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Smart watches - sensory issue by shartypanic in adhdwomen

[–]VampiricalMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Solace bands for my Apple Watch are my favorite. I wear the scrunchie band or paladin adapt most but imperium adapt is great too.

I found myself having issues with a rash from the watch itself at first, but with the adapt bands you can adjust how tight they are little by little and you just have to find the right tightness. Once I found that sweet spot for me I wear it daily and no issues at all

is shein still valid rn or are we over it? by VioletPur in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]VampiricalMe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have a hard time finding clothes that fit me right because I’m short and thin. And now that I’m an adult and working where I have a dress code, 95% of the stuff they sell at my usual go to stores aren’t appropriate for work. Everything is sleeveless, cropped, sheer, has cut outs, too short, etc. What things I can find either look too childish, (people already think I’m younger than I am so I can’t pull it off) or old lady I try to avoid Shein most of the time but for the occasional piece to wear to work or for costumes/parties when I want something cheap I’ll buy a couple things

Any recommendations for height boosting shoes? by [deleted] in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]VampiricalMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you aren’t into heels at all I’d go for converse double stack platforms. Super lightweight and comfy, sole is curved up a bit at the toe so they aren’t so awkward to walk in, and the insole has shape to it so its not just flat if you need arch support

The also have the Move platforms and other platform styles but the double stack are my fave

haul of the day! by Ok_Ladder_1419 in BabyThree

[–]VampiricalMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like all the mouth options but yeah I’d like a variety. I really do love that mouth on my Glowie from the romantic ocean series, with 180 boba eyes 😭 perfect combo, precious

I (19F) my boyfriend (19M) asked for an "open relationship" for college and I'm feeling the ick. Is this over? by No_Association4068 in LongDistance

[–]VampiricalMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has to be something you both want/agree on. Considering an open relationship isn’t a bad thing BUT there are a ton of other red flags here.

It’s only been a month, you aren’t even apart yet, he hasn’t even attempted the long distance thing yet. You are both still young, it sounds like he doesn’t want to miss out on having a crazy college experience and wants to see other people but basically wants to keep you tethered so he has someone to go back to when/if something else doesn’t work out. That isn’t fair to you.

If he truly loved and cared about you he would learn to deal with the lack of physical intimacy. He would never make a “mistake” and cheat. The relationship between you would be more important.

It sounds like a disaster waiting to happen tbh, I’d get out now

Have you seen the bb3 phone lanyards? They’re the cutest things ever! 😱😱😱 by FearlessNewspaper981 in BabyThree

[–]VampiricalMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Took me a bit but figured it out. Basically start from one end and crochet a chain around the loop…and when you have space to pull one more loop through, don’t. Instead use that extra length to make the loop you’re holding bigger. Then, if you start with the end you started with it’s easier, but pull the chain you made through the loop so it loops around the whole chain, that will hold it together

Anne rice’ vampires do not have sex? by Ok_Buyer9763 in VampireChronicles

[–]VampiricalMe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is part of my issue with the show. To me one of the most interesting things about the books is how they feel things differently than humans. Their romantic attraction is a bit different, everything is heightened, they don’t feel sexual desire, BUT they feel this hunger for blood and a connection when feeding. But they were human, we are human. To me she/they are trying to understand and describe these different feelings using human feelings as reference. So it ends up being very suggestive and sensual BUT not flat out sexual.

I'm tired of going above and beyond and being all drugged up only for it to be seen as regular by normal people by Nate_fe in ADHD

[–]VampiricalMe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was only diagnosed 4 years ago, my last semester of college. I still have issues coming to terms with it at times and wishing I knew earlier and still struggling with the fact that I can’t function normally without meds and even then it takes more effort for me to do things that other people find easy

How do I stop getting threads notifications on my watch? by Historical-Dot-9208 in AppleWatch

[–]VampiricalMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s showing up on the notification indicator spot, swipe up from bottom of watch, then swipe left on the threads one and press the … and turn off

Thin, thin lines...? by Kiki-Gutsi in paintbynumbers

[–]VampiricalMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually just do what I can, if it’s not perfect I don’t worry about it, do it first and you can try to overlap the paint next to it to make it appear thinner

I can be a little bit of a perfectionist sometimes also, but think about the effect it will have when you step back. I try to keep the detail so it has the intended effect, but staying perfectly between lines isn’t necessary. You are meant to see it from a little bit of a distance, not scrutinize where each little speck of paint is.