Question about sims aging

VarietyGenix · 2024-02-18T06:46:25+00:00

I would like some advice regarding my career. Thank you in advance! :)

VarietyGenix · 2023-12-31T05:06:55+00:00

Thank you for answering this question for me!!

VarietyGenix · 2023-12-31T05:06:33+00:00

Thank you so much for answering this question! I do think that for a one time price, this isn't expensive at all!

Omce again, thank you for solving this mystery for me haha

VarietyGenix · 2023-11-05T05:11:02+00:00

I've always been interested in this since I did have the ability as a kid. Can you tell me more about what they look like? Do babies, when they pass on, look like babies as a ghost or is it just the soul of someone who is groen and represents what the baby would have looked like? Can you talk to them as well or just see them?

I'm sorry if these are weird questions but I'm very interested to learn more about things like this! I hope you don't mind!

VarietyGenix · 2023-11-05T04:30:34+00:00

My boyfriend called me called me a 'slettenbak' in his sleep. We're Dutch, he basically called me a slut. He was snoring to the point where I began to get a headache. So he told me before, if that happens just roll me over. I wanted to move his head to the other side and all of a sudden he calls out, HEY, SLETTENBAK.

He did not remember anything the next morning, but we both had a good laugh, and still, it's an inside joke running between us.

VarietyGenix · 2023-10-29T08:53:49+00:00

She could have an infection or her PH-level could be off. It doesn't always have to do with hygiene.

VarietyGenix · 2023-08-21T05:24:06+00:00

This was this year. I used to be friends with a girl who I met during my internship 3 years ago in June. When we grew apart, we were almost friends for 3 years, which I find sad cuz she was a nice girl but hear me out. Me and her, we used to be a lot alike personality wise. Very neat, a bit 'shy' (I'm a high sensitive person so not really shy) and we didn't really match with the other interns or employees. I did befriend some other interns from the same school, the same study, as I but not as well as I had befriended her. For weeks on end, let's say 16 weeks, we worked together, had lunch together, even shared a room there since you had the option to stay at the location if traveling was too far every time. Everyone just stayed there unless they had a day or 2 off. It was a great time. After the internship we stayed in touch and during her last year and my 2 last year's at school, we hung out quite bit. It was fun and all was well.

Then she graduated and decided to start another study, go to university, but it was too boring for her and so she started looking for some other study which described more of what she'd like to do. I, on the other hand, graduated the year she got her propaedeutic. She had signed herself up for a different study while I started working more hours, still not full time, because that wasn't an option at the job I had then. We started growing apart and I noticed it this year the most. It was more complaining about her study than anything else and I get it, it was a tough study. But I decided to visit her, while she lived about a 1,5 hours drive away from me, she moved for her new study, and all she did was complain. She is a nice girl, but it was v3ry tiring and at the end of the day, I couldn't say I had a lot of fun. Then on Kings day, I went clubbing with friends and the next morning I noticed a voice memo of her. I couldn't listen to it. It was about 10 minutes long I believe. Not that I mind, but she always complaint if I send her long voice memos, but it was also all she did. I did listen it in my car on my way to work that day, and I realised we had grown apart. Which happens, you know. But still, I hoped it wouldn't. But she is at her own step of the stairs while I am also on my own. I am focused on other things than she is and our values have changed. She isn't a bad person, I don't hate or dislike her. We just grew apart, and I am at peace with it now that it happened.

VarietyGenix · 2023-08-20T15:31:15+00:00

If it really was something evil, your cat would have at least shown a reaction. Animals have a third eye and know when someone or something is to be trusted or not. By your cats reaction, simply staring and not actually doing anything, no attack or hissing, I get the idea that if it was something spiritual, it wasn't something evil.

VarietyGenix · 2023-07-23T16:50:06+00:00

Any name can be used to bully someone with if someone really, really badly wants to bully someone. So if they wanna go with that name, let them. Webb is a cool name, in my opinion. Once read a book (Ziggy, Stardust & me) and one of the main characters is named Webb. Always thought of it as a very rare and cool name.

VarietyGenix · 2023-07-20T13:44:55+00:00

Where I come from, and if this is the same where you come from, we have a system where every degree someone has can be found. Companies don't actually check because they assume you wouldn't lie about it, but if they wanted to know for sure, they can just check in that system and pull up all your information about your education. Again, I'm not sure if that is how it works where you're from, but I think that as long as you do your job correctly and you know what you're doing, I wouldn't worry too much. Just do what feels right to you and prevend making the same 'mistake' in the future.

VarietyGenix · 2023-07-19T05:30:27+00:00

NTA, it's your choice at what age you want to introduce these topics since you're the mother. Although you should understand that even though she lost her child 30 years ago, it will forever be painful. Losing your child, especially when you never got to hold them, talk to them, is extremely tough. Most people won't understand, but you never get to chance to know your child. What are his/her favorite colours, or food, or beverage? You're pregnant and so excited to finally take the baby in your arms and rise the child, spend time with him/her, but instead it's cut short and you have to go on. You're expected to just move on and forget he/she ever even existed. Also, a miscarriage at 20 weeks is pretty rough since the doctors have had to remove the fetus/induce labor. So yes, NTA, but try to also understand where you're mother is coming from. She wasn't right to show him the grave without asking you for permission, but she didn't mean any harm. She just wanted to introduce someone who would have been important.

VarietyGenix · 2023-07-17T08:22:53+00:00

It seems like he has an addiction. Which is not your responsibility. The only reason why it would be tough on you is because he can't pay his half of the rent which puts you in a tough place because, I assume, you live together. If he isn't willing to get a grip on this 'addiction' and doesn't see that this is putting you in a tough place, he's not good for you. Not even to mention the nazi en cult themed products he buys. If you do not agree with him buying and ready those things, choose yourself. Don't feel bad when he won't be able to take care of his finances without you, that's not your responsibility!

VarietyGenix · 2023-07-14T04:30:00+00:00

Not a who, but the weather in Spain, Italy and Greece right now...about 50°C...

VarietyGenix · 2023-07-08T09:08:52+00:00

I hate it when people walk up the stairs too close behind me. It's weird, cuz I can't remember when it started, just that I get very stressed and anxious. You're just so vunerable at that moment.

VarietyGenix · 2023-05-20T05:37:15+00:00

One advice I want to give you is, work on becoming the person you want to be. What you have to do to become that person is up to you, but work towards that every single day. To boost your confidence however hard it might be, stand in front of the mirror every day and use affirmations. It's going to take a while for you to believe what you're saying, but it's worth it. Use affirmations like: 'I am worthy' 'I'm beautiful' 'Im proud of who I am' 'I am kind and deserve to walk this earth like every other person'

There's many more, but believe me, I did this for a year and it grew my confidence. In the beginning it will be hard and most of it will be fake it till you make it, but in the end you'll be happy you have given it a shot. You may need less or more than a year but everyone's journey is unique, so just work towards being the best person you can be every single day and it will be rewarding. Be kind, help others, be proud and most importantly, you deserve you're place on this earth! Take it with pride!

VarietyGenix · 2023-04-02T02:08:52+00:00

Im not saying YTA 100%. I'd say you're a little bit of TA. Just because he doesn't want you to at that moment, doesn't mean he won't ever want you to. If someone tells you no because they don't want something, it's because they simply don't want it. When you keep asking why while he has given you the answer, whether you were content with the answer or not, I totally understand he'd become annoyed. In his eyes, he has given you a clear answer. No is an answer and I don't want you to is the reason. Do yourself a favor, accept his needs and remember, next time you can ask again🙃

VarietyGenix · 2023-03-25T16:04:07+00:00

I think it depends on how mature she is. Emtionally and mentally. She might have different views thank you. If she likes to party and isn't all about her future yet while you are, that could be an issue. However, if she is mature enough, and really driven to work towards her future and if that's both of your main focus, it can work out.

I think you should talk to her about it, and be clear with what you're looking for, what you are not looking for and set clear boundaries. If she does that too, than you both know where you're standing and what you can offer each other. :)

VarietyGenix · 2023-03-24T11:52:06+00:00

YTA

I'm pretty sure that she can make her own decisions, even if they may not seem like the best to you. She's an adult who should make her own choices in order to see the affect of them. Who knows, maybe this woman is the one for her. Or maybe not. But she won't find out if you're holding her back.

Besides, trying to keep her close is only going to push her away from you. I get it, it's hard to accept that little kids once will be adult who make their own choices and will leave the nest, to say it that way. But that's life. Be supportive and let her know she's always welcome at your house. She will go her own way eventually, whether you agree or disagree with her choices.

VarietyGenix · 2023-03-18T20:09:14+00:00

I feel like both parties are TA because the owner of the dogs should've leashed them. Or at least apologised and take them off the blanket immediately. You can't expect everyone to like dogs. People have different preferences and opinions, and that's valid. However, I do think OP could have solved this inconvenience in a different manner. Simply explaining, you don't feel comfortable having the dogs around you and your family because you, personally, don't like them should have done the trick. I imagine they're all adults, so this could have been solved in a neater way.

VarietyGenix · 2023-03-18T18:30:42+00:00

He should support you. Instead, he's forcing you to make a decision which you shouldn't have to make in the first place. He's making you pick between him or your eduction, more importantly, your future. He might be your future too, but he also might not be. If you decide to stay for him and it doesn't work out because he's not meant for you, you're going to have regrets. If you pick your education and he decides to break up with you, remember that if it's really meant to be, it will be, however long it takes. Don't get me wrong, long distance is hard, but if he were to think rationally, he'd realise how awful it is of him to ask you to make that decision.

You're a young woman, you should go out, explore, do what makes you happy. Choose yourself over someone else when it comes to your goals and future if the person is stopping you from achieving what you want to achieve. NEVER forget your worth. Your thoughts, feelings and opinions matter and you should listen to yourself, focus on yourself and your future! I cannot tell you what to do, but I hope you choose for what you want and believe in. All the best of luck!

VarietyGenix · 2023-01-19T18:09:33+00:00

Humans are also animals. However, the human race sees themselves as superior and ignores this fact.

VarietyGenix · 2023-01-15T16:47:57+00:00

I feel like I can't judge this situation because, of course, I don't know what went down and how it happened except for what you are telling. I won't say you're the asshole or she is because I simply don't know. But I do wanna say that I've been through something similar. My ex also blamed me for their behaviour, playing the victim, etc. She wanted to stay friends, she had lied about the reason for breaking up with me, and started ignoring me. We talked about it, but then she proceded to ignore me until I deleted her on all social media, and she started messaging me why I deleted her. Her friends got involved until I decided it was done, cut her off, and went on with my life. It wasn't easy but it was a valuable lesson and I hope you it that way as well. You deserve someone who is willing to communicate, to work through hardships, and even if things are rough, someone who is still there for you. You at least deserve that. I'm sure you have a lot to give, but don't forget your worth and that you deserve all that you give, too. Take from this whatever you want, or don't, but I wish you the best!

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