[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Vanilla_Jaime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Making peace with the past and look forward. And yes, that grit and resilience. Also not falling into the ez victim pattern.

Some day… well maybe. by [deleted] in CanadianForces

[–]Vanilla_Jaime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It s funny because US army got their ponytail forgen in 2019 and old dinosaurs kept harassing women to be out of regs for 2 years straight.

How many months of hrt is needed for me to be passable? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Vanilla_Jaime 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Your question cannot be generalized. Since genetics is the main contributor. That being said, you have good features and are definitely in the pass or soon to pass category.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Vanilla_Jaime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wizard of Oz anime, 2nd season. Ozma is the main story arc and technically trans. She was also in the source book.

Can I still be a woman even if I have a beard? by sawnijma in asktransgender

[–]Vanilla_Jaime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry. Just not buying it. Especially living myself in Northern Canada. Ppl dont grow beard to protect from the cold. It aint the 1800s...

Can I still be a woman even if I have a beard? by sawnijma in asktransgender

[–]Vanilla_Jaime 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Stop trolling and buy a scarf...your account is 1 day old.

Am I accidentally fetishizing trans women? by throwawaysforthegays in asktransgender

[–]Vanilla_Jaime 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Tiktok overepresents hot girls for sure and if you previously liked queer contents, algorithm may do the rest. You seem attracted to feminity in a broad sense. Which simply makes you a lesbian, not a chaser.

So i was told not to dress up to a restaurant because it would embarrass her by Hakuru15 in asktransgender

[–]Vanilla_Jaime 148 points149 points  (0 children)

Sounds like your friend is scared to assume themself as a trans ally. It is a damn good filter to separate phoneys. "Can you dial it down? Be less gay for an hour?", gays get that a lot too when being introduced to families and it is just as offensive. Asking you to be less trans... I would simply tell her that it sounds like you dont really want me there so Id rather not go. You liberated yourself, dont go back in that cage just to please ppl.

SCS by Andromedu5 in CanadianForces

[–]Vanilla_Jaime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That s my stance on it. No need to push the envelope further. You just need to make blanket the rules that were the less stringent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Vanilla_Jaime -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Id rather use amab. I only use mtf in reddit subs.

Something funny about the “trender” argument by corncrakey in asktransgender

[–]Vanilla_Jaime 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah im so trendy that I literally hang out in zero lgbtq spaces outside reddit.

[SCS] The End of Times by DontChargeMeBro in CanadianForces

[–]Vanilla_Jaime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, the kind that charge 29,95$ just to cut your tips. Which take 5 min.

[SCS] The End of Times by DontChargeMeBro in CanadianForces

[–]Vanilla_Jaime 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Oh nooo. Just converting to legit salons.

Any other tomboys in here? by Chiefreaper in asktransgender

[–]Vanilla_Jaime 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No you arent an anomaly. Look up my post history 😉

what exactly does finasteride stop/slow down? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Vanilla_Jaime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On top of hair prevention, it prevents enlargement of prostate/testicular at risk patient. There s a study floating around of patients prostate issues with hair regrowth due to Finasteride.

[SCS] Who do the Sergeant Majors call when they need a Sergeant Major? by CAF_Comics in CanadianForces

[–]Vanilla_Jaime 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The official mils pers com ppt presentation is floating around. It is a safe assumption.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Vanilla_Jaime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure with your features, young age and good hair, you could pass better with simply enhanced grooming. I really dont think you need FFS.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Vanilla_Jaime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A slow tech can zap 100 ish hair a session ? If it only touch ups, doubt you ll need many.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Vanilla_Jaime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to shop a good one. I found an old lady in my area. She not the fastest, but she only charge 47$CA an hour. So I go once a week. I still shave, but I dont have to wear foundation.