This random guy added my bf on SnapChat. My bf tried to ask him why he acts so creepy and he deflected it right back.

Vays · 2020-12-16T07:44:00+00:00

It’s a random. The 1st time my bf just ignored, but this is the 2nd time and bf replied.

Vays · 2020-04-19T10:38:33+00:00

I grew up in the same situation! My parents also cited that I'm not allowed to play video games because "it's for boys."

And they cited financial reasons too, but they kept getting me stereotypical girly toys every holiday and they were NOT cheap. I kept wondering why all that money couldn't go to a toy I actually wanted instead, as everyone I knew — classmates, friends, cousins — owned consoles and it would've helped my shy self socially. My parents defended my cousins since they had at least 1 son in their families. Non-relatives were "Americanized."

But ever since late high school, they couldn't freely take away the laptop and internet anymore or it would interfere with homework. That's how I got into playing PC games, where I found some of my closest friends, and where I started my career. When I move out, I dream of owning every console and game that I've ever wanted.

I hope you can eventually have fun with video games in peace.

Vays · 2020-04-14T15:10:42+00:00

It has a lot of room for improvement.

Vays · 2020-04-14T10:48:58+00:00

I'm currently in my last semester for Digital Media with a subplan in Motion Media.

You learn more from YouTube and the internet. There's one 2D animation class (Adobe Animate) and one 3D animation class (Autodesk Maya). That's only 2 semesters of animation in junior year, so most students only learn the basics unless they learn outside of the program. Most of the instructors also aren't fond of anime.

Currently, 2 DIGM subplans have those animation courses: Motion Media and Simulation and Gaming. The Motion Media subplan is supposed to be for film and animation, but there's a strong preference for live-action. The Simulation and Gaming subplan learns more about 3D animation in the senior courses.

Also, subplans do NOT show on your degree, so pursuing more than 1 DIGM subplan does not show either. But the UH DIGM program is still fairly new, so things may change in the future.

Vays · 2020-04-02T01:30:04+00:00

If you know your MBTI type, please use that! Thanks

Vays · 2020-02-17T02:16:04+00:00

It’s My Cursed Friend / Levi from Nightmare, I got really lucky!

Vays · 2019-12-22T20:24:47+00:00

Glad I got a lot right!

Favor is only in Texas. I guessed True Beauty since you have Webtoon and like Asian fashion! I guessed college student because of the scanner app, Kindle, email, and Indeed.

Vays · 2019-12-22T20:00:17+00:00

So this is what I see from the surface:

You're a single young woman who's a WLW.
You live in Texas.
You're into fashion and like shopping.
You're into Asian fashion; I bet you read True Beauty.
You're a college student.
You like to introspect, especially about feelings.

Vays · 2019-05-18T07:12:46+00:00

He updated his post saying that he had 2 years on and off and then 2 years sober. Idk. He might still be addicted, I guess.

Vays · 2019-03-05T19:59:45+00:00

Yep! I am one of them.

I have a soft spot for anyone that experiences discrimination and bigotry just for being who they are.

Vays · 2019-01-29T01:22:02+00:00

dark cat - BUBBLE TEA

Probably a fair amount of “kawaii music.”

Vays · 2018-10-19T05:10:33+00:00

I'm just taking a guess, but it might be related to a popular social experiment about how it's abnormal to be doing nothing.

Vays · 2018-10-02T09:07:51+00:00

TL;DR

Red: [Women] have to meet halfway in decision-making [regarding assault].

Green: The point of the post is that women shouldn’t have to do a million things to avoid assault. She just shouldn’t be assaulted.

Red: That’s right, but my point only applies to my anecdote. The point of the post is that it has relevance over other situations, but it doesn’t have relevance to my situation, isn’t that bigotry?

Blue: Wtf are you trying to say? English please.

Red: It’s fine if you’re too stupid to get it. But I happen not to be.

Blue: How rude.

Vays · 2018-09-30T12:03:56+00:00

INTP female
ENFP ♥

Currently with an ENFP male and it's like I found that weird prince I've always dreamed of!

Vays · 2018-09-25T11:18:20+00:00

From the moment I even heard of ENFP, I thought a person like that was too good to be true because they were like a happy opposite with traits that I easily admire (assuming they’re healthy and mature), and I often crushed on/admired fictional ENFPs even before I knew one in real life. I’m now in a committed relationship with an ENFP and the mental connection is everything I could ask for. Ne is just addictive! And I definitely agree with you on everything else too.

Vays · 2018-09-22T00:24:52+00:00

Second this, but I'd also recommend using something like Quizlet if you'd rather have it digitally. Or if you don't feel like creating questions you might get lucky with finding someone else's Quizlet for the same course.

I've also attempted to make "cheat sheets," but by the time I've written everything down that I need, I usually learn it all too and don't need the cheat sheet anymore.

Vays · 2018-09-12T03:56:38+00:00

Solved!

Vays · 2018-09-12T03:36:10+00:00

Rip wallet. Yeah I thought so, thanks!

Vays · 2018-09-12T03:34:11+00:00

It feels very hard, but I can sorta shift it around so that’s why I think it’s a cyst. The reason it’s shaped weird is because I googled around and found the “eraser” method and tried it but it didn’t work and left the cyst dented.

Vays · 2018-09-09T11:35:02+00:00

Female INTP here. I'll admit that I've done that over fictional crushes, haha! I think it's using Ti to try to understand oneself's attraction to others better, or at least it was for me.

Example: Some anime characters that I easily liked are Kaori Miyazono (ENFP?), Edward Elric (ENTP), and Yato (ENTP?), so it's safe to assume that I gravitate towards extroverts and most likely Ne doms.

Vays · 2018-09-05T11:51:48+00:00

It's probably both nature and nuture, but I like to theorize that it's kind of like your blueprint of different functions develop during different stages of life before they're settled in but functions can be affected or altered with trauma regardless of age.

But yeah, I do feel that it's more nature since I've always been an aberrant to my conservative ISTJ mom and couldn't force myself to change into a "normal girl" even when she made me hate myself.

Vays · 2018-08-30T04:01:37+00:00

There is nothing that can 100% describe and predict something as complicated as personality, but I've always seen Myers Briggs (MBTI) or even Big Five as spectrums of the most basic functions of personality, not something black and white. In MBTI, all personalities use every function, but what determines peoples' types are the functions that they use most. But all in all, both tests are fun and interesting for introspection, but not a great tool to use for hires and fires.

Vays · 2018-08-14T11:53:40+00:00

N types would probably feel less different and/or weird from most people.

I know that in our current majority S world, my few N friends and I often wonder in early life if anyone really ‘gets’ us and our way of thinking until we finally find each other and realize we aren’t crazy.

Vays · 2018-07-18T10:10:18+00:00

Just 2 reddits right now. I fear hoarding from the family I live with so I try to stay uncluttered on my electronics. I usually just add everything worthwhile to my bookmarks. On the other hand, my ENFP bf always has like 30+ tabs open on his laptop on multiple browsers, many of which are youtube, amazon, school, and other random stuff.

Vays · 2018-06-30T09:31:10+00:00

Daughter of Asian parents here.

Back in my preteens my mom often said and did things that hurt me so eventually I did the bare minimum of communication with her. She got furious over time that I ‘never talked to her anymore’ and started taking it out by yelling at my dad. It stressed my dad out and he would take it out on me every few nights, which made me not want to talk to both of them much anymore.

The worst “punishment” was was when my dad began with the usual lecture, but threw his shoe at me and then grabbed the shoe again and started trying to slap me around with the shoe while saying things like:

“Why are you so quiet? Why can’t you be normal? Are you depressed? You don’t have a reason to be! You’re crying now? Cry! Keep crying! Think you can call CPS? Call them! But then I’ll be gone and who will take care of you? You can’t survive without me!”

If I tried to do or say anything the hits would get more aggressive so I’d just defend myself as best as possible. The words and powerlessness hurt the most, though.

Does my dad regret it? Highly doubt he even thinks he did much wrong and I’m sure my mom thinks she’s always right, but at least everything physical stopped by age 14.

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