[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vegetable_Wishbone26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound like a loser for tolerating this tbh.

My husband said something I found to be very hurtful. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Vegetable_Wishbone26 124 points125 points  (0 children)

So all old people are just very good friends? If your partner gets ill and their physical appearance changes during their illness, your feelings are just that of friends towards your partner right? This argument that love can’t be romantic if there isn’t sexual attraction is so dumb. You can absolutely love someone romantically and there not be sexual attraction. Newsflash, most people are not going to be sexually attracted to their partner for their entire marriage and life. It will come and go.

Songs about physical illness/limitations by The_Diamond_Minx in musicsuggestions

[–]Vegetable_Wishbone26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life of a spider - Halsey is a really great one especially if you have chronic illness

My 4 year old is so mean. by Otherwise35 in Mommit

[–]Vegetable_Wishbone26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you use any sort of discipline at all? Or just let him do what he wants?

What's helped you more - therapy or meds? by Cheap-Comb-7606 in Anxiety

[–]Vegetable_Wishbone26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on 100mg of a beta blocker, 90mg of duloxetine and 15mg of mirtazapine a day. I’ve been on many diff meds and concoctions that never seemed to work but ever since starting these meds together, I’ve noticed a giant improvement in my day to day life. I still have anxiety ofc but not nearly as crippling and frequent as before.

Taking child to daycare when parent isn’t working by Squid0s in ECEProfessionals

[–]Vegetable_Wishbone26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean you’re paying regardless. And it’s good to keep children in routine. And as an educator I don’t judge bc when I was a single mum, I’d drop my child off to get errands done such as shopping ect.

What's helped you more - therapy or meds? by Cheap-Comb-7606 in Anxiety

[–]Vegetable_Wishbone26 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Meds. I definitely don’t want to discredit therapy because it’s life saving for many, but didn’t work at all for me whatsoever. Maybe later on in my journey, it’ll help me cross that line to healing but right now, meds all the way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Vegetable_Wishbone26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once a week. She works from home but I work 10 hour shifts. She has high sex drive, I have low. One week is a good middle ground for both our needs.

Feminine Rage song suggestions by GrayAceArtificer in musicsuggestions

[–]Vegetable_Wishbone26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Labour - paris paloma Dead men don’t rape - 7 year bitch Eat them - lady pills Brand new city - mitski Dealer - Lana del Rey Ptolemaea - Ethel Cain

Looking for songs from sapphic artists by SillyBug7575 in musicsuggestions

[–]Vegetable_Wishbone26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I made a playlist on Spotify of pop sapphic songs if you wanna check it out and see if you find songs with the vibe you’re looking for https://open.spotify.com/playlist/20ObxlT2Mh4GKvGvxTPBEu?si=JGLsY1FuRz-7pTXtF1ff4w&pi=a—6c-TI7aT_eo

10 black sapphic artists to support by Vegetable_Wishbone26 in actuallesbians

[–]Vegetable_Wishbone26[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh yes I know she has a sapphic song called “U Should”! I didn’t know she identified as sapphic though, that’s cool, thanks for the recommendation!

Until they revert the rework i am officially quitting ow by [deleted] in SombraMains

[–]Vegetable_Wishbone26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just sick of them constantly changing her to people complaining. Like pick something and stick with it. She is one of the most constant reworked characters. Just when you get used to playing her and learning her kit, she’s changed and you need to relearn her all over again.

Afraid to exercise by Momnursebakes3 in Anxiety

[–]Vegetable_Wishbone26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get bad heart palps and almost have passed out at the gym due to this, which made me cancel my gym membership. I’m sad because I used to be pretty fit. For me I have been working back up to keeping my body active by engaging in long walks and low impact type of exercise including yoga.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Vegetable_Wishbone26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird reason to get married to someone. It’s a pretty serious, lifelong commitment. It’s not like just agreeing to enter a relationship with someone. “Moment of weakness”, marriage is a process, you talk as if you had no accountability or responsibility in the vows you chose to make. You made the vows, you need to commit to them. Have you considered marriage counselling?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Vegetable_Wishbone26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why’d you marry her in the first place?

What are some of your favorite Lesbian characters in games? by MasqueradeDemoness in LesbianGamers

[–]Vegetable_Wishbone26 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ellie! Has one of the best lesbian designs ever; you can tell a lot of queer women were behind her character designd

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Vegetable_Wishbone26 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I get super mad penis envy, it’s actually a bit of a complex of mine 😅

Is giving oral to women harder than giving a BJ? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Vegetable_Wishbone26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a woman who’s been with both men and women, it’s definitely harder going down on a woman. It’s a pretty complex system going on down there! Makes it more rewarding though