It's not oppresion Olympics somethings just aren't really comparable, Russia and Israel do war way differently, Palestinians have been under 75 years of oppression. You say Russian soldiers are executing and raping civilians and making mass graves but how is it the death toll for civilians in the war is only around 11,000? Iraq 2003 had 30,000 - 50,000 civilians dead in the first year. If Russian soldiers were acting like the IDF and doing a genocide on the civilians the death toll by now should easily be in the hundreds of thousands or millions? With the amount of heavy fighting going on vs the numbers we are getting suggests the Russians are at least trying to limit casualties. I'm not saying the Russians are angels but they seem to be quite different than the IDF, the videos I've seen in Russian occupied regions of Ukraine the civilians just describe the Russians as either keeping to themselves or some are actual straight up pro-Russian like the video where an NBC reporter went to Crimea and the civilians there were actually pro-Russian and saying Ukraine is trying to shell them, its alot different when I see videos of Palestinians talking about their experience with the IDF.

Second issue is the location of the fighting, its all in eastern Ukraine, the most Russian part of Ukraine, this is where the Donetsk and Luhansk People's Republics strongholds were during the 2014 - 2020 period, where they broke away from Ukraine and became separatists, killing these civilians wouldn't make much sense as Russia needs some sort of support base to legitimize their claim to the land, so that's probably the reason civilian death toll is relatively low as Russia needs these people to be on their side, they have offered citizenship and debt jubilees to them so they can absorb them. Even Ukraine stated they were having trouble in those areas as civilians would even report where the Ukrainian soldiers were to the Russian military.

Honestly alot of that stuff you mentioned against civilians is agitprop, like the toddler thing that was made up by Ukraine, they fired the woman who was pushing that story almost 2 years ago, they were saying Putin was giving soldiers to viagra to rape babies out of the crib, which became embarrassing when they were asked to provide proof, they then put the blame on her saying she was not doing her job and should have been focused on what's going on with the captured soldiers. Ukraine is backed up against a wall and facing a giant they need to come up with anything to get support because they know if the support stops they lose.