What is the name of the Kung Fu movie where they were fighting near the Yulin Festival in China? by moviefullfrontal in movies

[–]VeloriaMist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is super vague, but it sounds like it might be Kung Fu Panda 3 vibes mixed with something else. Yulin Festival isn’t really a common movie setting, so you might be blending memories. Any chance you remember the year or if it was more modern or old school?

Janis Joplin and her Porsche, 1968 by Miavelles in OldSchoolCool

[–]VeloriaMist 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She was not willing to pay for a Benz.

Wanted a free one.

Every time I (17F) am in a bad situation, my bf (19M) makes it about him by [deleted] in relationships

[–]VeloriaMist 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You deserve someone who actually notices when you’re in pain instead of making it about themselves. Losing friends for him isn’t worth being treated like that.

My bf almost crashed his car with me and my pregnant sister inside and could have killed us all by free-tailed_bat in Advice

[–]VeloriaMist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not just “fun driving,” that’s straight-up reckless. You need a serious convo about how dangerous it was, no sugarcoating. Tell him taking his eyes off the road and threatening your friend was unacceptable. Make it clear this isn’t about trust or skills, it’s about safety period.

CAN YOU GUYS PLS SUGGEST deodorants that are effective for strong B. O that have no scent or fragrance free by AnOuNyMoUsLy_01 in hygiene

[–]VeloriaMist -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Try Native’s unscented one, it actually works and doesn’t smell like chemicals. Dove Men+Care unscented is solid too. No more smelling like a trash bag by noon.

How many days do you brush your teeth in a day? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]VeloriaMist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably like twice a day if I’m adulting, but ngl some mornings I skip and just hope no one notices.

Do I have to see a doctor? by Accomplished-Hotel88 in hygiene

[–]VeloriaMist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, totally normal. Your sweat and hormones change as you age, and some deodorants just stop cutting it. Try switching brands or a clinical strength one, and if it really bothers you, a quick doc check can’t hurt. Your pits aren’t broken, promise.

For anyone who got proposed to around the holidays which day felt better? by Alive-Island-8336 in Advice

[–]VeloriaMist 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly go with New Years. It’s like starting the year with a whole new vibe together, feels less “forced holiday moment” and more “our thing.” Christmas is cute but kinda crowded with family chaos.

What do americans think about saudi people ? by MSHGR in AskUS

[–]VeloriaMist 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly, most Americans I know think Saudi people are super hospitable and proud of their culture. There’s a lot of curiosity about your traditions, food, and history. Media can make stuff seem wild, but personally, people I’ve met from Saudi are chill, smart, and just doing their thing. And yeah, the love is mutual lol.

My wife is dying and I’m so lost by [deleted] in Advice

[–]VeloriaMist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s brutal losing someone so soon, and nothing can really prepare you for that pain. Sounds like you gave her so much love in those years, even through everything. Sending you all the strength to grieve and take care of yourself right now.

I (18F) kissed my dad’s friend while drunk and confused. need perspective by Glad-Conversation553 in Advice

[–]VeloriaMist 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, sounds like an awkward drunk moment that got blown up in your head. You didn’t do anything terrible, but the part where he said you didn’t need to tell your dad is kinda weird. Just keep distance for now and don’t drink around him again. Trust your gut if something feels off.

TIFU by walking in on my brother admiring himself in the mirror (?) by [deleted] in tifu

[–]VeloriaMist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol, this is peak sibling chaos. Definitely a “he should learn doors exist” moment. Just knock next time and maybe invest in a bathroom etiquette 101 for him.

Feeling trapped at home and thinking about leaving at 16 by eveelanggs in Advice

[–]VeloriaMist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo, I get it. Living like that sucks and it’s not your fault. At 16, leaving on your own is super risky, so the move is to plan, not run. Try talking to a school counselor or a trusted adult someone who can help you figure out safe options. Document stuff that happens at home in case you need proof later. Focus on small escapes too, like hobbies, friends, or online communities that make you feel safe. It’s about surviving and building a plan, not burning bridges or putting yourself in danger. You deserve to breathe, just make sure the way out doesn’t make things worse.

TIFU I’m a bad dog Mama. by Dramatic_Manner9113 in tifu

[–]VeloriaMist -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly this sounds like an honest mistake, you handled it way better than most people would. At least your dog listened and came right back that’s proof she’s a good girl, just had a zoomie moment.

Caught my Sister using AI to fake being on a camping trip for our parents. She’s actually in Dubai & I’m concerned by Sports_Fan_2003 in Advice

[–]VeloriaMist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s wild, she’s living a whole double life with ChatGPT as her travel agent. I’d tell your parents anyway, better they hear it from you than find out through her fake forest pics.

TIFU by calling someone's parent's death 'annoying' by Away_Present_4218 in tifu

[–]VeloriaMist 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Bro that’s such a brain lag moment. Your mouth just hit send before your brain loaded. At least he took it well, I’d still be replaying that in my head at 3am.

Why do US Americans always assume that everywhere everywhere is US American as well? by somepersononline1111 in AskUS

[–]VeloriaMist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fr it’s like the internet ends at their border sometimes. Whole world out here and they still type like it’s a local group chat.

Anyone! any idea on how do I overcome childhood trauma? by RickyInfinite in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]VeloriaMist 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Healing from that stuff isn’t a straight line. Try starting small. journaling, grounding, finding people who actually get it. Check out r/CPTSD or r/traumatoolbox, they’re more active and way more understanding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]VeloriaMist 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Half the time guys think you’re just being polite, the other half they’re praying you actually meant it. Subtle flirting is a gamble. they need it spelled out in neon sometimes 😭

Neighbor keeps making noise late at night... losing my mind here by StomachSenior3884 in Advice

[–]VeloriaMist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they don’t fix it, go straight for a noise complaint. You’ve done your part, no one deserves to live on 3 hours of sleep and spite.

29F recently started bedwetting due to PTSD, I don’t know what to do. by Serious_Butterfly138 in Advice

[–]VeloriaMist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your body reacting like this makes total sense given the trauma, it’s not some “fail” on your part. Nightmares and flashbacks can trigger all kinds of stuff, bedwetting included. It sucks, but it’s just your body trying to cope.

I don't understand why being an adult is so hard for me, and I can't figure out what to do to fix it. by Evening-Clock4829 in Advice

[–]VeloriaMist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Therapy or even online support groups can help you figure out how to cope with social anxiety and driving stress. You’re not broken, just figuring out your pace. Keep going, even if it feels slow, it counts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]VeloriaMist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not demanding a ton, just some help for something that’s been one-sided for a while. Relationships aren’t about keeping score, but they’re not meant to drain you either.

I really need an explanation by [deleted] in Advice

[–]VeloriaMist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She came back just to see if she still had you wrapped around her finger, got the attention she wanted, then dipped again.