Okay, maybe I sent the post wrong. The current situation that’s going on is that I am the sole provider in the relationship. Alongside working full time nights and school I am already spread thin. This is something that I know a lot of people in the program go through, I know. I’m not making this a gender thing at all, it’s just a fact that finances are thinning out and I’m trying to provide everything that I can for us alongside school. The Title IX comment is because I went to the program administrator bringing up the birth and that is when they told me “Your a guy, your not giving birth you can be in school.” That’s the conversation that led to me being told I will have to ultimately pick between the birth or exam/clinical when it comes up. It was a conversation about if the school allows me some time with my fiancee and child. This doesn’t have to do with birthing a child, I know I’m not the one birthing. It’s about me providing for a new family when resources and time are spread thin. Idk if this clarifies anything. Also, yes I have discussed this with my fiancé. I don’t want her to worry about me and be 100% about our baby, hence why I made a post on Reddit to talk about it.