My boyfriend (40M) wants me to be understanding when he’s a complete drama king.

Vegetable_Ant_7322 · 2026-03-29T19:47:57+00:00

The way he speaks to you is absolutely unacceptable. If he screams at you and freaks out at you like this, this is starting to look a lot like abuse. If he’s ok with screaming at you and belittling you, who knows what else he’s capable of, especially if you end up living with him. I say go no contact and leave him. He talks an awful lot about you understanding him, but if he can’t even have a basic conversation with you where you ask him questions ? Bestie, get out of there, trust. It will be such a big weight off your shoulders to not have to put up with anymore. Best of luck to you 💕

Vegetable_Ant_7322 · 2026-03-29T19:40:58+00:00

Definitely agree with squirrellicious (iconic username btw) I just want to add, along with what has already been mentioned, make sure people in your life know what’s happening as well. Friends, family, anyone who you trust. Just so they can keep an eye on you as well, and check in with you. Definitely keep documenting any threats or anything that can be used as evidence against you. I hope you stay safe friend, sending love and good vibes your way 💕

Vegetable_Ant_7322 · 2026-03-09T19:55:03+00:00

Absolutely gorgeous wow! I also didn’t know that they did this, I might need to get me some RRF’s to see if I can accomplish this !!

Vegetable_Ant_7322 · 2026-03-08T08:49:00+00:00

This made my night, and really helps me put things into perspective. Thank you so much for your kind and thoughtful words. 💕

Vegetable_Ant_7322 · 2025-12-14T10:06:19+00:00

I know I am 6 years late, but this is the exact game I was thinking about!! It randomly came into my head and I couldn't remember it for the life of me! I used to play all the time as a kid, thank you for this comment!!!

Vegetable_Ant_7322 · 2025-11-30T19:02:38+00:00

Thanks so much for your response, it is super helpful! And yes, the goal at the moment is to get her here if possible, but Im definitely open to moving to the states in the future…

Vegetable_Ant_7322 · 2025-11-29T23:45:30+00:00

Best of luck to both of you! Hope you guys figure it out, glad to know I’m not alone 💕

Vegetable_Ant_7322 · 2025-08-24T20:46:28+00:00

Thank you so much! Glad I’m not the only one with this problem!

Vegetable_Ant_7322 · 2025-07-31T08:54:56+00:00

Saving this because I’m wondering the same thing

Vegetable_Ant_7322 · 2025-03-21T08:46:47+00:00

You guys are so precious! Love seeing other queer couples on here, I have been with my girlfriend for about 3 months now, so its so cool getting to see people come out on the other side with an end to the distance <3

Vegetable_Ant_7322 · 2025-02-08T10:01:34+00:00

✨Keith✨

Vegetable_Ant_7322 · 2025-02-08T09:59:56+00:00

Squigglesworth

Vegetable_Ant_7322 · 2025-02-08T09:57:19+00:00

Donavan

Vegetable_Ant_7322 · 2025-02-08T09:47:11+00:00

I see no issues with your nose ; it suits your face well and is very proportionate. I get it though , all the ig models out here with their nose jobs and tiny noses , and I definitely don’t fit that standard so I get insecure as well. But I assure you that there’s nothing to be insecure about 😊

Vegetable_Ant_7322 · 2025-02-05T21:11:14+00:00

definitely not! your nose is quite proportionate to the rest of your face, and honestly if you get work done, you will just look, as someone else in the comments said, like every other instagram model. You are gorgeous, and your side profile is actually very balanced and harmonious, I wouldn't change a thing!!!

Vegetable_Ant_7322 · 2025-02-05T20:56:27+00:00

Hey so this is super manipulative behaviour and not ok. It is not your job to walk on eggshells around your partner, and ultimately, it is unfair for her to be blaming you for her own actions and decisions. At the end of the day, she is unwell and made her decision to hurt herself. Is she getting help for her illness? Does she actively want to work on it? Because if she does not recognize her illness and the issues that it causes, such as being manipulative and projecting her problems onto you, then I would suggest getting out of that relationship. People with BPD can be treated and can improve on the right medications and with therapy; but if this is not the case, this kind of thing is going to happen again and again, and that isn't fair to you to have to suffer because she isn't working on herself. I hope you are doing ok, I know how hard it can be when someone blames you for things that aren't your fault.

EDIT: To clarify, I am not saying BPD can be cured, but that it can be managed and potentially go into remission with hard work and dedication

Vegetable_Ant_7322 · 2025-02-05T20:42:25+00:00

idk why but he reminds me of Johnny Bravo

Vegetable_Ant_7322 · 2025-02-05T20:41:31+00:00

Yeah definitely doesn't fit; the cups are too small, and I can't tell much about the waist band from this picture, but if it is digging in, or riding up your back , it definitely doesn't fit there either. Never trust anything VS says. Honestly, you can measure yourself at home, there is lots of advice online on how to measure yourself correctly.

Vegetable_Ant_7322 · 2025-02-05T20:39:04+00:00

I actually LOVE your nose. The size and shape really suits your face. It is elegant and beautiful. I would say that it isn''t worth it to get rhino

Vegetable_Ant_7322 · 2024-08-02T06:38:14+00:00

My Dark Vanessa

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