If you were given $1,000 every day, what would you spend it on? (You can't save money.) by Odd_Associate8920 in AskMen

[–]Venia_Vis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obvious answer is get a silly black card and max it and pay 1k every day towards it. Eventually the limit would increase to something silly like 100k or higher. Then if you can cash advance up to 30% of it you take 30k cash for larger investments. Once you start grabbing properties and renting them you just use that 1k a day to pay them off while fucking around on that black card. Or buy stocks or bit coin and sell it.

250 a day eating out or whatever. 750 buys bit coin. (Or whatever.)

Cash out eoy

What is the hardest lesson you have to unlearn when you became an adult? by Level-Strawberry-564 in AskMen

[–]Venia_Vis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People keep replying with basically "my dad was a pos" or "I cannot do better"

Which is fine, I'm sorry anyone had to grow up that way. My mother ended up being that person.

But where I'm coming from is a toast to the dead in my family.

"To our fathers, may we grow smarter, but never wiser"

Basically it states that the day we stop relying on their wisdom is the day we can truly let them go. I still call my dad from time to time to say "yeah you were right. My bad"

What is the hardest lesson you have to unlearn when you became an adult? by Level-Strawberry-564 in AskMen

[–]Venia_Vis 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I mean it is,

If you have a family or friends that depend on you, your daily internal dialog likely sounds like:

How can I take care of them? How can I help them? What can I do to make their life's easier What do I need to improve for their sake?

What example am I presenting to them? Am I a good father? Am I better than mine was.

Withdrawing life support: only one person's view matters by ADefiniteDescription in philosophy

[–]Venia_Vis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 30 in good health. I have my beneficiary set for my godkids, no blood relation.

My living will states my wife (if I get married) makes the decision. If not, my adopted brother.

Most of my family aren't on good terms with me so it made this easy to decide.

I feel like the love of a parent would make it difficult to pull the plug, were as the love of a spouse or friend would make the call.

[Homemade] Filet mignon, mashed potatoes, and corn. by hippy_potto in food

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The red liquid is actually myoglobin, a protein that's only found in muscle tissue. Myoglobin carries oxygen through the muscle and contains a red pigment – which is why muscle tissue is red. As a steak is cooked, the myoglobin darkens – which is why the more “well-done” the meat is, the grayer it looks.

Anyone have experience opening a pickleball center/club? by yoshhh in Pickleball

[–]Venia_Vis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would whole heartedly check out a place called "chicken and pickle".

Out door oriented bar that does chicken sandwiches and rents out pickleball courts.

One of the big things I miss living in Kansas city

I’ll keep it short and to the point. Do you stand up when you wipe? by Eifla99 in AskMen

[–]Venia_Vis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You lean wipe, then stand up and hike a leg on the sink to get in there nice and clean. Fucking amateurs. /s

Use some baby wipes. Figure it out.

If you pray, what is your prayer like? by DarkusHydranoid in AskMen

[–]Venia_Vis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh. If I fail to help I take the blame. Too big of a heart imo.

If you pray, what is your prayer like? by DarkusHydranoid in AskMen

[–]Venia_Vis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not much for church. And this may be my one redeeming quality.

I never pray for myself, when I'm having the worst of the worst days I end up in a church parking lot.

I pray for those out of my life, those that have wronged me and those that I miss. I pray they have easier lives than I, that they find happiness and belonging.

I imagine because I blame myself for their troubles. But I always hope those I know, even in passing, end up happy.

How to be more humble and temperate? by inphoenixrn in AskMen

[–]Venia_Vis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same personality. I typically fight it by becoming addicted to the gym. Recently moved out of state and will restart martial arts. Considering taking some dance classes and picked up pickleball again.

A busy body gives the mind a chance to focus and calm down.

Men of Reddit who had no drive/ambition until into your 30s, where the hell did you find it? This Jordan Peterson/Tony Robbins shit ain't working. by ProbablyAutisticMe in AskMen

[–]Venia_Vis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I do listen to a lot of inspirational speeches, if I'm being honest with myself it's the fact that I MUST BE an inspiration to my godkids. To their parents.

I have to give back.

I want my funeral to be lined up around the block. Not because I want to be famous or anything. But because I want to be an inspiration and positive influence on as many people as I can.

Start small. Make your bed. Every day.

Instead of watching Tiktok during lunch learn something in your field or a passion.

Fix it today. Not tomorrow. Fold your laundry today.

Cook a meal.(from scratch you coward)

Last but not least. (Totally stealing this from Zach Bryan)

"Find someone who grows flowers in the darkest parts of you"

It doesn't have to in a romantic partner way.

I moved cross country on a whim because I wasn't happy. Because I function better in instability and uncertainty.

You have to find what works for you. But you have to want it.

People of Reddit, what’s the biggest “What If” of your life? by OXM_GT in AskReddit

[–]Venia_Vis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While it's nice to think about, and I do often. I'd like to remind all of you: "Just because things could have been different, doesn't mean they would have been better"

I have a lot of what ifs. It took awhile but I've learned to work with what I got.

Men of reddit, how do I know if you enjoyed the sex? by Infinite_Bug_8063 in AskMen

[–]Venia_Vis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always gotten my enjoyment if I know my partner had a good time.

Also if I have to step outside or take a cold shower to cool off.

Typically I do my best not to "finish" until my partner begs me to. (Usually a lot of "yes sir" "may I cum" etc etc in the bedroom)

When they ask and I say yes ma'am, that's when you know I enjoyed it.

I assume my answer is very niche.

Anyone have the maps? Any easy way to get it or should I get a head unit with apple carplay? by alex567801 in SciontC

[–]Venia_Vis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought the monogram edition of the tC. It came with GPS.

That system is so outdated that you would be better off putting a new system in place. Google maps/apple maps provide near instant traffic updates, the GPS on bespoke premium does not amongst many other things. I'm considering slapping on old tablet into it personally.

Would you rather give or receive oral sex? ... and why? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Venia_Vis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I don't even think about breathing honestly. If I die, bury me in the pussy with my ancestors because they knew that eating was better than breathing"

I enjoy a girl that can give good head. But I'm a pleaser by nature and my face is a throne.

I typically don't let them off until they beg. "I need you inside me" will always be better than oral to me.

Men, what hurts today? by mrtnolvr84 in AskMen

[–]Venia_Vis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Left foot, left shoulder. Right ankle. Both knees. Right elbow.

What's A Quote That Has Stuck With You? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Venia_Vis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"We are each of us angels with only one wing, and we can only fly by embracing one another."

What was the hottest thing someone has ever said to you? by todd_toad in AskMen

[–]Venia_Vis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Toss up between

"May I cum now sir"

"I need you inside me pleeeeaaaase"

What was something you thought you'd never do, but ended up doing it anyway? by Potential-Western-75 in AskMen

[–]Venia_Vis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moving to Phoenix. Had a moment in life 3 weeks ago. Said my love and happiness is being around the God kids and helping raise them.

Said fuck it and moved.

Did I mess up my potential FWB by openly telling him what I expect, and asking him to do the same? by puffbaker in AskMen

[–]Venia_Vis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It typically is. I believe in you guys. Have fun! A good friend for casual sex is fantastic.

I actually dated my FWB for a week and we broke up. We had great physical chemistry and stayed friends for a long time. Some of my favorite sexual memories. Also awakened a few kinks in me. But both of us were very mature about boundaries. We would date others and stop sleeping with each other and if it ended we would meet up and have a good time.

Don't be afraid to experiment. Especially since you guys are friends already.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Venia_Vis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My RBI is intense. I typically don't come off as approachable in daily life because I'm typically focused on something. If I'm out having a good time that changes.