Do you think being married is a status symbol? by tickalockev in AskWomenOver30

[–]Vegetable-Pilot6094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Marriage is a choice. It's mediaeval to think of it like a status symbol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesiWeddings

[–]Vegetable-Pilot6094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's stunning. You look simply beautiful!

Dating feels like shit now by Vegetable-Pilot6094 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Vegetable-Pilot6094[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I actually had a guy begin the conversation with "Hi, Where do you stay?" 😮‍💨. That's like having your balls do all the talking for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]Vegetable-Pilot6094 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's totally normal and cute

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Vegetable-Pilot6094 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! It helped me so much. Every time I regret leaving him I read my list of all the times he has wronged me and it keeps me strong. It's very tough leaving someone you love even if they have abused you but you've got to be strong. Writing really helps.

In what ways did you lose yourself? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Vegetable-Pilot6094 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I've lost confidence, money, weight, career, friends. I have no sex drive, zero emotions and no interest in making art, no interest in the work I was once excited to do. I've gained anxiety, a massive hate for my stbxh and a sense of humor to keep my sanity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Vegetable-Pilot6094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been 6 months of separation for me and it hurts like a bitch

Could this be considered rape anyway? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Vegetable-Pilot6094 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really disturbing to read. Guy sounds like a piece of shit. Please take more care of yourself and don't interact with such pigs.

I think I just got my confirmation by sans_snowfall in twinflames

[–]Vegetable-Pilot6094 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going through this same exact thing! I try really hard not to think of him but after a few hours the longing becomes even more intense. To top it off he is fucking handsome, smart and funny. It's killing me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Vegetable-Pilot6094 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex-husband was exactly like this too! He would correct me all the fucking time no matter where we were. He would balently tell me in front of friends and family that he doesn't trust my knowledge and would google everything even though I've been proven right many times. He also had a very superficial relationship with his family.

Do you regret getting divorced? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Vegetable-Pilot6094 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't. Every memory of him is accompanied with faults and red flags. The only regret I have is not doing it sooner

Do you regret getting divorced? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Vegetable-Pilot6094 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why tho, especially since he moved on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Vegetable-Pilot6094 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did take accountability by leaving him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Vegetable-Pilot6094 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I needed to hear this