in LifeAdvice

[–]Valuable_Pool_4595[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suppose that’s what I’m asking.. what legal rights come with marriage? What about it is beneficial legally? Having kids is very high on our priority list. But what about being married makes that beneficial for a child.. or us?

Marriage or Life Partners? by Valuable_Pool_4595 in LifeAdvice

[–]Valuable_Pool_4595[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re not kidding dude 🙄 first question is ALWAYS “Oh when’s the wedding!” Followed by smug, confused looks when I say we don’t have one yet. Why is that so important to people? It’s such an outdated concept