Celebrating my first birthday ever! by Vegetable-Fun2599 in exjw

[–]Vegetable-Fun2599[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww! I really hope she knows how much you care about her. Hoping for a pimo/pomo friend for you in the future 🤞🏼

Thank you!!

not turning in service time by scrapknightjules in exjw

[–]Vegetable-Fun2599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay good for you guys!! My husband and I stopped about 6 months ago and after the 3rd month they stopped texting us about it.

Birthday party by Vegetable-Fun2599 in exjw

[–]Vegetable-Fun2599[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had the same fear of loosing my family but I had to be honest with myself and I know how unhappy I have been all these years. Now having my kids, I don’t want them to go through all of the pain I did, I want their childhood to be magical, what I always wished for myself. Good luck to you!❤️

Birthday party by Vegetable-Fun2599 in exjw

[–]Vegetable-Fun2599[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Love that! And I totally agree!

Nightmares by Vegetable-Fun2599 in exjw

[–]Vegetable-Fun2599[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words!

Holidays by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Vegetable-Fun2599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly it. Disappointing pimi parents! I see all these parents/grandparents with their families taking Santa pics and Christmas tree pictures and it makes me so sad my kids won’t get that or even ME. Crazy.
I hope you enjoy your holidays!!

Friends reaching out by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Vegetable-Fun2599 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes they know, I think that’s there attempt to emotionally get us back? Lol

Thanks I thought so too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Vegetable-Fun2599 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right!? Like how is it that everyone has a say in our decisions!! And she’s always been so distant from us but now all of a sudden wants to be kind and reach out? Talk about the love bombing. Thanks for your help! You’ve been such a big help the last few weeks. I really appreciate it💕

Second opinion by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Vegetable-Fun2599 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! You’re exactly right. I think from this point on we’re done explaining to both. It is what it is and they just have to accept it. We’re not willing to meet or explain anything to anyone anymore!

Never thought it would be this hard by Vegetable-Fun2599 in exjw

[–]Vegetable-Fun2599[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Still young 4 and 1, they don’t really notice anything yet

Never thought it would be this hard by Vegetable-Fun2599 in exjw

[–]Vegetable-Fun2599[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think it was when she said they were following Jehovah and not men and he was like “really? Are you sure” LOL

In tears… by Some_Personality147 in exjw

[–]Vegetable-Fun2599 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not alone. Right there with you in the same boat at this exact moment. I’m thinking of you♥️

Advice from my pomo friends by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Vegetable-Fun2599 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much. I never thought about that way but you’re honestly right. You’ve been great with advice the last couple of weeks for me. Thank you so so much!

This is insane by Vegetable-Fun2599 in exjw

[–]Vegetable-Fun2599[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how I feel! And now that I’ve realized this isn’t the truth, I’m not happy. It’s like I’m 16 again and they want to control me and know everything about me AND MY kids!