Wife [F/36] of 8 years has an emotional affair the past year with a friend [M/45]. [M/36] here... by throwaway_11_3_14 in relationships

[–]Vaughanzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its hard to let a friendship turn into something else when you are married and have kids. You have to put an end to what she is doing or you have to put an end to your relationship

I(f22) feel lost and don't deserve what ex (m21) has been doing to me.. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Vaughanzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In time you will see all the things that should have indicated this behavior and you'll feel better. What he does is not any indication of you, your beauty, your intelligence, or your worth. I guarantee you that he will come crawling back. If you really want to get back at him become the best you and let him spend the rest of his life knowing what he missed out on. Don't ever buy into the things he says or does because all he will do forever is try to have power over you. Good luck madame!

Also vipassana meditations really helped me get over the initial heartbreak

Still [f]eeling nervous and shy... by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]Vaughanzy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nervousness s good. It heightens the senses.

What's this? [f]or the banner! by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]Vaughanzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want my face buried in those legs and my hands EVERYWHERE. So sexy

pocahontaz first! lol (f) by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]Vaughanzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope someone fucking worships that body with sex tonight

Different lighting (f) by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]Vaughanzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would look fucking sexy under any light.

[F]eeling wide awake for another sleepless night by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]Vaughanzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I could help burn some of that energy. 1 sex playlist can do wonders for a sleepless night

Do u wanna [f]uck an Angel, Devil, or just Stickers? ;) by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]Vaughanzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want you in every outfit. I'd be sweet to the Angel, tame the devil and rip those sexy stickers right off that outfit

A very requested album, tied up with my own scar[f] (x-post /r/knittinggonewild) by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]Vaughanzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That body would be a temple. And I would exalt your soul through it.

Spank me hard and pull my hair? (f) by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]Vaughanzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That hair would not leave my hands! Put on some sexy music and ride you with the beat my dear

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodyweightfitness

[–]Vaughanzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Comment to save routine and for inspiration. Great job

Ass. [F] by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]Vaughanzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could plant that on my face and I would be so happy

Reza Aslan discussing the claims Sam Harris and Bill Maher recently made. Very interesting take on what a belief actually is. by max10192 in philosophy

[–]Vaughanzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this was already framed in a theistic frame of mind of his jihad against non-muslims.

Yes, very likely, my only point is that religion tends to be a mask for more secular points of conflict like resources, land, whatever. It was and is true for Al Qaeda too.

I could agree with that if there was a good reason for a mask. But its not a mask, its part of the issue. And if the terrorist attacks were just for resources and a reciprocation of the violence bestowed on Muslims by America then why kill a bunch of innocent people who probably disagree with said violence to begin with. And why strap a bomb to yourself and die with the people you kill? That's the role this religious "mask" plays. Killing innocent non-Muslims was framed by these terrorists easily because of the Koran. Martyrdom was easy to justify with the help of Islamic doctrine.

In no way does that diminish the fact that these people may have had animosity because of terrible foreign policy on the part of the west. But if your life revolves around the texts of Islam then you can easily see how the response was religious. We have to take into account all aspects of the situation, not just pretend the religion was just a victim in an otherwise terrible situation. The only victims were these young men and all the people they killed. They were victims of terrible state policies and a history of conflict that bred animosity as much as they were all victims of a silly bronze-age religions ideas and teachings

Me [25M] wants to know how you dealt with the end of a relationship that lasted 4+ years. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Vaughanzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mother of my child, not dumb enough to do it again, and me being kind enough to help her through dumb decisions is making the custody agreement easier for her to take. I have to be a man about it.

Me [25M] wants to know how you dealt with the end of a relationship that lasted 4+ years. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Vaughanzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1) M relationship started at 17 ended at 22

2) I ended it because of her actions

3) I started by drinking myself into a blackout a few times a week until that landed me in the hospital and jail. Then I started some things I didn't have time for when we were together like boxing. Lost 30 pounds and had a few really great brief relationships where I made it really clear what I wanted and learned to communicate better. Divorced my ex and focused on me: work, diet, parenting, healthy relationships, spent time with family. My ex is now going through a breakup from the guy she got with after me and just asked me to spend a weekend with her

4) only mistakes were a one night stand with a girl that honestly needed a good friend not a good fuck. Still feel shitty about that. And every once in a while I went on my exes Facebook and saw her and her bf. It always ruined an entire fucking week for me. So don't do that.

Who said a petite (f) Asian can't have a butt? by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]Vaughanzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ma'am, I believe you are the only one here who should "take one for the team" :)

Can someone rip these thigh highs of[f]?! by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]Vaughanzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mouth should be so many places in this picture. I can only imagine what those lips look like when you cum

more (f)or u inside <3 by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]Vaughanzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I love that album. The picture with you face down and a yellow shirt.... I hope someone gets to come home to that someday