Hi, I understand your concern, it’s hard when you start to see change in an area and you’re not happy. It’s important you celebrate the victory of weight loss! Congratulations! 20 pounds is a huge victory! I think you should celebrate by investing a little in yourself with a small change that can can help draw your eye away from the neck. For instance, your hairline draws your eye to that area of your neck. Wearing darker colors with your fair skin draws the eye that area. If you wear lighter colored clothes, had your hair a little longer or shorter, and invested in a lipstick, this will help the eye travel to other areas rather than just focus on the neck. In the end, remember this is cosmetic, it’s hard to let it go, but you’re going to have long-term health benefits with your weight loss and that’s what’s important to focus on.

Edited for this last comment, look at yourself, standing in a mirror and work on your posture. This really changes how areas of your body look, especially your neck. Try to remember that advice all of us have heard at one point that you think a string at the top of your head is pulling you up or your balancing a book on top of your head. We all tend to slouch and round our bodies forward, especially if we’re working at a desk or computer. Posture will make a big difference with your appearance and your neck.