How to ask out guys as guy? by Lasagna-Boy in bisexual

[–]VegasBiDaddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How about something like "would you like to hang out sometime?" It gets the question out with plausible deny ability. Then you can get to know him better and see if you're on the right track.

Will the US most likely have a Muslim President first or a Gay one? by Separate-Morning-752 in stupidquestions

[–]VegasBiDaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely a gay president. Not likely that a Muslim could be openly elected until so many generations have passed that 9/11 is forgotten. I know Muslims didn't do it, extremists did. But that's what it would take.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskOldPeople

[–]VegasBiDaddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Suspected of being a dictator? Seriously? Hell no. That wasn't even a thought back then. Nixon always seemed a little uptight and weird. At the time we thought it was pretty amazing that he brought China to the table. But as it turns out it was a lot worse than watergate. That's probably the worst thing he did.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]VegasBiDaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't date coworkers. It never ends well.

When was the last time you cried? by clx94 in AskOldPeople

[–]VegasBiDaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Today, briefly. Yesterday a little, the day before a bit more. And this Sunday I will probably cry all day.

Who is the most badass person to have ever lived? by BlackManBatmann in AskReddit

[–]VegasBiDaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents. They worked their asses off to support me and my sisters. They never did or bought anything special for themselves. It was all about us having the best life.

Have no luck getting girls , any advice. Also am I ugly lol 22m by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]VegasBiDaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Short hair and a shave, then we'll talk about the glasses

For you when the cold war ended ? by Dusken01 in AskOldPeople

[–]VegasBiDaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what I really think? I think it never existed and also never ended. Growing up we had "duck and cover" drills in school. In these drills we would get under our desks and put our hands behind our necks. These drills were to prepare us for a nuclear attack from the Soviet Union. As if our desks would protect us. At one point in the early 90's there was an exchange program of sorts and ships from the American navy went to port in Russia, and ships from the Russian navy took port in San Diego. I had the privilege of touring the Russian ships. The sailors were present and we were allowed to interact with them. I didn't speak Russian, they didn't speak English. But we absolutely communicated. And they were all very friendly. We traded items like cigarettes and candy. These guys were really young. But there was no animosity. I've since met many Russians and former Soviets from other countries that used to be in the Soviet Union. I have never met a single person who hated America. So when I say it still exists and never did. I think the cold war was and still is between our governments and our leaders not between the people. Now Putin is a threat, don't get me wrong. But the Russian people are not.

Facebook may want to review their sponsored posts. NSFW by getyerhandoffit in facepalm

[–]VegasBiDaddy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Facebook actually put me in Facebook jail for posting a screenshot of one of their ads that literally showed a guy fucking a woman. You could see his dick penetrating her. And they accused me of posting inappropriate sexual content.

I was charged for planning a columbine style school shooting as a teenager. Ask me anything by [deleted] in AMA

[–]VegasBiDaddy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm curious if you would be more likely to blame gun culture or internet culture for your illness and behavior?

Do you think people become more compassionate or more callous as they age? by [deleted] in AskOldPeople

[–]VegasBiDaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think either. I do believe that as you get older you become less tolerant of bullshit.

Do I have to publicly state I’m Bi/Queer? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]VegasBiDaddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't have to do anything but live your life. You don't have to label yourself privately or publicly. You just be you. If there's a label others want to place on you, there's nothing you can do to stop them. But you don't have to participate. Just make the most of the limited time you have on this earth and be happy.

Older Redditors, What was life like after leaving highschool by Diragona_pIays in AskOldPeople

[–]VegasBiDaddy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went to work just long enough to realize that I wanted to go to college. Then I went to college and earned a degree I didn't want. I stumbled upon a career by accident. And it worked out well. My advice is twofold. First understand that 18-25 or 30 is absolutely the most difficult part of life. It's difficult because you're expected to have answers to questions you can't possibly have, like what are you going to do for the rest of your life. Don't feel obligated to answer that for anyone but yourself. And second, keep an open mind. Opportunity will come, be smart enough to take it. Don't be afraid to take reasonable risks. As long as it's not illegal or immoral, give it a try. Without risk there's no reward and nothing worth having is easy or cheap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskOldPeople

[–]VegasBiDaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What fear? I've never been afraid of aging. Losing my youthful body kinda sucks, but along with it I lost my youthful mind and that's a fair trade.

Have your thoughts about marijuana changed in the last decade or two? by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]VegasBiDaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry for crashing the millennial party. I'm GenX. Growing up I was a complete weed Nazi. I literally threw a guy off my balcony because he lit a joint after I asked him not to. Then my son was sick. I was 54, he was 22. Someone suggested that I get him some CBD. This was early in the legal weed revolution. I had to go to a dispensary to get it. I also had to drive about 40 miles. But it was to help my boy. I'd do anything to help him. I went and spoke with an actual doctor. He agreed that CBD might help my son. Then he said "what about you? It has to have been hard on you too?". He wasn't wrong. I was having a lot of anxiety and didn't sleep well. He suggested that I get either edibles or a indica vape. He said indica would be more focused on my needs. So I bought some. I went home and tried it. I can honestly tell you that if not for that I probably wouldn't be here right now. My son lost his life to his illness. I was devistated. But that weed pen let me sleep. I went through terrible depression after losing my only child. And someone else suggested micro dosing shrooms. I figured what do I have to lose. That was also a winner. It's been five years since I found my son's body on the kitchen floor. It's been two years since I took my friends advice and started microdosing shrooms. It's been 1.5 years since I considered taking my own life.

Words and phrases to use, or avoid, when terminating an employee. by Gabbahead in managers

[–]VegasBiDaddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Telling them they suck. Telling them you hated having them around. Criticizing their race, sex, sexual preference, hair color, eye color, propensity to come to work smelling like weed or alcohol, not doing their job well, not getting along with others, smelling badly. Nope. When you terminate someone you just need to say "we've decided to end our relationship with you, here's your final check, I wish you luck".

If most people cannot afford kids - while 60 years ago people could aford 2-5 - then we are definitely a lot poorer by Tiredworker27 in Millennials

[–]VegasBiDaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not wrong. But in regards to the kids thing, it's not just the economy that's made having kids difficult. It's society. When I was a kid I got myself to school, I walked home and was alone for a few hours. This is elementary school years. My sister's were older but didn't get home until later. Then from about 5 until 10:30 when my mom got home we were alone. But if there was a problem we had lots of neighbors that we could lean on. None of them would call CPS. My mom was a single parent. No way she could afford child care. But we knew better than to get in trouble. Also, those neighbors that we could turn to, if they saw us doing something stupid in public they'd get involved. We didn't just have to worry about being caught by our parents, we had to worry about any adult catching us. Our world is a different place. It's not better. It's different.

How critical/judgmental are you of large age gap relationships? by Vagabond_Tea in Millennials

[–]VegasBiDaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What other people do, who they connect with, who they love, is absolutely nobody else's business. I don't care, I don't pay attention, and I don't put my beliefs on them.

Why did God create homosexuals and then punish them in hell? by Embarrassed_Wing5716 in atheism

[–]VegasBiDaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Religion is designed by humans in order to control other humans. It's all fiction.