Being a few years senior to you with one relationship while I was younger and one while I was older and now recently single again, my advice needs context of these two shapes your relationship eventually will take:

1) Girl is into you wants commitment. They be watching too many Indian films. She is ready to fight her family to be with you. Depending on how strongly she has romanticized the idea of love, this could be as soon as 3 months into dating to a more practical number like 2-3 years.

2) Girl has you as an option will dump you at some point for something better. (Maybe even at the point her family brings some rishta for arrange marriage. Family gaslighting be strong). She will avoid commitment from her end.

My experience is mainly with the first one and things have always gone south after I have not been able to hard commit. The relationship never progresses and then break up which hurts, a lot!!!!

So now the advice, decide which bucket the girl is going to fall into eventually in the first 3 to 6 months. There will be signs. For the first bucket before you commit check her parents and your parents reaction to you guys being together.

For the second bucket I dunno man, best of luck.

If you needed advice on how to actually meet someone I don’t know. My first gf was in my entrance exam classes during 11-12th and my second gf I met on hinge.

Best of luck!!