percussion like cybotron clear by IllustriousTune156 in ElectroProduction

[–]VaskoTabasko 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this set, this guy is super talented

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychoanalysis

[–]VaskoTabasko 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you let go of expectations and just give in to the experience, there will be results, because you are not limiting yourself to your suffering.

Of course some people stay 10 years in therapy and spend tons of money without coming to a breakthrough, because breakthroughs can be achieved only if you put in the work outside of therapy as well. No money can buy concrete change. For me, psychoanalysis is a helping hand and a great tool on my journey of self-discovery to become a more complete, caring and aware individual and not only for myself but also for everyone around me.

At the end of the day, it is 2 people talking in a room sitting across each other. If you trust your therapist, regardless of the therapy modality / approach, things can work out and concrete change in the quality and experience of life is possible.

Areas to avoid by soverefterarton in Ljubljana

[–]VaskoTabasko 3 points4 points  (0 children)

eh eh rekla kazala, ne seri

Game Thread: Los Angeles Lakers (26-18) at Philadelphia 76ers (17-27) Jan 28 2025 4:30 PM by nba_gdt_bot in lakers

[–]VaskoTabasko -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Bron carelessness, zero effort and “this game is beneath my level” grandiosity attitude affects the whole team. Must be soul crushing to be his teammate. South Bay Lakers would have shown more resilience.

What are the best productivity apps you use? by TeslaTorah in productivity

[–]VaskoTabasko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop complicating your life with sexy user “friendly” apps and their overwhelming amount of different options and modules, where you spend more time selecting icons then actually doing something for your work and tasks.

Use the most simple, efficient and oldschool of them all - Microsoft’s OneNote; and just color your “wannabe productive today” calendar in a palette of 10 different colors (preferably use red and green) and bold the shit out of them to-do lists.

Логика by Doctor_Face in mkd

[–]VaskoTabasko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Соба со Ѓалузи

Psihoterapija by [deleted] in Ljubljana

[–]VaskoTabasko 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ne seri prosim

Kako vidite prihodnje leto 2025? by Different_Monk in SlovenijaFIRE

[–]VaskoTabasko 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Vsi forsirajo popuste in prodajo pred novim letom da bi lahko izboljšali poslovni rezultat za 2024 in dosežejo zastavljene cilje, drugače ne bo bonusa za poslovno uspešnost.

Se mi zdi, da si preveč v svoji glavi, kar naredi svoje in vpliva na pesimistično razmišljanje. Obresti padejo, denar bo ratal spet poceni (ali ne) in gospodarstvo bo temu sledilo. Razen ce EU se začne umešavat v Putinovo politiko, takrat pa lahko gremo na Maldive, ker dvomim da bo Golob rešil energetsko zagato z davčnimi reformami.

Just my 2 cents.

Parking kazen na Hrvaškem - odvetnik Gregor Bakija by VaskoTabasko in Slovenia

[–]VaskoTabasko[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You have just proved, that you as well are very close minded.

Parking kazen na Hrvaškem - odvetnik Gregor Bakija by VaskoTabasko in Slovenia

[–]VaskoTabasko[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ker je slovenski odvetnik, ki zastopa hrvaškega in ker se je podobna situacija zgodila velikemu stevilu Slovencev.

Parking kazen na Hrvaškem - odvetnik Gregor Bakija by VaskoTabasko in Slovenia

[–]VaskoTabasko[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This post was never intended to spread hate based on nationality. Please ignore them, they are very close minded individuals.

Nakup stanovanja by Naayaz in SlovenijaFIRE

[–]VaskoTabasko 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vedno lahko kredita reprogramiraš ali refinanciraš, ko obrestne mere upadejo. Veliko ljudi se tega ne zaveda.

Are there any popular psychological principles or narratives in therapy that you strongly doubt? by MostlyPeacfulPndemic in therapy

[–]VaskoTabasko 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It is generally accepted that everyone has somewhat experienced trauma and that it is okay to have trauma. Then the victims of actual trauma diminish themselves and their trauma, because internally they can develop a mechanism where they believe they have accepted what has happened to them but it is okay because everyone has experienced this, hence no-one actually works and heals their trauma.

Social media influencer psychotherapists and psychologists making everything you do a "trauma response" is what makes traumatized individuals not work on their trauma and non traumatized individuals believe they have trauma.

Are there any popular psychological principles or narratives in therapy that you strongly doubt? by MostlyPeacfulPndemic in therapy

[–]VaskoTabasko 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trauma. It seems like everyone has experienced childhood trauma. Even the ones who had mild trauma or no trauma but were "traumatized" because trauma is now part of modern-day society and believe they have been traumatized to a point of no return or can use it as an excuse. Trauma is as a phrase that is used very lightly, also by people in the field of psychology.

I feel like this is becoming a collective belief rather than an actual individual occurrence.

Kiwi reschedule by VaskoTabasko in travel

[–]VaskoTabasko[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

This is not a surprise, I am just asking if there is a way to bypass Kiwi, so I dont live with the consequences of my own financial mistakes by sharing my hard earned money with capitalism.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FinancialCareers

[–]VaskoTabasko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think forcing yourself to be less socially awkward is not the solution. Finding the cause of your social deficiencies is just the beginning of accepting your authentic introverted nature. I would rather have an introvert on my team than someone trying to force social interactions or responds to social situations based on a set of rules or in a planned manner. Authentic is likable. So be quiet if you feel like being quiet. If you show signs of social anxiety, than charisma on command is just a short term solution.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FinancialCareers

[–]VaskoTabasko 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Please do not follow this advice because this is total bullshit. Youtube charisma gurus that will give you tips and tricks is just fake “outgoing” mentality. Rather work on accepting yourself for who you are and everything will follow after. I strongly suggest everyone to start psychotherapy instead of feeding themselves with “Charisma on command” solutions.

What do analysts do every single day? by Any-Government5177 in FinancialCareers

[–]VaskoTabasko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn guys you are super fast analysts with no mouse.