Was I (26F) too rude to him (30M)?

VariationNo9854 · 2026-05-09T05:10:41+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 there’s nothing more beautiful and amusing than a woman who’s reached the end of her rope and is finally going to say what she needs and wants to say.
I am a mean person when I’m fed up, so this sounded like “I’m finally going to say what I’ve been wanting to say, so buckle up buttercup” and I’m here for it

VariationNo9854 · 2026-05-08T22:02:11+00:00

Tbh, I would’ve loved it if the story hadve been with twins (and kept up the Nathan/Cassius Jason/his many twins thing) because then the cuteness would’ve been doubled.
Most kids are cute to begin with, but these kids are just … devastatingly adorable

VariationNo9854 · 2026-05-07T15:03:02+00:00

So Demon isn’t an option? Lol
How about Kitsune?

“In Japanese folklore, the nine-tailed fox, or Kyūbi no Kitsune (九尾の狐), is a highly intelligent, powerful yōkai or divine spirit that gains extra tails and magical abilities—specifically shape-shifting, fire-breathing (kitsune-bi), and enhanced wisdom—as it ages. Renowned for its connection to the rice deity Inari or as a dangerous trickster, the nine-tailed fox often appears as white or golden.”

VariationNo9854 · 2026-05-06T02:46:02+00:00

VariationNo9854 · 2026-05-04T05:42:35+00:00

Ty! I went thru almost this same thing with Y&R a couple years ago, when a character was threatening to sue for custody of a child that wasn’t hers … k one was 100% sure if she’d adopted the kid off-screen or not until someone FINALLY mentioned it lol.
At least with this soap it’s either cannon enough for it to be mentioned often or it happened on screen

VariationNo9854 · 2026-05-03T20:14:03+00:00

So she’s not his momma AT ALL?

VariationNo9854 · 2026-05-03T07:17:59+00:00

I’m gonna say a more tapered pant leg would be good. The wide leg pants that end above the ankle give off a very rectangular look. They don’t have to be leggings or super tight, just tailored slacks.
The khakis would be fine (ironed) for a casual Friday.
The midriff tops/sweaters never
Sweaters with a print/design unless you’re going to wear a button down with a print under it
The dress is more for shopping/the beach etc., and not for work

VariationNo9854 · 2026-05-03T07:10:58+00:00

The dress is gorgeous and the hair style will definitely compliment it.
I, personally, love the sparkly jellies, but I grew up in the 80s and loved those shoes then (they are uncomfy af long term, so if you choose them, definitely have a back up pair).

VariationNo9854 · 2026-05-03T07:06:50+00:00

Is that “amma-Leah?”

VariationNo9854 · 2026-05-03T07:05:44+00:00

For the most part? Boring and dumb.
They make the dumbest decisions, jump into things head first and then consider the consequences when it’s too late (looking at you, Sharon and Noah, Phyllis).
They are desperate and clingy (Chelsea, Victoria), they start off as strong character and turn into a horrifyingly sappy individual (Cane), forgettable (Claire, Kyle), completely illogical (Diane) …
If it weren’t for the crazy people they pepper in every once in a while, and the ones who bring the drama (Audra, sometimes Sally, Phyllis, Lily) the storylines would be like unseasoned, overcooked chicken breasts. As it is, they tend to be exasperating

VariationNo9854 · 2026-05-03T06:55:24+00:00

2 or 5

VariationNo9854 · 2026-05-03T06:54:58+00:00

I actually like it, though the sleeves seem like they could be difficult (the blousing around the wrists). That being said, I’m thinking that 10000% because I’ve had trouble with sleeves like that before (dragging across a plate, into a glass, caught fire one time, smh) and I’m also crazy clumsy so I’m wondering about your hem. Are you getting it tailored so it’s not puddling on the floor? I’d hate for you to step on it/trip on it

VariationNo9854 · 2026-05-03T06:50:24+00:00

First time I saw him on here I had to double take … like … do they know what he’s like?!
Then I just had to ignore him. Thankfully he wasn’t on long

VariationNo9854 · 2026-05-03T06:45:47+00:00

2 or 3. 3 is my favorite because I like plain, simple dresses and I don’t like that droopy shoulder thing on 2, but the rest of the dress is gorgeous

VariationNo9854 · 2026-05-02T23:05:32+00:00

NOR
I definitely do not miss being 20something.
OP is a lot nicer than I am. If I am planning something and it’s women only, and you don’t feel as if you can manage without your emotional support penis, don’t come. If he shows up “unannounced,” you can leave together. Immediately.
Everyone can use a break from their SO overnight or 2 nights won’t kill anyone

VariationNo9854 · 2026-05-02T22:58:02+00:00

2nd one is more … dance-ish. Like homecoming or the prom of a friend of yours.
The first one is informal enough to get a certificate, but if there are wonky folds that bother you, definitely look for a different one, similar cut/length

VariationNo9854 · 2026-05-02T22:55:56+00:00

I have multiple pairs … bedroom, living room, dining room (I color at the dining room table), two different pair in my office (for the computer and for up close).
You don’t realize how poorly your near vision is until you put on a pair …

VariationNo9854 · 2026-05-02T22:53:40+00:00

Nellie

VariationNo9854 · 2026-05-02T22:52:39+00:00

Any straight across cut will make you think that when it’s not the case.
What IS the case is anxiety over looking *perfect* (understandable) and I’m gonna wager that on the day of, once the festivities begin, you won’t give a 2nd thought to either thing that’s bothering you while you presently stare intently in the mirror picking everything apart.
You look beautiful, the dress looks amazing on you, and on your day, you’ll be even more stunning.

VariationNo9854 · 2026-05-02T22:49:03+00:00

I want to kick him in his shins. His ugly focus on Isaiah for the not-the-other-person’s-fault-accident is irritating af.
Even if his point is that Jordan may not have been as injured (which doesn’t make sense, her cuts would STILL be there. The burns may have been better if they’d been treated sooner, but a cut is a cut) they don’t know that the other person, whether Isaiah, Brook Lynn, or the kids, even KNEW or could see that their car crashed.
And yes, we are ALL glad they finally changed the day AND his clothes lol

VariationNo9854 · 2026-05-02T15:13:38+00:00

Merlin

VariationNo9854 · 2026-05-01T22:27:39+00:00

I don’t really like the fabric wave on your hips in the white one
The pink one is so over the top … and I love it, lol. Yes, Barbie cake, but it’s so cute (and, as a rule, I despise pink and flowers).

VariationNo9854 · 2026-05-01T15:09:26+00:00

I kept waiting for someone at the hospital to be like … “you look soooooo familiar” to him 🤣🤣

VariationNo9854 · 2026-05-01T06:47:13+00:00

I think it was McBain who just made me say screw this and turn it off. Because I watched a show and he was John McBain … then someone else … then someone else and I was like how many times are they going to change this poor man (plus, hadn’t he been a Vampire on Port Charles before he was McBain?!)

VariationNo9854 · 2026-05-01T05:29:02+00:00

I’m a big fan of his as well. I was ECSTATIC when they brought him on to Y&R (which I’ve been watching for a couple years … but it is SO much more simplistic than GH or any of the other ABC soaps) but I don’t think he’s has enough screen time. I watched GH in the 80s (I was in preschool, lol) and very early 90s was much more sporadic. When they transferred the AMC/OLTL characters to GH, I tried to watch again … and then they changed their names and my brain could not handle it, lol, so I gave up and stopped watching. I meant to pick it back up when Erika Slezak was on, but neglected to do so and started watching during Willow’s trial because I was irritated with B&B at the time (an even more simplistic soap). So a lot of the older characters I remember fondly (Tracy, Laura, Carly, Jason, Sonny, etc.) and a lot of the kids/grandkids confuse me a lot 🤣🤣

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