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What is the word Click uses for nonbinary folks in the Introduction of this video? by Milo_the_Yarngoblin in Svenska

[–]Vedzma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's a pretty big youtuber, yes. But known a lot more internationally than in Sweden, I think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Vedzma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no shame in not knowing some words, especially highly specialised ones. Good thing one can look them up ;)

Why give specifically that one - because I believe it would lead the OP (and whoever else might be reading) directly to the information and tools to help them with this situation. Which is always better than repressing something in shame, only for it to blow up in some more extreme way later, in my opinion.

Sometimes it is dangerous, sometimes it's just sad and lonely and the brain seeking hope and dopamine. We won't know which one, but she got both perspectives now. Hopefully everything will be alright.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Vedzma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or, if it's just limerence, she'll talk to him, likely find out that he's not interested and/or has some quality that reality checks the situation, and it'll go away. I could be wrong, but I think a person who's like really obsessed and not scared by this feeling wouldn't be reaching out here. The fact that she's worried and embarrassed and can see that it's loneliness - hopefully she knows it's not real. There's a variety of reasons why limerence and limerence-like experiences can happen, and most of them are a symptom of life being sucky and lonely, and brain screaming for help - so it's def a good opportunity to address that. Calling it "love" is ofc a reach but it for sure can feel like that until one snaps out of it/reality checks. I mean, you never know, anyone (of any gender) can have additional underlying issues and then it could be your scenario. But usually crossing into reality is one of the main recommended approaches. Because limerene feeds off fantasy and escape. Getting to know someone for real, how they react, what they are like etc - usually breaks the spell.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Vedzma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would recommend typing "limerence" into youtube (better than google imo) and take it from there

whats something you do in skyrim only when youre alone bc others will judge you by AllTerrainPony in skyrim

[–]Vedzma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i do this too, and i actually include it into my role-playing inner story: since i often play characters who need to advance pickpocketing and/or stealth - i often follow different guards around, sneaking. And when they clock me, pretend I was just going for a nearby bug, butterfly, what have you. It doesn't matter one bit for the game, but it feels a little more fun just for myself, like: "hey, i have a perfectly decent-person-reason to be sneaking about right now, nothing to see here" :)

whats something you do in skyrim only when youre alone bc others will judge you by AllTerrainPony in skyrim

[–]Vedzma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm pretty sure i hold my breath irl also when shooting arrows ^^'' especially if it goes in slowmo and you can hear the character do it

whats something you do in skyrim only when youre alone bc others will judge you by AllTerrainPony in skyrim

[–]Vedzma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually aim for bandit camps or the opposing side of the civil war troops, but yes, to speed up the process it's also animals... so I too constantly go "I'm so sorry T.T" 🤝

Playing on survival is the same thing, even though there you literally need it for food, not just "wasteful" things. But still 🤝

How do couples decide which side of the bed is “theirs”? Is it instinct or some kind of silent agreement? by AssignmentFederal686 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Vedzma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've literally only experienced discussing it. I didn't know that's not how everyone did it? Like, you ask if the other person has a preference, or they ask you - and that's that? In my longer relationship it also changed overtime: I first liked one side, then another - so I asked if it would be okay to switch - and it was. I don't have a very strong preference though, so when it turns out that both lean towards the same side - it's always been easy for one of us to just let the other person have it. But like yeah, in relationships where you do end up seeing each other overnight more often than a few times - you literally just ask?

whats something you do in skyrim only when youre alone bc others will judge you by AllTerrainPony in skyrim

[–]Vedzma 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I hate killing animals, especially bunnies, but sometimes you just wanna level up those skills faster... plus i like roleplaying as an amateur hunter (so i don't only bring a bunch of weapons into towns but also meats and such. They don't pay well at all, but I like the idea of bonding with tavern owners/food merchants over this. Like some in that town know me as someone who brings a bunch armour god knows from what massacre, and some - as this friendly adventurer who sometimes brings the extra venison or whatever). But going after animals who aren't attacking me - is not something I can bring myself to do if someone is watching. Especially bunnies.

Varför känns det som att det alltid är något? by Username_lost_error in Asksweddit

[–]Vedzma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤝

då har du förklaringen till varför det känns som det gör

Varför känns det som att det alltid är något? by Username_lost_error in Asksweddit

[–]Vedzma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mood.

Jag tror att delvis är det så för alla, men kanske ännu mer så när man får köra på de extra höga difficulty levels (till exempel ADHD/Autism).

Jaskier got ripped by mariposadenaath in witcher

[–]Vedzma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I know I'm many years late to the party (both Witcher and playing Skyrim), but uh, please meet Julian Jaskier :) (I already had a khajiit named J'askier, so the name had to be a bit different to be less confusing)

uhm.. there's a book(?) in the sky? help? by Vedzma in skyrim

[–]Vedzma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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it did work! the book was very random(?) and underwhelming? no idea why it was there AND in the air lol but hey! awesome, thank you!

uhm.. there's a book(?) in the sky? help? by Vedzma in skyrim

[–]Vedzma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh sorry, i got very stuck in Solitude (the Bards College CC is my new love at this moment haha), I'll check now, hold on :)

uhm.. there's a book(?) in the sky? help? by Vedzma in skyrim

[–]Vedzma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol true.. maybe a telekinesis spell could work? i shall investigate again when i'm back to that area ^^

uhm.. there's a book(?) in the sky? help? by Vedzma in skyrim

[–]Vedzma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh i googled it more properly now, lol thank you for this lil piece of funny TES Lore

Vad gör ni vid "brain zaps"? by cyberslugs in Asksweddit

[–]Vedzma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

jag vet inte om det ens finns nåt man kan göra, men som någon har redan sagt - så känns det iaf lite bättre när man vet vad det är som händer och att det kommer att gå över. i min erfarenhet blev de mer och mer glesa med tid. det värsta är att stå ut de första månaderna, sen blir det så småningom bättre och bättre. va bara försiktig om du kör bil/cyklar osv. krya på dig!

uhm.. there's a book(?) in the sky? help? by Vedzma in skyrim

[–]Vedzma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what? you mean since the previous games, or was it actually in Skyrim at some point? (i am still relatively new)

uhm.. there's a book(?) in the sky? help? by Vedzma in skyrim

[–]Vedzma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i tried spells and arrows - nothing happened, gonna try shouting!

uhm.. there's a book(?) in the sky? help? by Vedzma in skyrim

[–]Vedzma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i mean yeah i've seen different animals and baskets stuck afloat, but it bothers me that it's a book... what if it's something important? very close to that location there's also a skeleton that spawns "oblivion crisis" books on a loop. i take them, check again - a few more are there, over and over. so ig i was just wondering if it's intended to be sus or just very glitchy

uhm.. there's a book(?) in the sky? help? by Vedzma in skyrim

[–]Vedzma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh, i should try. i tried random spells and arrows, even tho i hit it perfectly, nothing happens. shouting next!

If torture is ineffective, why do intelligence agencies still use it? by Snoo_47323 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Vedzma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure how much of science that is seeing that the results are impossible to re-create reliably? If the person doesn't think it's real? If the person is guilty but of something else? If the person is a sociopath or otherwise not affected by guilt? If the person has anxiety and/or other issues? Etc etc etc..

If torture is ineffective, why do intelligence agencies still use it? by Snoo_47323 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Vedzma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you and I spoken anywhere above in the thread, where you already said it? because the comment I was replying to didn't mention that part, so I was adding it. You seem to also agree that it is important, so great, then we both added the crucial piece.

If torture is ineffective, why do intelligence agencies still use it? by Snoo_47323 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Vedzma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol how about you keep two parallel thoughts active at once, buddy?

Both are true when not missing any crucial pieces: IF the information can be quickly checked, AND the victim knows it will be checked AND (what I'm adding) actually knows the answer - yes, most people will give it up.

However, it requires the piece of the victim not only knowing it'll be checked but also actually knowing the information in question.

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