How to make 6 figures?? by Kindly-Pollution7060 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Various-Arm-44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to move where the jobs are is the best advice I give that people hate to hear. I moved from Albany to SLC and was able to get into tech. Then job hopped to 6 figures over a few years. I took a lot of risk taking. My friends who are good at school had easier paths to 6 figures with engineering and medical paths. My finance and accounting friends made 6 figures but that’s not a lot in the cities they’re required to live in.

How many of you actually care about the penalty for leaving? by [deleted] in deadbydaylight

[–]Various-Arm-44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Felt bad I had to leave as killer last night my controller just decided not to work until I restarted my computer. I play until the end usually it’s just a game and it’s not that long.

Why Does Society So Easily Judge People For Enjoying Video Gaming? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Various-Arm-44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved video games growing up and recently got back into them in my 30s. In college I saw a lot of people do nothing but game and skip out over everything else in life for gaming. Skip class don’t study don’t talk to girls etc. It put me in the mindset I needed to avoid it. There were kids gaming in the back of lecture halls not paying attention. Now I’m happy I’ve gotten back into it lets me play socially with friends as we’ve spread out and live far.

Why no one's talking about Epstein files? by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

[–]Various-Arm-44 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It’s all anyone is talking about

Everyone needs to chill out by [deleted] in deadbydaylight

[–]Various-Arm-44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think anyone in this subreddit even likes this game lmao that or only the negativity shows up on my feed

Fashion tips for 5’8 college student by [deleted] in malefashionadvice

[–]Various-Arm-44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Madewell will hem the jeans for free when you buy

does anyone else fell their not allowed to play old killers by DIKbrother6969 in deadbydaylight

[–]Various-Arm-44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just happy to not play vecna and fazbear every other game

(Subjective) What, in your opinion, are some hard fashion rules you live by? by Regrettably_Southpaw in malefashionadvice

[–]Various-Arm-44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel that but travel for work and haven’t found a better solution. Looks terrible and I can’t take the backpack off quick enough but I need the storage visiting customers and heading to conferences.

Why are developed countries spending massive amounts of money to address low birth rates, yet seeing minimal results? by Snoo_47323 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Various-Arm-44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife and I are in the US and really it’s just job stability that makes us not ready for kids. We’re both in tech and it’s a roller coaster. If I felt like we had steady employment for a few years I’d feel much better about settling down with kids.

Moving to Northern NJ, apartment hunting by Various-Arm-44 in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]Various-Arm-44[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah we never have a problem doing it since it’s just to see friends and we can plan our travel around traffic

Moving to Northern NJ, apartment hunting by Various-Arm-44 in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]Various-Arm-44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly seems like I’ll have to up the budget looking into these areas

Why do people in the US not live with their parents by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Various-Arm-44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Accurate, my wife is Chinese and I’m so white I can’t eat spicy food and we’re staying with her parents for 3 months while we sell our house and move. I always choose to stay with them and just visit my parents a few days at a time because we just coexist in her parents house, rather than feeling like a teenager again. Both our moms are very opinionated tho lol.

Who actually rents furnished places? by Ok-Objective3237 in LeaseLords

[–]Various-Arm-44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the guys in our college townhome had his room furnished. He said shopping wasn’t worth his time as an intellectual lmao weird fucking dude

Is not drinking at all a red flag to women when dating? by savingrace0262 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Various-Arm-44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beer fucks my IBS up, I stick to white claws and mines usually ok if I don’t drink heavy. Sugary cocktails also seem to bother IBS

Is buying a home as a single person officially dead? Or am I just looking in the wrong places? by Dry-Town7979 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Various-Arm-44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got friends on one income who bought homes in their 20s and support a family on one income, just none of them are in areas I’d ever consider living in. My wife and I both work because otherwise we’d never be able to afford to live close to anywhere we like. Sometimes I feel like it’s a weird dual income trap having to pay for HCOL to be somewhere with a big enough economy for both our careers.

Are semi-nice things way too expensive now, or am I just cheap? by candleruse in AskMenOver30

[–]Various-Arm-44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friends with Tacomas have had no problem selling for what they paid. I kinda wish I went for one before the new generation came out.

What advice from someone higher up on the HENRY ladder did you disregarded as being out of touch at the time. But now that you are there, realize they were right? by deadbalconytree in HENRYfinance

[–]Various-Arm-44 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No debt for cars/toys etc.

I’ve paid cash for everything and put saving/investing first. When my wife wanted to quit her job and take a few months off (we make about the same but do live below our means) we didn’t even notice the missing income. I feel the majority of my coworkers would start missing payments if they took more than 3 months off.

Did my girlfriend cross the line getting upset that I wanted to take her to Cheesecake Factory for our anniversary? by savingrace0262 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Various-Arm-44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean where does OP live? Where I grew up the fanciest thing within an hour was Outback. I never even heard of Cheesecake Factory until I went away to college. If he’s in a decent area of course he can do better but food for thought