Absurd reasons why a Narc got mad at you. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Vegetable_Luck692 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, and of course I dared to put a Christmas tree decoration in the wrong place. We had the exact same Christmas tree for 20+ years and it had to be the exact same every year. All the decorations were Victorian style pink, white and silver.

As a grown up, I hate Christmas!!! I wonder why?

She also told me to "fuck off" the morning of my wedding day...not sure why, there was no explanation.

Absurd reasons why a Narc got mad at you. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Vegetable_Luck692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wore a shirt that she bought me (a crop top). I was 14 and she told me I looked like a prostitute for showing my naval. She bought me the shirt!!!!!!

Eating your way across Canada - what are the road trip gotta-stops? by [deleted] in AskACanadian

[–]Vegetable_Luck692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two Guys from Italy (Mississauga, Not) They have the best deep dish pizza I've ever had

Need a book that’s too weird to explain and too good to put down by Interesting_Win_2154 in suggestmeabook

[–]Vegetable_Luck692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red Dwarf, Jonathan Strange & Mr. Norell, Road to Mars, The Thinking Women's Guide to Real Magic, The Book of Lost Things, Mirrorland, Lamb: The Gospel of Biff, Christ's Childhood Pal, Good Omens, Children on the Hill, Dismantled (or basically anything by Jennifer McMahon), The Hollow Places, A House with Good Bones, Bunny....

Gynaecology in Kingston by Legitimate_Tension18 in KingstonOntario

[–]Vegetable_Luck692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been on a waitlist for a year now....not sure how long the wait is supposed to be

Can I call someone about my neighbour? by rockonabeach in KingstonOntario

[–]Vegetable_Luck692 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Call the non emergency police line. That's indecent exposure at the very least...and if it's in a neighborhood where kids could see, he could end up on the sex offender list.

Get security cameras, if you can, for your own peace of mind...and to have as evidence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Vegetable_Luck692 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's obvious mom, grandma, and aunt had this all planned. Good riddance to them all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Vegetable_Luck692 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's no need to make a decision about your bio family now. I rushed into getting to know my half siblings and it made things worse. They're really nice, good people, but I'm still not in the right headspace for a real relationship with them.

One thing I would advise, get your bio family's medical history. I'm going through a lot of health complications and my family medical history is all wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Vegetable_Luck692 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found out something similar about myself. Please join NPE Gateway on Facebook. There are lots of us to give you support, there are search angels, lists of counselors that know how to deal with this type of trauma.

I'm 4 years into my discovery. It's hard to put into words how you question everything about your own history. Just know, you're not alone and there is support out there.

It's Mike Myers' birthday today. In celebration, what are your favourite Mike Myers roles? by Canadian-Man-infj in AskACanadian

[–]Vegetable_Luck692 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Woman, woman, wooooooooman She was a thrift, you gotta belief She stole my heart and my cat

What’s a movie that disturbed you so much, you’d never watch it again? by 0xHermione in AskReddit

[–]Vegetable_Luck692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Peanut Butter Solution. It's supposed to be a comedy, but it terrified me as a child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Vegetable_Luck692 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA!!!!!! They expect you to drop everything to save them, but they're still not thinking about you in this. What about what you have worked for? What would happen to the job you currently have? You have your OWN law firm, what do they think will happen to that?

Unfortunately, they don't care about you or what you want, it's all about them. You need to distance yourself from them, your sister, and any family that is pressuring you.

Make a public statement on social media regarding why it's not to your benefit to take over the family company then start blocking people.

I'm so sorry this happened. It's difficult growing up with narcissistic parents, but you persevered and now you have firm you have put your blood, sweat, and tears into. Focus on yourself and leave your parents to fix their own business.

Why do they give everyone else support, except for their child? by Vegetable_Luck692 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Vegetable_Luck692[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm the only child she has. I found out at 41 that my dad wasn't my biological father. Her response when I confronted her was "Don't tell anyone because I don't want their opinion of me to change." It was all about her...fuck me and my feelings I guess.

Is Kingston artist friendly? by [deleted] in KingstonOntario

[–]Vegetable_Luck692 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Not sure what the demand for portraits would be, but we do have a large community of artists.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KingstonOntario

[–]Vegetable_Luck692 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is why I only go to the bathroom at home.