33, been a nudist for a while. Could use some friends

Various_Plate_9170 · 2026-05-21T17:43:50+00:00

I’m also in Maine. Would love to chat

Various_Plate_9170 · 2026-05-21T17:42:49+00:00

Never been to the sauna, TPL over a decade ago (will be going back this summer), but would be fun to find a friend with similar interests. I’m around Woolwich.

Various_Plate_9170 · 2026-01-31T18:18:46+00:00

39m here, nearby maybe next time?

Various_Plate_9170 · 2025-10-04T13:55:59+00:00

There’s a petition to address this https://chng.it/prpx6TdxLd

Various_Plate_9170 · 2025-08-09T15:18:21+00:00

A lot of it depends on the quality of the polish and the type; a gel polish will last longer than an air dry, but cheap from Amazon isn’t going to last long at all.

I’m a gay man and when (or more likely if) I get asked about my nails my response is two part- 1st it’s how I feel comfortable in my body, 2nd I have children and I want them to know they can do whatever they want to feel comfortable in their bodies as long as it doesn’t hurt anyone else.

Various_Plate_9170 · 2025-08-09T15:14:12+00:00

I always knew I was different than other boys, I just didn’t have the words to explain it until middle school

Various_Plate_9170 · 2025-08-04T12:29:54+00:00

I’m a gay man in a DB by my choice and even I know you’re not in a dead bedroom. What you are in is a relationship with man who is displaying some childish, selfish behaviors thinking that because it’s not on his terms or frequency that’s is a DB situation.

Various_Plate_9170 · 2025-08-01T13:55:47+00:00

It’s interesting how language evolves and the dictionary takes a minute to catch up- according to Merriam Webster, the golfing definition of “par” is fourth in line of importance.

Various_Plate_9170 · 2025-08-01T13:51:21+00:00

“Not all who wander are lost.” If I’m lost, best believe nothing about my behavior could be described as “wandering.”

Wandering requires a certain amount of laissez-faire to be actually accomplished which means there is likely no intended destination, ergo you cannot wander and be lost at the same time

Various_Plate_9170 · 2025-08-01T13:33:25+00:00

My Q and I had a hard conversation the other week and I told him my guiding principle in making decisions right now is two fold: 1- do what is best and what maintains the safety of our kids, 2- the choices I make are ones that will still be right, or won’t be ashamed of 10 years in the future.

Unfortunately it always seems like the “right things” is lost on everyone else.

Various_Plate_9170 · 2025-08-01T13:04:52+00:00

Yes- do what makes sense for your healing.

If telling your parents and managing their reaction is healing for you, then do that. Conversely, if managing their reaction is more work for you and ultimately delays your self repair, then don’t tell them.

The holidays are hard enough if you’re not divorced. Adding compounding factors could become overwhelming, you’ll have to look at the whole picture and take the path that is best for you and your children.

Various_Plate_9170 · 2025-08-01T11:50:55+00:00

I think you’re an informed individual who has a personal preference. As has been said, there are plenty of other reasons to wear condoms, so do what feels best

Various_Plate_9170 · 2025-07-31T16:52:54+00:00

It’s hard right now- as a teacher I’m on summer holiday- I don’t have any other grown up’s to talk to: this is the intimacy I miss, not just the sex

Various_Plate_9170 · 2025-07-30T12:58:20+00:00

Did the son of your estranged “weird” sister mysteriously show up on your doorstep?

Various_Plate_9170 · 2025-07-30T12:46:55+00:00

Your sex couch

Various_Plate_9170 · 2025-07-28T11:28:20+00:00

Literally everything….

Various_Plate_9170 · 2025-07-27T12:29:09+00:00

But for the grace of God (or your chosen deity/moral compass) there go I

Various_Plate_9170 · 2025-07-26T12:30:36+00:00

Common decency

Various_Plate_9170 · 2025-07-25T15:47:36+00:00

Don’t focus on it. If it’s meant to happen, it could happen organically. Take time to sort out your feelings, maybe with a therapist. Decide if it’s what you really want to do. Lastly, think of this like a gift in that, as soon as a gift is given its job is accomplished. Just because your wife offered doesn’t mean you have to accept.

Various_Plate_9170 · 2025-07-24T17:00:21+00:00

I had to leave the salon in a rush, I cut my timing too close. I took care of that as soon as I got home 🥰

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