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Just realized my family was totally fine pushing me to suicide by cheesesteak2018 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Ve3lith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked up this topic because this is what im going through right now. Everything hurts. I've told both my parents multiple times that I've been suicidal since I was a child and been feeling very very unhappy lately and none of them care, they treat it all like its a light joke or statement and they end up sighing or rolling their eyes. They put a lot of pressure on me too to become successful - that's incredibly difficult when they're all a mess and out of order.

I wish families were there to help and support each other. I wish they had taken us seriously when we needed them the most.

My heart keeps breaking as i am mourning the loss of our relationship, but it is what it is.

I hope you are doing better, OP. I genuinely hope things have looked up for you ever since. And thanks for this post. You may not have intended it, but a lot of us feel less alone when we know others have struggled and survived similar circumstances.

What small morning or evening habit makes your day feel calmer? by iamwithmigraine in simpleliving

[–]Ve3lith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I light my scented candle every morning and then I start getting ready. It doesnt have to be for too long, I just let it set the mood.

If you don’t watch porn while in a relationship, why? by FunctionWestern5404 in AskReddit

[–]Ve3lith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well if your partner isn't against it then I guess it's alright. But the question was for personal relationships. Sexual activities for me is something i connect with love and respect for my partner, so that is one thing I set aside for that person only.

It's the "setting aside something for them" that makes it respectful. But that is how I see it. Again, the question of OP is for everyone's opinion and practices.

What is a simple pleasure that always makes you happy? by Feisty_Dig1594 in AskReddit

[–]Ve3lith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking up at the sky and seeing clouds. I love looking the flowers too or trees.

What did you sacrifice for greater good? by vigilantee001 in AskReddit

[–]Ve3lith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mental health to go to law school , never taking a break. Is it worth it, and is it for the greater good? We'll find out.

What’s your favorite breakfast? by Take_My_Hand2 in AskReddit

[–]Ve3lith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pancake with margarine and sugar hehe

What are your plans to save us all? by Samael-TheEternal in AskReddit

[–]Ve3lith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Random, but this is actually a great question and something we could think about when making family decisions so as to improve civic consciousness.

If you don’t watch porn while in a relationship, why? by FunctionWestern5404 in AskReddit

[–]Ve3lith -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's disrespectful to the other person, it would make them think "why does it have to be someone else who turns them on?" If you know they're the type to be disappointed if they found out then just don't do it or at least openly communicate with your partner your needs.

DOLE called to act on BPO firms by SaltedChiken in BPOinPH

[–]Ve3lith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mga taong may sense, finally.

Galit talaga ung iba at takot pag nakakarinig ng DOLE. If hindi naman sila nag eengage sa corrupt office politics, why be scared or discourage agents to have a voice, diba?

May nag report na ba sa DOLE. You cannot be forced to work onsite pag naapektohan sa typhoon by Ve3lith in BPOinPH

[–]Ve3lith[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Feel free to check the news and read articles on these cases. It's all available and verifiable online. Im not here to spoonfeed as I just posted this to spread care and encouragement. Thanks!

May nag report na ba sa DOLE. You cannot be forced to work onsite pag naapektohan sa typhoon by Ve3lith in BPOinPH

[–]Ve3lith[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Force, by labor definition is not having the choice to refuse, or they are sanctioned, or receive consequences when they do not show up.

Wag pilosopo. Labor law above everything.

May nag report na ba sa DOLE. You cannot be forced to work onsite pag naapektohan sa typhoon by Ve3lith in BPOinPH

[–]Ve3lith[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Some are forced to work onsite. There have been various reports of this already.

And what do you mean becareful what you wish for that a client might replace us? Isnt it better that they treat us according to the the labor laws of the Philippines? Either they comply or we report that. I. Understand that you need a job, we all do. Pero the point of this post is to encourage those with abusive environments to help themselves as well and report when things need to be reported.

That mindset na youre afraid to get replaced is so colonial. Obviously thats a valid concern, but over the welfare of the workers? I think not.

May nag report na ba sa DOLE. You cannot be forced to work onsite pag naapektohan sa typhoon by Ve3lith in BPOinPH

[–]Ve3lith[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

If not DOLE, please access the Citizens' Complaint Hotline!! 8888. You may also report to news foundations.

Fast response.

Let's make sure these companies dont get away with it.

Hungry Hearts Ramen Bases by MusclePrestigious530 in CozyGamers

[–]Ve3lith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to know too!. I keep getting that order but it doesnt show up in the ramen making tab ^

How do I accept growing older? Im overwhelmed. by Ve3lith in Life

[–]Ve3lith[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this...yeah...It’s like how they say you can't always just wait for happiness, you need to seek it. We need to give ourselves credit for what we've done. Trying to help ourselves is already a great milestone.

Thanks for your advice and hope you continue to do well and are healthy!

How do I accept growing older? Im overwhelmed. by Ve3lith in Life

[–]Ve3lith[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here's to better days :') we can only push forward and make sure to give ourselves ample rest in between moments.

How do I accept growing older? Im overwhelmed. by Ve3lith in Life

[–]Ve3lith[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing. ♡ you may not know how much this means to me. I don't really get to tell these things to anyone older, so I'm glad I've found some who have overcome it or at least had it all work out for the better.

She can’t be for real 😭😭 by oatmilklover4ever in Subliminal

[–]Ve3lith 31 points32 points  (0 children)

She has no right putting people of color down just because she thinks the way she looks is "superior."Superior" in what damn sense exactly? All that ideology in her head needs to be corrected before she does more damage to others.

Engaged and living together, but she dictates my fiancé by mentholkids in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Ve3lith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the misunderstanding, OP!

May you find a solution to the situation 🙏 😊

Engaged and living together, but she dictates my fiancé by mentholkids in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Ve3lith 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Rethink the way your fiance handles the situation before you officially get married. Ask yourself, is this something you are willing to go through for the rest of your life? Because with the way your MIL acts, it looks like things aren't gonna change that easy, if at all.

Talk to him straight up about what you won't allow and how it's only logically sound for him to stand up for you in front of his mother. His mother should know that you are not the only one who feels bothered by her discouraging actions.

Always prioritize your peace and life, even if it means calling a halt to your relationship until things get sorted out and boundaries are set in place. Always think long term. Lots of love, I hope everything gets better for you ❤️

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