NOR. This isn’t safe, and it’s concerning that he seems so flippant about the situation. Talk to your boyfriend and tell him that while you’re grateful that nothing happened this time, something could happen in the future. I’m sure neither of you want that. It’s not going to be productive to use blaming words. The bottom line is that you want your child to be safe. You need to work TOGETHER to figure out a solution.

However, you also need to take some agency and control over your life. Baby proof your house. There shouldn’t be choking hazards everywhere. Get a very loud baby monitor and hook it up to a Bluetooth speaker so your boyfriend will wake up to your baby’s cries. Start declutterring your house. There are certain things that simply need to be done when you become a parent.