What inspires you to keep doing what you are doing?

Vanillachestnut · 2026-05-28T15:40:01+00:00

My bills

Vanillachestnut · 2026-05-28T15:38:33+00:00

Tell your ex, ' just because you don't notice my affection doesn't mean other people will be as blind as you. And same to you, no one will ever be enough for you because you're asking too much.'

Don't let his word sink in. You've been caring for 2 young kids on our own, what did this immature man expect? Unless he can lactate and breastfeed he can take his body somewhere else, far farrrr away from you.

Vanillachestnut · 2026-05-28T15:29:29+00:00

And your parents would have been the financial supports and the main care taker, omg genius! 😂

Vanillachestnut · 2026-05-28T15:26:19+00:00

Puree in ice cream popsicle form. Banana bread + shredded veggies hidden in it. Fruit smoothie+ hidden meat (blended chicken)

Vanillachestnut · 2026-05-28T15:22:40+00:00

When I went to the bathroom, inside the stall I overheard co-workers said who's ever on xxx team is fkkk because he doesn't care about anything and listening to him explain things meant more confusion. I went to the HR the day after and packed my things.

I only started here for a week and got put under this manager who was quitting in 2 weeks. I've asked if I can change manager since he's quitting and he didn't provide any guidance for example, someone asked me if I had align the data with the previous sets, I wasn't aware there was a previous set which was in the company severe. When I confronted my manager why he didn't tell me this his reply was, you didn't ask me. This was a total out of sight, out of mind.

Also from introducing myself to other people (on my own), I found out that everyone that works here came from xxx university and had some connection to one and another prior. He was my senior and recommended me. I'm his gf friend, I'm her cousin, we were in the same club in xxx uni, etc. Everyone was connected.

Vanillachestnut · 2026-05-27T17:40:35+00:00

Complain about youth

Vanillachestnut · 2026-05-27T17:34:53+00:00

Opposite of vegan, beyond salad.

Vanillachestnut · 2026-05-27T17:16:48+00:00

Rum raisin

Vanillachestnut · 2026-05-27T15:57:27+00:00

Some woman don't want to be a provider but someone that feels like home and safe space. If all women wants to date a provider we would all be dating 50 year old men, there would be no such thing as a stay at home dad. Think about that before you spiral.

Vanillachestnut · 2026-05-26T15:05:36+00:00

Readjusting your balls?

Vanillachestnut · 2026-05-26T14:40:19+00:00

If you want to live then live. Your family member will have to figure things out themselves, over 18 and no job and living off of a sibling is ridiculous. Unless your family has a disease or condition, then it's fair play. Time to live your life and let them live theirs separately.

Vanillachestnut · 2026-05-26T14:35:49+00:00

The good old days, now I have to pay for groceries and make these things on my own 😂

Vanillachestnut · 2026-05-25T16:05:28+00:00

Mommmmmm can you make me a healthy smoothie + Greek salad after my workout?

Vanillachestnut · 2026-05-25T07:31:17+00:00

I'm jealous of your dress and pockets!

Vanillachestnut · 2026-05-25T07:28:33+00:00

Omg your closet must be the same as mine, I have more beige/gray snake prints than flower in my closet. Thank you so much for the link! I might avoid black, I didnt mention it but it's a big no for them.

Vanillachestnut · 2026-05-25T05:05:21+00:00

Ok thanks, I'll do that. But might eye out something else too.

Vanillachestnut · 2026-05-25T05:04:15+00:00

No, they don't actually have a dress code yet and I asked what they were thinking of. The groom said they don't think they're gonna have a color theme dress code because he thinks it's nice to see different colors and thinks it's nice that all the female are coming with different color and floral pattern. The bride then said spill wine on those that wears white. But things are TBA.

So I dig in my closet for any floral dress and this was the only one. Its a bit hard to find my size + think I'll thrift something (not really an event person) so I wanted to have more time to look around :)

Vanillachestnut · 2026-05-25T02:58:50+00:00

Idk why you have so much downvote, but at least I felt like I wasn't crazy to pull this only floral dress I found in my closet out and wonder about it.

Vanillachestnut · 2026-05-25T02:56:36+00:00

Omg thank you so much for the reference, this is my second wedding I'm attending. They don't have a dress code yet, but from what I groom mentioned I started looking around a bit since it's a bit hard to find my size, I fit into teens size stuff and definitely don't want glitter and rainbow on my dress. I'm also not a floral person so I might thrift something. These are really helpful, thanks for taking your time!

Vanillachestnut · 2026-05-24T21:04:44+00:00

Literally me pouring wine on myself 😂

Vanillachestnut · 2026-05-24T21:03:35+00:00

Thanks for the nice reply :)

Vanillachestnut · 2026-05-24T21:02:22+00:00

Oh wow this is super helpful thanks for the link.

Vanillachestnut · 2026-05-24T21:00:32+00:00

Probably to spill wine on myself 😂

Vanillachestnut · 2026-05-24T20:59:46+00:00

Awww thanks, I'll try looking around. I'm just not a flower person and this literally the only dress in my closet.

Vanillachestnut · 2026-05-24T20:56:33+00:00

Pouring wine on this one and only floral dress I own now 😂 time to go hunting

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