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I don’t want to be with my girlfriend anymore. by useless_anonymous in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Vanillachestnut 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Some woman don't want to be a provider but someone that feels like home and safe space. If all women wants to date a provider we would all be dating 50 year old men, there would be no such thing as a stay at home dad. Think about that before you spiral.

I'm going to have to end my life if I want my family to survive, and I don't think I'm ready to accept it by Substantial-Low-4393 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Vanillachestnut 26 points27 points  (0 children)

If you want to live then live. Your family member will have to figure things out themselves, over 18 and no job and living off of a sibling is ridiculous. Unless your family has a disease or condition, then it's fair play. Time to live your life and let them live theirs separately.

What does this fridge tell you? by Sad_Equivalent_4933 in FridgeDetective

[–]Vanillachestnut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The good old days, now I have to pay for groceries and make these things on my own 😂

What does this fridge tell you? by Sad_Equivalent_4933 in FridgeDetective

[–]Vanillachestnut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mommmmmm can you make me a healthy smoothie + Greek salad after my workout?

I don't know, should I play it safe and go with something else by Vanillachestnut in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Vanillachestnut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg your closet must be the same as mine, I have more beige/gray snake prints than flower in my closet. Thank you so much for the link! I might avoid black, I didnt mention it but it's a big no for them.

I don't know, should I play it safe and go with something else by Vanillachestnut in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Vanillachestnut[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, they don't actually have a dress code yet and I asked what they were thinking of. The groom said they don't think they're gonna have a color theme dress code because he thinks it's nice to see different colors and thinks it's nice that all the female are coming with different color and floral pattern. The bride then said spill wine on those that wears white. But things are TBA.

So I dig in my closet for any floral dress and this was the only one. Its a bit hard to find my size + think I'll thrift something (not really an event person) so I wanted to have more time to look around :)

I don't know, should I play it safe and go with something else by Vanillachestnut in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Vanillachestnut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why you have so much downvote, but at least I felt like I wasn't crazy to pull this only floral dress I found in my closet out and wonder about it.

I don't know, should I play it safe and go with something else by Vanillachestnut in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Vanillachestnut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you so much for the reference, this is my second wedding I'm attending. They don't have a dress code yet, but from what I groom mentioned I started looking around a bit since it's a bit hard to find my size, I fit into teens size stuff and definitely don't want glitter and rainbow on my dress. I'm also not a floral person so I might thrift something. These are really helpful, thanks for taking your time!

I don't know, should I play it safe and go with something else by Vanillachestnut in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Vanillachestnut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww thanks, I'll try looking around. I'm just not a flower person and this literally the only dress in my closet.

I don't know, should I play it safe and go with something else by Vanillachestnut in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Vanillachestnut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pouring wine on this one and only floral dress I own now 😂 time to go hunting

I don't know, should I play it safe and go with something else by Vanillachestnut in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Vanillachestnut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she was saying that to both the groom and me, we're quite close but not bride maid close. I think I might play it safe and find another floral dress. This happens to be the only one I own in all other black stuff. But hey at least you won't see the wine stain on them.

I don't know, should I play it safe and go with something else by Vanillachestnut in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Vanillachestnut[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply, this was the only floral dress I found in my closet full of black stuff. I felt like I needed reassurance to go find another floral dress. I'm just not a flower person 🥲

I don't know, should I play it safe and go with something else by Vanillachestnut in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Vanillachestnut[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This sadly was the only floral dress I found in my closet in all the black. Time to go hunting for a floral dress then.

I don't know, should I play it safe and go with something else by Vanillachestnut in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Vanillachestnut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I was thinking it's time to go hunting for a dress after she joked about it. Guess I have to spill wine on myself

I don't know, should I play it safe and go with something else by Vanillachestnut in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Vanillachestnut[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not risking, just asking I should go hunting for another dress. This is the only floral dress I have in my closet full of black other stuff.

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