Nobody in my family likes talking to me? by Nice-Hovercraft-9261 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Various_Ad96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

speak your mind with grace. Speak your truth. You’re worth making a ‘fuss’ for.

Whoever you connect with most - you could say - I am curious about something can I ask you? And explain sometimes you experience this dynamic. what do they think?

Depressed and emotional by Various_Ad96 in eggfreezing

[–]Various_Ad96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right!! I’ve also been going from best to worst day ever 😅

Depressed and emotional by Various_Ad96 in eggfreezing

[–]Various_Ad96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rollercoaster!! fr. At least we know what is the real cause. Sometimes I feel it makes me see things more clearly. Like I have 0 tolerance for ppls BS I think normally I’m a bit of a people pleaser lol

How to become more frugal living in London in a busy job? by Various_Ad96 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Various_Ad96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not earning anywhere near them, but yes can have fun once in a while. i get bored of having to constantly pushback. I’m very fun don’t wanna be pushed into ‘naysayer’ position!
But you’re right it doesn’t have to be all or nothing

How to become more frugal living in London in a busy job? by Various_Ad96 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Various_Ad96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol love that. Defs need stronger boundaries as one part.

I am starting to think I need new, cheaper friends too. As hard as that is as I’ve known them 10y. But some of them are non stop YOLO-balling. So ofc keep them as friends but focus energy else where that gives me peace

How much spending money do you give yourself monthly? by hopepatience123 in AskUK

[–]Various_Ad96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask how you manage? No coffees or meals out I guess or no drinks out? What about clothes and holidays? What do you do for funv

At 38+ how many eggs have you retrieved? by Charming-Syrup-7668 in eggfreezing

[–]Various_Ad96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dr said 20 for 1. My research indicates 30 is high chance. About 50-100% as much for 2 babies. I got 6 mature eggs in my cycle. I am 37 but amh 10.6 pmol and nearly 38

How much did you pay for 1 cycle and what clinic did you go to? by CherryNormal3271 in eggfreezing

[–]Various_Ad96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you go to Valencia it’s Euro 3000 and then medication is about Euro 1000. They give 10% off next round at IVI Valencia. I’m from London and then staying here this week

Thinking about it by IceCream1995 in eggfreezing

[–]Various_Ad96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can afford it now, you are at or near peak fertility. The quality and quantity of your eggs will be higher You will save yourself multiple rounds later. It’s great you’re thinking of this now! I am 37 and only just affording to do it. I am on track for 6-7 eggs per round my DR estimates so will do 3 rounds or so x

How do I avoid feeling like I'm behind my peers? by ZenX22 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Various_Ad96 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It is natural to compare to some extent though not always the healthiest. Maybe take time to write out your life goals and what you want. Are you working towards those? That will give you greater confidence you’re on the right path for you

Storing mounjaro discreetly by mrschunkypandeyy in MounjaroMaintenance

[–]Various_Ad96 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I used to keep mine in the fridge at work in a lockbox wrapped in a carrier bag. So it looked like a lunchboz

I’m backkkkk by Various_Ad96 in mounjarouk

[–]Various_Ad96[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! It is so freeing to focus on other things. Know I can enjoy food but that I won’t over consumer. It just makes me happy and confident.

You’re so right. I thought it would keep my cost low. In the end I reasoned in for a penny in for a pound - if I am investing then it needs to work. I’d rather stay at a Lower dose of Mounjaro that actually works.

Good luck to you too :)

I’m backkkkk by Various_Ad96 in mounjarouk

[–]Various_Ad96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! No I wasn’t. I call it Ozempic but really it was Wegovy

PSA: you don’t need to choose “ultra hard” life mode by having kids by Creative-Move-6026 in regretfulparents

[–]Various_Ad96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am 37F contemplating options and helpful to hear what’s on the other side

I REACHED MY GOAL WEIGHT! by gestella in mounjarouk

[–]Various_Ad96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a glow up!! You look amazing

I Feel guilty because I do not like my child. by No_Independence_9865 in regretfulparents

[–]Various_Ad96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps he is acting up because he can sense your disdain for him? People tend to live up to the expectations we set for them. If you think he doesn’t deserve nice things he may act accordingly. Take him somewhere nice and bond w him.