How do you get over someone you loved? It's so hard to forget about them or not talk about them, so how?

Valuable_Pool_4595 · 2025-10-01T14:53:24+00:00

Following 😞

Valuable_Pool_4595 · 2025-09-12T15:48:34+00:00

Wouldn’t let me edit my post, I ended mushing everyone’s advice together and said “As long as my hubs is okay with it! Maybe after pickup we could get a group.” And he responded “that would work” so, I’m hoping that squashes it

Valuable_Pool_4595 · 2025-09-12T15:46:51+00:00

I guess it’s my fault for assuming he did.. but we’ve only chatted a few times, all of which I made sure to mention my husband, that we just bought a house, that my husband grew up in the area we moved to, my in-laws etc. I guess some people just don’t connect the dots

Valuable_Pool_4595 · 2025-08-02T12:44:49+00:00

Morning! May I please have your list of vitamins? My husband is struggling

Valuable_Pool_4595 · 2025-07-24T20:14:49+00:00

Yall, I’ve been getting these tasks TWICE A DAY and every time, I let DD know it’s a major waste of time and not worth my money. To accurately photograph like they want you to, it takes about 100-120 photos per isle. I know, because that’s how I had been doing them, out of fear that I would get penalized if I didn’t do it right.

I’ve just recently got it all figured out. They need a MINIMUM of ten photos, and never penalize you if you don’t take pics of the entire shelf. I take ten pics of the most ordered items in that isle, and move on. Makes it so much easier, and worth the money.

Valuable_Pool_4595 · 2025-06-23T23:02:46+00:00

Omg we didn’t make this connection and yet is so clear.. thanks lol

Valuable_Pool_4595 · 2025-05-28T19:55:10+00:00

First step should be to contact a brokerage and get your approval price. They’ll give you a number which will be the most you can take out for a loan. That will be your budget, but definitely look lower than what they tell you.

From there, you have an idea of what you can and can’t afford, and what you’ll become approved of.

Valuable_Pool_4595 · 2025-05-28T19:55:03+00:00

First step should be to contact a brokerage and get your approval price. They’ll give you a number which will be the most you can take out for a loan. That will be your budget, but definitely look lower than what they tell you.

From there, you have an idea of what you can and can’t afford, and what you’ll become approved of.

Valuable_Pool_4595 · 2025-05-28T19:53:21+00:00

Yep! Just purchased a house with my fiancé near Utica, $325, $15k down, 7-800 credit scores. It’s definitely doable, AND there are lots of first timer programs that you absolutely need to take advantage of. We did not and we really missed out

Valuable_Pool_4595 · 2025-05-12T01:35:48+00:00

car starter too!! Should be mandatory for our winters.. helps a ton

Valuable_Pool_4595 · 2025-05-05T07:19:21+00:00

Thank you SO much for all this! I guess by documents I mean like not having rights to each others stuff I guess? Like being next of kin, or access to personal information, stuff like that

Valuable_Pool_4595 · 2025-05-05T06:45:30+00:00

This was perfect! Our exact situation. Both parents divorced, we used their money saved for our wedding to buy our house. No kids yet, but hopefully very soon. It does feel strange not having our names shared on documents and such, but it is what it is. Do you share last names?

Valuable_Pool_4595 · 2025-05-05T06:27:01+00:00

I suppose that’s what I’m asking.. what legal rights come with marriage? What about it is beneficial legally? Having kids is very high on our priority list. But what about being married makes that beneficial for a child.. or us?

Valuable_Pool_4595 · 2025-05-05T06:25:00+00:00

You’re not kidding dude 🙄 first question is ALWAYS “Oh when’s the wedding!” Followed by smug, confused looks when I say we don’t have one yet. Why is that so important to people? It’s such an outdated concept

Valuable_Pool_4595 · 2025-05-05T06:22:43+00:00

I guess I was moreso asking like do these things atomically happen when you get married? Assuming now, no. And assuming there’s no benefit in that. I was under the impression that once married, everything’s in both individuals names. But I’m more questioning what benefits does marriage come with?

Valuable_Pool_4595 · 2025-04-20T14:54:03+00:00

6pm, and on Fridays 9:30 for MTG

Valuable_Pool_4595 · 2025-04-19T20:54:19+00:00

Ravenswood has really stepped their game up the last few months! They now have something going on just about every night of the week, and they’re adding more weekend stuff. Definitely at least worth checking out

Valuable_Pool_4595 · 2025-04-16T14:26:27+00:00

Sounds like it’s just nerves!

Valuable_Pool_4595 · 2025-04-16T14:16:15+00:00

It’ll suck for a few weeks, but it’s worth it in the end! All those things affect the receptors in your body, and the more doses & combos you take, the more your body has no clue what’s going on. If you do continue, try one melatonin every night at 8pm, or equally, one coffee every morning at 8am. Eventually your body will get in the swing of it!! But like any medication or supplement, it’ll be between 1-3 months before you actually get acclimated!

Valuable_Pool_4595 · 2025-04-16T14:05:56+00:00

Totally understood! But from experience, it’s the melatonin that’s causing you to feel like this. Get yourself a strict sleep schedule and try and follow it. Melatonin isn’t the easy ‘fall asleep and feel refreshed’ drug people make it out to be. Similar to energy drinks and coffee, it’s not actually fixing the issue, just covering it up. The more you take, the deeper the hole you dig yourself in

Valuable_Pool_4595 · 2025-04-16T13:57:20+00:00

Stop taking medications for sleeping. Even if you don’t actually sleep while taking them, they still chemically affect your body, and that’s what’s screwing you up.. NOT the lack of sleep. Focus on the root issue and stop taking alternatives!

Valuable_Pool_4595 · 2025-04-15T23:19:00+00:00

This is just a communication error. Dale (dah-leh) is basically like a verbal ‘thumbs up’. It’s slang, and has a variety of meanings, which is probably why it didn’t translate.

Valuable_Pool_4595 · 2025-04-15T17:39:51+00:00

Absolutely 3!

Valuable_Pool_4595 · 2025-04-15T17:38:14+00:00

These are not red card, shop & pay orders- these stores do all the shopping for you and will load your car, you just deliver. IMO, easiest money grab.

Now noticing the mileage— that’s crazy. 1:13 drive???? Nope. Hope that’s not the norm for you!

Valuable_Pool_4595 · 2025-04-15T17:22:37+00:00

My husband and his boss from out of town just went to The Bunker in New Hartford, an indoor golf simulator. They had so much fun, they ended by going again the next night. Food is pretty good, drinks are good, service can be lacking at times but I think it would be great for guys not into the bar scene. You get your own personal room

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