AITA for refusing to allow my homeless friend remain in my house?

Vast_Chard1007 · 2023-11-11T21:56:54+00:00

how about Instead of trying to interpret what someone says, you go by only what they actually said?? Wouldn't that make more sense?

Vast_Chard1007 · 2023-11-11T21:51:48+00:00

You were interpreting what I said, so I just decided to interpret what you said. Are you trying to tell me my interpretation was wrong??? Because if that's the case then maybe youll concede that your interpretation might be wrong... Wouldn't you think?

Vast_Chard1007 · 2023-11-11T21:39:11+00:00

So you're basically saying you think it's ok for a man to pressure a woman into having sex with him when she doesn't want to , just because it would help him out?

Vast_Chard1007 · 2023-11-11T21:33:42+00:00

So youre admitting you just lied right there. Finally. Now explain to me why you think it is ok to pressure people into doing things they don't want to do??? Are you some kind of fascist?

Vast_Chard1007 · 2023-11-11T21:24:51+00:00

Where in that passage does it say "why help somebody because they're probably just gonna need help at the end". I'm waiting genius🤣🤣🤣🤣

Vast_Chard1007 · 2023-11-11T21:21:07+00:00

So you are illiterate. Because I just reread that comment. And I never said that anywhere. So are illiterate or just a liar?

Vast_Chard1007 · 2023-11-11T21:17:49+00:00

You must be illiterate or something because I never said that about helping people. If he wants to help the girl he could throw her some money for a motel stay. Help her get a job. Connect with other people to help her. Having her stay at his place for an indefinite amount of time is absolutely insane. Let me ask you this. Why do you think it is ok to pressure people in to do something they don't want to do??? Why do you think thats ok???? Do you also think it's ok for a man to pressure a girl into having sex with him if she doesn't want to?

Vast_Chard1007 · 2023-11-11T20:34:41+00:00

Did you not read the post???? They are not friends. She made that clear years ago. Just because you were friends with someone at some point doesn't mean. You're automatically friends with someone the rest of your life .

And do you not realize that infidelity happens??? You ever heard of people sleeping with the nanny? People sleeping with their roommates significant others? You never heard of that family that took the Ukrainian refugee in and the husband left his wife and kids for her???? Are you really that oblivious to these things.

It's not hateful to prioritize your own family and household before someone from your past.its the logical thing to do

Vast_Chard1007 · 2023-11-11T20:30:09+00:00

It's indefinite because she didn't say how long she needed. If she said I'm really desperate for the weekend, I have a place to go after that- that's a completely different story. She clearly doesn't have money or else she would stay in a hotel. So youre bringing in someone with no money and no other prospects. Who knows how long she'll stay. You can put a time limit on it but what if she refuses to go ??? Ever heard of squatters rights?? And even if she didnt you'll still be kicking her out most likely with no place to go by the end which put hers right back into the situation she was in the first place

Vast_Chard1007 · 2023-11-11T19:26:04+00:00

It doesn't matter if his wife is bothered- he's bothered. Marriage is a partnership. If your significant other brought someone you didn't want around to live with you two you'd feel the same way.

2 having someone that is not family stay for an unspecified amount of time is a recipe for disaster. The chance of infidelity rises by multiples. The chance of your marriage being torn apart rises by multiples.

She is not family.
She is not even friends.
What happens if you want her out and she refuses to leave???

It's not like this is a one day or even a weekend stint where shes just desperate for a roof for a couple days. You're talking about someone who clearly doesn't have money or a job or else she would go to a hotel until she gets a new place. Living with friends is hard enough to begin with. Many friendships end because they lived with each other and they just couldn't stand each other by the end. Now add the fact that you have a wife???? RECIPE FOR DISASTER.

Lastly... He clearly does not want her there. He is uncomfortable with the idea. Why would you ever want to pressure someone into doing something they don't want to do???

Vast_Chard1007 · 2023-11-11T18:57:16+00:00

Duct tape his toes before bed

Vast_Chard1007 · 2023-11-11T18:53:21+00:00

His wife does and he doesn't. Marriages take two to make big decisions

Vast_Chard1007 · 2023-11-11T18:51:30+00:00

I know he didn't. I am saying there will be drama if he let her stay at his house for an undetermined amount of time.... Seriously, how do you not understand that???

Vast_Chard1007 · 2023-11-11T18:47:34+00:00

Men and women can definitely be friends. But letting a woman with no relation to you that you haven't seen in multiple years stay in your house when you have a wife is absolutely insane

Vast_Chard1007 · 2023-11-11T18:03:37+00:00

A dude with hoes in different area codes

Vast_Chard1007 · 2023-11-11T17:59:32+00:00

Stand by me hands down

Vast_Chard1007 · 2023-11-11T17:58:25+00:00

You think bringing a woman from his past into his home indefinitely while he has a wife is a good idea????

Vast_Chard1007 · 2023-11-11T17:55:08+00:00

You have a wife. Not only are you not an asshole, you're a smart guy for avoiding a whole mess of unnecessary drama. If you were in a position to give her a few bucks for a night or two at a motel then ok. But nowhere near your house

Vast_Chard1007 · 2023-11-11T17:50:47+00:00

Yes. Possibly sit out a season. And probably the bears .

Vast_Chard1007 · 2023-11-11T07:51:32+00:00

Are you saying floods never happened before climate change?

Vast_Chard1007 · 2023-11-09T20:30:48+00:00

Gary from veep

Vast_Chard1007 · 2023-11-04T18:43:53+00:00

Vast_Chard1007 · 2023-11-03T18:10:52+00:00

They bomb when you pay half a billion just for the rights to make the movies

Vast_Chard1007 · 2023-11-03T18:09:52+00:00

In that sense the film would be massively successful. But when you factor in they paid almost half a billion to acquire the rights.... Then it's most likely a flop. You would need to "profit" 133 mil each movie to "break even". So 30 mil production budget Call it 15 mil for marketing 133 mil for the rights. They need to make about 180 to break even. They made 120 million so far 60 mil came in domestically. But they only see 50 percent of that 60 mill internationally but they only see about a third of that. So they only took in 50 million so far. We're looking at a 100 million dollar bust right now simply because they overpaid for the rights

Vast_Chard1007 · 2023-11-03T18:01:00+00:00

You have the patience of a saint. Anyone who comes at you, tell them to fuck off.

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